Somewhere Over ( or under or around) the Rainbow! More Sluttiness at Mistress J’s

Posted on September 13, 2016 by Mistress J

Judy Garland once sang:

“Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
And the dreams that you dreamed of
Once in a lullaby…”

Many pervs dream of rainbows and butterflies, and here at Mistress J Studios in San Jose, California, I work hard at making those dreams come true. This Mistress likes pretty things, and nothing is prettier than a rainbow.

Crossing the rainbow bridge took on a new meaning!

When I came across this beautiful rainbow cock I couldn’t resist buying it. Created this year in honor of the Pride celebrations that take place across the country, I figured this would add a festive touch to my dong collection. I quickly learned the segmented colors are not only pleasing to look at, but serve a very interesting purpose.

Proudly standing at 8 inches of colorful fun, this cock is sure to please. One of the things I like about it is that it reminds me of a roll of LifeSavers® candy. Debuting in 1935, these hard to melt goodies have been making mouths water for 81 years. That’s a Hole Lot of Fun!

Speaking of mouth watering, I know MY mouth waters when I see a client eagerly sucking this rainbow bridge, hoping to please his mistress.

How low can you go?

Another fun aspect of the cock is using the colors as a measuring tool for deep throating. So far nobody has gotten past mid-orange.

The top of the yellow is four inches deep, the top of the green is two. Really folks, what’s a couple of inches between friends? I’d really like to see a slut take it deep into the yellow/top of the green for me. If someone can do that, they will get a very special prize.

Don’t worry, there are even more fun fruit flavors here at the studio!

The Candy Man once sang:

“Who can take a rainbow
Wrap it in a sigh?”

“Double your pleasure, double your fun”

I don’t think you will be sighing if I wrap your cock in my colorful Gates of Hell! Another special Pride edition toy, this one lives up to its name.

I like to think of the Gates of Hell as ‘a colorful ring, for your ding-a-ling‘! Ha ha, I crack myself up…

The website Kinkly describes the Gates of Hell: “The Gates of Hell is a male chastity device that gets its name from constraining the male penis when it is erect. The rings limit how big the penis can grow. It is called the Gates of Hell because it constrains the male erection in a state of pleasure.

Consisting of 3-7 rings. The first two rings constrict the penis and the testicles while the rest of the rings secure the penis in place. All of these rings are attached to a leather strap. By restricting the penis into a confined space, it causes the male penis to become extremely engorged, but difficult for him to ejaculate.”

I find it interesting that the colors for the balls are blue! ha ha.

As you can see, visiting Mistress J is like getting a taste of the tropics!

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If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you.

All Wrapped Up and No Place to Go.

Posted on June 1, 2016 by Mistress J

all wrapped up For some, the ultimate way to surrender is tight bondage. The feeling of complete immobility due to a tight wrapping of plastic wrap, rope or chains gives a feeling of helplessness that can be quite appealing to a busy individual. With all control and decision taken away, there is no other choice but to submit.

Those tight restraints, whatever they may be, can feel like a pair of warm arms wrapping the receiver in a comforting embrace. Those who enjoy bondage, like that feeling. For them, it is safe and secure.

Most of my clients are men. I live and work in Silicon Valley, which has a high stress work environment for most. I am proud to say my personal work environment is not stressful (for me anyway) and the only office politics I have to deal with involve my cats. The tech environment is practically nonstop, very competitive with lots of male posturing going on. With all this pressure, there needs to be release.

This client wanted his head and tummy free.

Bondage alters the balance of power. A stronger partner can be rendered helpless, which in itself is an unusual experience for most men, being rendered helpless by a woman. A naturally active individual is made passive, forced to be still. Not being able to move is an unusual experience for most of us. Those that like it, CRAVE it. It concentrates the mind in a unique way. The experience can also be very meditative, after all, what else can you do when you are tightly wrapped and lying down?

Mistress J is rather fond of using plastic wrap, duct tape and bondage tape. After a discussion with my client I become aware of what areas he might not want wrapped. I always oblige, I want him as comfortable as possible.

Some folks are claustrophobic and don’t want a hood. Others may have tummy issues and need a bare midriff. Some might want their hands and feet free, while other wish them tightly bound. Sexy parts can be left open, the face. nipples, genitals, knee caps, etc. Those areas, if negotiated and agreed upon, can be used for my pleasure and his or her torment.

Sarge is admiring the German flag made out of duct tape.

One of my favorite bondage buddies loves being wrapped in plastic wrap, then likes the added hold of duct tape. This type of session allows me to do artistic tape work. The man in question is German, so I used this opportunity to demonstrate my flag making skills with duct on his back. My cat Sarge inspected my work and gave his meow of approval.

One small step for man…

It is very important that the Domme never leave a wrapped up person alone. I called my other German friend Helga to help me watch my bound Deutsche friend. She was thrilled to help and wore her favorite dirndl in honor of the occasion. It isn’t very often she gets to use a German man as a footrest! Sarge quickly discovered a new resting place, and hunkered down for a nap.

Since I get a lot of requests for this type of session, I wanted to see what all the fuss was about and had a friend wrap me. I am claustrophobic, and could not wear a hood without hyperventilating so we settled on a face mask.

I did enjoy the wrapping and resting. I relaxed until I had to use the facilities, then was quickly cut out and released. Note: One should have an empty bladder before being wrapped.

Miss J wants to see what all the bondage fuss is about,

An advantage to tape bondage is the quick cutting with safety shears. My client emerges much like a butterfly out of the cocoon.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination and being wrapped in tape, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you.

Such Exquisite Torture! A session with a masochist…

Posted on May 10, 2016 by Mistress J

Allen* came over one sunny afternoon. He is a long time client here at Mistress J’s. Lately he has been craving some serious humiliation, degradation and even a little pain. What’s funny about Allen is he started off here as a sensual massage client. Now he is a hard-core pervy pain slut and I am constantly thinking of fun new ways in which to torture his ass. (among other things)

Allen was ordered to strip and wait for me in the dungeon. I was excited to use my three new ceiling hooks that Ryan hung when he lost that bet. I also had a few other surprises in store for him.

I chained these balls to the wall.

I know he is as fond of receiving CBT as I am of giving it. I have a few fun penis devices, but the problem is, Allen’s balls are rather large. It makes it difficult for me to wrap such devices around them so modifications are usually made. I knew he’d enjoy my spiky cock parachute, but also knew he wouldn’t be able to wear it the traditional way, wrapped around his balls and hanging downward. Instead, I wrapped it around his large cock and he had the thrill of experiencing a hundred little cat claws digging into his manhood!

I added a weight to the parachute so he could feel a nice swing when he moved. I took a chain and secured it to the wall. Poor Allen had to endure the entire session standing up, but that was by design, I wanted access to all the good parts.

Tryin’a break the chains but the chains only break me**

I went about blindfolding and restraining him to the ceiling with cuffs and chains. Mistress J is really digging the new hooks. I took out my trusty anal hook, wrapped a rubber around it and lubed it up. I slowly inserted it into Allen’s butt. His growing excitement was evident despite wearing a tight, prickly parachute on his ding-dong.

Feeling owned and controlled, Allen hung his head and leaned on the long dangling chains for support. He had no choice but to submit. I took out my electric gloves and ran them all over his body, administering sweet shocks in the most private of places. At times, I spanked his firm little arse with my favorite paddle. He let out grateful yelps.

Poor Allen. This man comes here on his lunch hour to be treated like a dirty rag. How dare Mistress J do this to him?!?

Well, I aim to please.

This man had a bit more “treatment” to endure. I took my little footstool and sat down. I lubed up my new anal speculum and switched the hook for the speculum because someone needed to be stretched for something bigger.

The metal was a little cold, and Allen let out a shiver as it slid into his behind. I took my time and slid it in and out several times before opening it up. Allen sighed with pleasure as the speculum gently pried open his anus. I secured the latch and let him enjoy the feeling of the pressure the instrument gave to his inner butt hole. I enjoyed this part of the session. Not many men get to feel the enjoyment of a speculum, at least not as often as women. I felt like a doctor indeed and wished I had a white lab coat.

Ride, Sally ride…

Feeling he was ready for the last part of my evil plans, I took out my harness and gave Allen what he came for; hard, forceful pegging! I took a photo of me riding his ass, which I did for 20 minutes. Do you feel sorry for him? I don’t. This man was getting what he deserved, and more!

So, Allen endured what I gave him, and when it was over, quickly devoured a bottle of water. He took a shower and came downstairs on shaky legs.

“That was a quick hour Mistress, thank you.” he said as he took leave of me.

I know he will be back soon.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

*Name changed to protect the innocent. **From Nick Jonas “Chains”.

Spring Time is Swing Time! A New Item at Mistress J’s.

Posted on April 10, 2016 by Mistress J

Ryan lost a bet.

We were racing our turtles, and his lost, so he had to be my kinky handyman in the playroom. I had a fabulous new toy, so I gladly put him to work.

Stud finder. Enough said.

Ryan had to hang my new sex swing. I like my handymen to wear a specific uniform (nekkid), which he enthusiastically changed in to. He grabbed his tools and set about finding a strong ceiling beam to attach it to.

Ryan gave a new meaning to the term stud finder, pun intended. He found a support beam and picked a place on the ceiling. Up it went. Next, we had to test it out.

Who better to test out the swing than the man who put it up? I put his naked ass into the swing and blindfolded him. I spun him around and we laughed as his feet hit my closet, Ryan is pretty tall. He hopped out and I put him on his tummy facing downward.

In this position, I simulated pegging him. We noticed his head was really close to the wall. I swung him back and forth, and if I did it vigorously, he would bang his head on the wall! This was not good.

I told Ryan he had to fix this problem and find a new place to hang the swing. I was irritated about this, and decided on a suitable punishment for putting an unwanted hole in the ceiling.

New spot found and tested. Now, on to the punishment!

I’ll turn you into a humble man…

I cuffed Ryan to the cross and had him bend over. I grabbed his cock and balls and pulled them backwards, a little rope isolated his balls. Next, I grabbed a few dowels and rubber bands and made a homemade humbler.

He needed to be humbled for his error. Ryan is a good handyman, but in the past has made a few mistakes in my playroom. He needed to think long and hard about these blunders. Bad Ryan!

Goodness gracious, great balls of fire!

I flogged Ryan’s back and used my cat claws on delicate areas. The problem with this punishment was, well, he enjoyed it. How was he ever going to learn?

“Get down on all fours.” I ordered, He complied.

I rather like predicaments, so I put him in one. And it was a dandy. Anal hook inserted and fastened to the wall, hands cuffed behind back, head resting on the floor. Next, a little foot torture. I hoped he was learning the error of his ways.

I quickly got the impression he liked where my feet were. Let’s just say Ryan was rising to the occasion! This was a very stubborn man who was not feeling remorse for anything.

I got out my cane and swatted his bottom. “Repent!” I yelled.

Ten, eleven, twelve hard strokes. Finally a whimper escaped his mouth. Three more firm wacks to make sure. Satisfied he was going to be more careful next time he worked for me, I released him.

“Forgive me Mistress, for I have sinned.” Ryan said.

I decided to forgive him and we made an appointment for following week to hang my new blinds.

If you are curious about my swing, flogging, caning and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

Teaching Danielle a Lesson For Being a Slut.

Posted on March 7, 2016 by Mistress J

Danielle was feeling slutty. Mistress knew it the moment she walked in. Her sluttiness hung on her like cheap perfume, cloying and sweet. She gave off that air of sluttiness that some mistake as confidence. Mistress knows better. Danielle needed to be taught a lesson, and quickly.

Danielle was here to serve Mistress J. But she had a little attitude, and Mistress does not like a cocky gurl. Mistress J turned Danielle over her knee and pulled down her panties, giving her bottom ten hard smacks.

She then made Danielle stand in the corner and think about what she had done.

Mistress J had received reports that Danielle had been behaving badly at work. She had been teasing the men with her boobs and wearing very tight skirts, hoping to taunt them into touching her privates. Danielle was also known to brag about her cock-sucking skills, but in reality had never, ever sucked one.

Danielle’s goods be locked up good and tight!

Mistress didn’t like that type of behavior.

“You little whore,” Mistress said sternly. “You want the boys to touch your clit, well, I’ll lock it up so nobody gets to play with it, including you!”

Mistress placed the steel cage around Danielle’s cock and balls. Danielle let out a little whimper as Mistress J closed the lock and tossed the key to the side.

“Dirty girl, you are always trying to suck cock,” said Mistress J. Do you even know how?”

Danielle shook her head no. “I don’t know how, but really want to try it,” Danielle said quietly.

A glorious Glory Hole!

Mistress pointed to a wall of cocks and told Danielle she was going to have to suck off each one.

“See all those hard cocks?” Mistress J asked Danielle, who had already dropped to her knees in anticipation. “You suck them until I tell you to stop. You need to practice sucking dick before I give you permission to go back to work and pleasure your coworkers.”

Danielle nodded eagerly. Her mouth was already beginning to water. She crawled over to the wall and hungrily began to suck on the smallest one, which was the blue cock.

She moaned with delight as her lips circled the member. This was even better than she imagined it would feel! It was so firm and round. The head felt so lovely to cup her lips around. Danielle bobbed her head up and down, slurping noisily and sliding down a little deeper each time. She hoped she looked like a porn star in action.

“Move to the black one.” Mistress J instructed. “Pretend it’s an ear of corn. Work it baby!”

Danielle moved her head along the BBC in a motion similar to playing the flute. Her lips glided along the outer rim, up and down the shaft. Her nose touched the balls and she slowly licked them. She slid back up to the top and circled the head with her tongue.

Danielle loved sucking these cocks. She felt very slutty and naughty. She loved the attention from Mistress J, she was working hard to please her.

Danielle next pleasured the purple and brown cock, following Mistress J’s orders. When she got to the large white cock Mistress J gave her special instructions.

“The white one likes teeth. You need to learn to use your teeth properly without biting the damn thing off!”

Danielle nibbled and bit the cock noting Mistress J’s approval.

“Now deep throat it.” Mistress J ordered.

Danielle’s throat and mouth were warmed up now and the thing slid down her throat easily. However, the cock was long and when it hit the base of her throat she gagged a little.

“Keep going bitch.” said her Mistress.

Danielle obliged. She sucked and gagged, tears slid down her eyes and snot started coming out of her nose. She kept going, Mistress didn’t say to stop.

Her lips were getting tired and it was hard to breathe with the snot in her nose. She was afraid the gagging would make her puke, and she didn’t want that to happen. She was hoping Mistress would let her stop pleasing this big dick, but Mistress wasn’t saying anything. She was just watching and nodding.

Danielle knew better than to stop. She was Mistress’ plaything and had to do as she was told. She sucked and gagged some more.

Finally, Mistress J told her to stop and to finish off the BBC with a titty fuck. Danielle did as she was told, taking it a step further to please Mistress J. She titty fucked both the blue and black cock and sucked the purple.

Mistress was very pleased indeed! When she was finished she got down on all fours and Mistress stuck a butt plug in Danielle’s boy pussy.

“You passed my test girl.” said Mistress J. “You may go and please the boys at work. But that cage stays on. When I decide you are ready, it will come off, and we will see what happens then!”

Mistress patted Danielle’s head and told her to stand up. She swatted Danielle’s behind as she was leaving.

“Go make mama proud!” Mistress J called out as Danielle left the house.

The End.

If you are curious about cock sucking and Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

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My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

Lock Him Up and Throw Away the Key! The fine art of male chastity.

Posted on January 20, 2016 by Mistress J

“I know why the caged bird sings.”* It’s because he is in chastity!

Some of ya’ll might be scratching your head and wondering what is this thing called male chastity?

To cage or not to cage, that is the question!

Perhaps you are conjuring up images of medieval wives kept under lock until the arrival of key-wielding husbands. The men were in battle, the wives at home, and something had to protect their property from an invading penis, but male chastity? Come on! What’s up with that?

Women get the bad rap of being the emotional creatures. That really isn’t true. After all, men often can’t control their own sexual desires. Their need for sex with a particular person or a sexual act is often the driving force behind all that they do. They will go to great lengths to get it, often practicing in amazing deception, denial and even expense.

So who’s the emotional creature now?

I for one fully believe in female-led relationships. My clients want to experience some sort of toys submission, and a loss of control, the degrees vary by individual. What better way to rule a man, then to control the very thing he thinks with (his penis). And many men agree!

In short, chastity devices serve as a way of controlling the wearer’s sexual behavior, physically blocking the possibility of intercourse and masturbation. It’s primary function is orgasm denial.

Orgasm denial is a multi-faceted erotic fantasy, but at its heart is a desire by a submissive man to give control of his sexual release to a dominant woman. Unlike many fantasies, it can be an all-consuming obsession, condemning the cage-wearer to constant frustration and anticipation.

Being locked in chastity doesn’t mean the denial of sexual pleasure, just an abstention from release. In fact many men revel in the new found gratification they glean from the tease and denial games they engage in with their “key holders”.

The caged male likes the feeling of ownership, especially ownership of their sex. I personally enjoy seeing the frustration and pent up desire in my guy’s face. His eagerness to please and be a good boy. The possible promise of release and release.

How thrilling it is to be locked up and set free when his Dominant wants him for her pleasure. Such sweet objectification! He is reduced to a plaything, and at her command and timetable.

This is how one is released when the key is lost.

I once had a sub who lived quite some distance from me. He locked himself up and mailed me the all the keys to his lock. He did not wrap them in tissue and they were flopping loose in a letter size envelope. The envelope ripped, and the keys were lost in a mailbox forever. Good thing he had a small saw to cut himself out when I wanted him free!

Chastity is such a complex subject. I could go on and on. But I’ll end this now and write more later.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about chastity and Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

This is a reference to the book I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings* by Maya Angelou.

“You’re Breaking My Balls!” And I like it…

Posted on January 5, 2016 by Mistress J

Ball Busting, CBT, Punching his Package. Such fun terminology for the same thing; beating a man’s bits!

A new meaning to the term “morning wood.”

CBT or Cock Ball Torture can range from a light tickling or teasing to a full on kicking of the crotch. It really depends on the client and his pain tolerance.

My tools of the trade may range from my good ol’ hands and feet, to paddles, floggers, electric items, clothespins, clothesline and claws. The person in the photo on the left is a real pain slut and likes to be beaten with a heavy wooden paddle.

I think the appeal of CBT for many is two fold.

First, there is the pain aspect. As stated earlier, the amount of pain varies by client. Pain can be very pleasurable within one’s limits. Light pain can be erotic. Tickling can be tantalizing, and torturous!

The second aspect is the attention given to a man’s nether regions. A friend of mine once said “The only reason men get up in the morning is the hope someone will look at their penis.” With CBT, all the attention is on that area. Everyone is looking at it, and I am sure it feels very special.

Speaking of attention, check out this video. Sissy Danielle’s little boy clit is getting teased with my toes! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McPCkxRI1io

Cat scratch fever!

I also feel many men enjoy the psychological thrill of the woman controlling the cock. She does what she wants to it. And the cock can’t do anything but obey…

On the right, my favorite tools, the cat claws love to poke and scratch balls, especially when they are stretched and separated in my black leather cock case. Sometimes it feels like I am playing with balloons and I wonder if they will pop? It is highly recommended one remains still, as sudden movements can be dangerous.

Wrap it up, I’ll take it.

So many men enjoy the feeling of having their “cucumber” encased that they get very excited. What happens next can be many things. It depends on my mood! Click on this link to see a client experiencing the whirligig, one of my favorite tricks. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-NGOWYTLzA

If you are curious about any type of CBT play, please let me know. I’d love to incorporate it into a session!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about CBT and Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

And the winner is… Click here to find out what is most requested.

Posted on December 23, 2015 by Mistress J

I know many of you have been hanging by a thread since my last post, wondering what the most requested service is over here at Mistress J Studios, in San Jose, California. Well, since it is the holiday season, I’ll tell you.

lotsofcocks

It’s pegging!

What is pegging some of you ask? It is getting poked in the butt with a rubber dong that is strapped around my hips.

It is amazing how many men desire the ultimate in role reversal. Remember that saying “It is better to give than to receive” ? My clients and I tend to agree, as I REALLY enjoy giving it good to a guy and having him take it like a girl!

The anus has thousands of nerve endings, thus making it a pleasurable experience when done right. Here is a link to Bliss Connection’s blog on 9 Tips For pain Free Anal Sex.

Pegging often goes deeper than just pleasure. I hear over and over, how my cis-gendered male clients want to give up control, to be taken, to surrender. Because of anatomy, even if they identify as submissive, their penis demands that they penetrate, and in most cases, move their hips.

The magical mystery tour is dying to take you away..

In pegging, the boy and the girl trade places. She gives, he receives.

I love it. I am the one who controls the warm-up, the pace, the depth and the position. I tease and deny. I teach. Often, I will instruct my client to try a slow teasing technique the next time he has PIV sex. Certain positions give him a chance to feel leg fatigue, a common occurrence with the Cowgirl pose. When the man wants to jump right into the pounding, I hold him back, reminding him who’s in charge, and dictate the pace.

I see what the male sees, and he sees what the female sees. Pegging leaves me exhausted, and him often energized. Does this sound familiar folks? In this role reversal, the female gets a taste of how the man feels and what he does. They do a lot of work ladies!

Please don’t think for a minute that straight men who like pegging are secretly gay. It’s not about that at all. A straight man is not gay if he wants to be pegged by a woman.

In our deeply misogynistic culture, men are raised with the fear of being labeled as someone who acts like a woman. How dreadful is that! (sarcasm) I mean, what man wants to be like a girl? Isn’t the man supposed to in charge of sex?

Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian, authors of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners, claim “straight men who get into anal penetration are among the most secure in their masculinity: because they’ve examined themselves, faced their fears.”

They go on to say “The idea that penetration is an act of dominance is almost certainly tied in to sexism and the notion that the woman’s role is inferior. Plenty of men have absorbed these ideas at a subconscious level. Even if a man doesn’t think it is an act of dominance when he penetrates his (male or female) partner, he may still hesitate to switch roles because he is afraid that it will mean losing his masculinity if he takes a turn catching instead of pitching.”

We’re steeped in a culture of prescribed sexual roles for men and women, so it’s a thrill to break the “rules”. I see a man enjoying the feeling of vulnerability he’s not accustomed to. The taboo of being penetrated is (for some) is what is exciting. Yes, it feels good, but here is a respectable, Dockers wearing, alpha man being bent over my couch and taking it in the a**. He has given up control and all he can do is spread his cheeks and smile. How fun for him!

And fun for me too. There is a feeling of power and responsibility for me. This man trusts me with his most valuable assets, (pun intended) his body and his dignity. And I take that role very seriously. I always start off gentle…

Since sexism goes both ways, one of the reasons pegging desired so often here is because my clients want it, but can’t get it at home. Many say their gal thinks it’s silly or emasculating. I think that attitude is what is silly. What can be more manly than a man feeling comfortable enough with his partner and share his deepest desires, whatever they are? And one where she can express and explore hers?

Pegging breaks convention, it liberates, it connects. And it feels good.

Just to be clear, Mistress J believes in consent from both parties, and one should never do anything that is not to their liking or something they find distasteful just to please another person.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about pegging and Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

You Naughty Boy! You Need a Spanking!

Posted on October 6, 2015 by Mistress J

When boys are naughty, they need to be spanked!

Spankings are the second most requested service here at Mistress J Studios. The number one request will be in another blog post, so hold on pervs.

Why would a strong, manly man willingly pay me to turn them over my knee and spank their behind like a naughty child? Excellent question Grasshopper.

Spankings are intimate and erotic. There is a feeling of vulnerability and helplessness when one is draped bare-assed across a knee, with the buttocks on full display. One is instantly reduced to a body part, and a luscious one at that!

Bare bottom spanking is primal. It is humiliating, and for many, it feels good.

To quote Dr. Victoria Zdrok from an article on AskMen.

The bottom is a prime erogenous zone; however, unlike other zones such as the breasts and back of the neck, the sexual arousal nerves in the bottom are buried in a layer of fat and require harder stimulation — like in spanking — to trigger them;

The physiological process of sexual arousal demands that before orgasm can occur, blood must be collected and kept in the genitals and nearby areas. Spanking creates just such a physiological response, as the stinging of the skin causes blood to collect in the bottom (and simultaneously in the nearby genitals), thus accomplishing “mechanically” what caresses and kisses do psychologically.

The feeling of “surrender” or submission is an important part of a sexual response, as many men need to give up control and give themselves “permission” to feel sexual. Spanking incites and reinforces such feelings;

Often the eroticism is triggered by something in youth. Perhaps a spanking from an Aunt or baby sitter triggered a sexual feeling. Maybe a photograph or scene from a movie stirred the first flush of desire.

For me, I got excited over the thought of the Spanking Machine. As a child in the mid-west, on a birthday of a classmate, the birthday person had to go through the Spanking Machine. The Spanking Machine consisted of crawling under a gauntlet of legs and receiving a spanking from each kid. The thought of delivering the spankings thrilled me. Especially on the male classmates. I dreaded receiving them, and was glad when my birthday fell on a weekend. The Spanking Machine could only be experienced on the actual birthday. Those were the rules.

I have mentioned in previous blog posts that I love a man’s butt! I love to sensually dominate men. So spanking a male submissive is perfect for me! I use my hand, a hairbrush, paddles and canes. When a man is bare bottomed and across my lap, I can FEEL his excitement! Sometimes I need to place a towel across my lap to protect my skirt from the excitement. It’s a lovely feeling.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about spanking and Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

A “Shocking” Tale of Electrical Attraction!

Posted on September 8, 2015 by Mistress J

plug Bzzzzz, Zap, “ouch!” Ah, the sweet sound of success.

Electrical play is one that has a niche market. It certainly isn’t for everyone, because it can either be super painful or super pleasurable. Now Miss J knows that is true for most types of BDSM play, for some reason electrosex is particularly scary! But for those who are into something “shocking”, I have a few toys to energize your session.

I know some of you are wondering what the heck is electrosex? According to Wikipedia “Erotic electrostimulation (abbreviated e-stim^[1] and also known as electrosex) is a human sexual practice involving the application of electrical stimulation to thenerves of the body, with particular emphasis on the genitals, using a power source (such as a TENS, EMS, Violet wand, or made-for-play units) for purposes of sexual stimulation.”

A TENS unit with a cock shock collar! Not for the faint at um, heart!

TENS unit? You mean like what they use at the Physical Therapist? Yes, electrostimulation has been used in the medical field for many years to treat chronic pain or rebuild muscles strength. So, with all it on this healing going on, a pervy person decided to try it on their naughty bits, enjoyed it, and a whole new sexual fetish was born!

Some people use electrostimulation for S&M play. It’s an excellent way to explore the pleasure/pain boundary without the usual risks of damage or lasting pain to the body. It can be precisely controlled and when it’s over, the one submitting to the stimulation is none the worse for the experience (something that cannot be said for most kinds of S&M play).

Before we go any further, I only use e-stim toys designed for sex play and the human body. If you have a pace-maker or heart arrhythmia or abnormalities, I will not use these on you. Your health and safety is my main concern.

For those lovely e-pervs out there, here is what I have to play with:

TENs unit
Cock Shock collar
electric butt plug
shocking nipple clamps

My favorites are the TENS unit and cock shock collar! I especially like using them together. My nipple clamps are also fun, but can be a bit much on a tender nipple. They work well in other exciting places too!

pd3723-04 So far, only one person has been brave enough to try the shocking butt plug. Yes, you read that right, only one. Do you think YOU might be brave enough to try this pleasure probe?

If you like sensation play and are curious about Electrosex and/or Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is Mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

Mistress J Studios

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