What to Expect When You’re Expecting~Mistress J to Open

What a long strange trip it has been.

After a long hiatus due to Covid19 and the health orders, the studio is cautiously reopening. A great many changes have taken place here at the studio.

The biggest change is my location! I sold the condo and bought a house a mile and a half away from the old place. Featuring a bigger playroom, air conditioning and a fireplace, Mistress J is ready to see her guests in comfort.

I moved at the beginning of the shelter in place and the quiet time allowed me to get my house and playroom in order. Though I will admit to constantly tweaking and adding exciting new things. I have also taken up gardening, which is very zen. I am expecting a very unique flower pot very soon that will be the PERFECT addition to my playroom.

Spank-a-doodle -do!

For example, a favorite purchase is this incredibly sexy spanking/fucking bench. You may have noticed I love red and black in my playroom, so I opted for the red bench. She is sooooo pretty. So far it seems to be a big hit. I love the restraints. I can’t have my guest wiggling away when I torment them.  Who wants to take a ride? 

In addition to these lovely items, I have some cute signage so people don’t get lost or forget where they are.

But what about the virus you ask? Well, let me tell you. I have purchased this air purifier that kills micro-organisms with a UV light. This will be on during our sessions. You will be asked to shower before we begin playing. As soon as we are done, I will immediately open the sliding glass door to let in sun and fresh air, and spray everything with alcohol and lemon myrtle. 

Once you leave the building, a cleaning I will go! Bathroom, playroom, hallway, doorknobs, switches, bottles, toys, pillows, furniture and equipment will get bleached or sanitized with cavi-wipes. 

I will only be seeing 1 person a day for a while. I stay home most of the time, enjoying my home with the exception to shop. I keep my house clean and feel I provide a healthy environment for my guests. I will expect the courtesy of letting me know if you feel under the weather so we can reschedule, and temperatures might be taken. Masks can also add to the fun!

There is nothing more sexy than safety!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Feeling Groovy. Let’s talk about Elysium®.

“In Greek mythology, only those specially favored by the gods entered Elysium and were made immortal …”

 -Encyclopedia Britannica

How slow can you go? That’s what Elysium is about.

The slow sensual touch of my hand, the silky feeling of my soft fluffy tools, a feather running across your skin. You are tied to my table, blindfolded and are wearing headphones. You cannot see or hear what will happen next…

Elysium focuses the senses, alternating soft brush strokes, excruciatingly slow bodywork and expert caresses with soft, silk bondage, and sensory focusing tools. Elysium brings you the ultimate sensual experience, and is the  ultimate test of self control.

Time is suspended. Soft music plays through the headphones. My touch matches the beat of the music. You are my captive, yet, you are not afraid. You know you can trust me and surrender to my lead.

 

“Slow down, you move too fast. You got to make the morning last.”*

 

What is that? You shiver as an ice cube teases your nipple and slowly makes its way down to your crotch. Warm oil surrounds your cock in a gentle, yet firm grip. You want to move, but cannot. How wonderful for you to have to lie there and take what Mistress gives.

The warm oil feels delicious. Her fingers seem to find every neglected place on your body. She touches your lingam sooooo slowly. It’s agonizing and fulfilling at the same time.

Wait a minute. Is Mistress J grabbing my balls with her toes? That feels great! You never knew you could last this long.

Uh oh, you are edging.You might explode. She backed off a bit. Whew, you can take more exquisite torture. For now…

More oil, more slow caresses, more sensation play. The pressure builds and subsides again and again. Until finally, bliss.

You really do feel like a god. 

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

*”The 59th Street Bridge Song (Feelin‘ Groovy)”, a by Simon & Garfunkel;

Why is a Sensual Massage by Mistress J so Sensational?

Sensual massage is one of my specialties. I love doing it, because I personally LOVE sensation play! I love receiving, and love giving. For folks not into BDSM, pegging, femminization or any of the rougher stuff,  sensual massage is a fabulous way to surrender and connect with me.

I set the stage with soft scent, candles and music. You start face down and I slowly warm up your body with soft touch. I might use feathers, a fur mitt, or silky fabric to get the goosebumps going.

I tickle the inside of your arm, along your side, behind the knee. Your erogenous zones are fair game, and I make use of them.

I use the music as a tool, using the beats and cadence to match what I am doing to your body. Even though this is a softer, sensual massage, I am in control, and guide you the whole time. I love to play, and you are my favorite plaything. 

Slowly I start to massage you with warm oil. Your legs, feet back, shoulders and buttocks get massaged. as I feel you sink further into surrender, I do my exquisite body glides. My curvy body is on top of you, and I slip and slide.

Then, I turn you over, and do it all again. Perhaps I start to incorporate something a bit more prickly? The wheel is fun, and sends shivers down your spine. A combination of heat and ice in exciting places makes you gasp with pleasure!

More warm oil, more body to body contact. Finally, a sublime ending.

Surrender never felt so good…

We can add a twist to this and tie you up!  An even deeper experience is Bondassage.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

 

 

 

Pegging for Newbies! Bliss is butt a short drive away.

I have these undies in red.

Mistress J enjoys working with newbies, and she especially likes taking a man’s ass virginity.

I get many inquiries from men who have never experienced the joys of ass play, but are dying to try. “Come on over.” I tell them. Let me pop your cherry! Bliss is butt a short drive away…

First, give yourself an enema at home. A clean butt is good manners.

How to I go about stretching out a virgin ass? The most important thing is to take my time. Why rush, the journey is fun. I start with a gloved finger and lots of silicon based lube. I tease the rosebud with circular motions. As I feel you relax, I gently slide the tip of my finger in. 

I have a good grasp of reading my guest’s bodies. I can usually tell when they are relaxed enough for penetration. I tell them to listen to their body. Some days the mind is willing but the body isn’t, it’s important to honor this.

The lube is applied and my fingertip is slowly warming up the back door. When I feels it’s time, my finger slides in. I give you a taste of all of my fingers. Next, I move on to my vibrating butt plug. After enjoying the cool vibes, I decide what you might need and can handle next.

Some butts need the slut machine, which is my Hitachi capped with a prostate adapter. This provides a fab warm up to a dildo. The dual speeds are guaranteed to make you squeal with pleasure. I love using this toy on seasoned as well as virgin butts. It’s a favorite of mine and my friends. I invite you to try it.

Now, this next part determines how slutty your virgin ass is. Do I need to use my smallest dildo, or can I start with something bigger?

Most of the time we start with my smallest burgundy strap-on. I keep 4 cocks mounted and ready to go. My harness of choice is the Terra Firma with buckle by Stormy Leather.  While I often start with the slimmest dildo, there have been a few butts able to start 1 or 2 steps larger. In fact, this happened yesterday.

Doggie style. A self portrait.

I like to have my guest take my cock on all fours while kneeling on my chaise lounge. I love the view, and it’s such a good height. Sometimes, this angle doesn’t work well for a virgin butt. I find having my slut lay on his back on my massage table with his legs up is a fun and easy way to slip in. Plus, this really is the ultimate roll reversal. I get to be the man, and he takes it like the little bitch he is.

I feel I am a fabulous butt-fucker. I suggest if you are curious about being pegged and are a newbie, you can’t go wrong with me.

Paul was a butt virgin, now he’s a regular. He takes my biggest cocks and begs for more. This is what he had to say:

“Getting pegged was such an intense feeling. It made me crave it bigger and deeper.”  And trust me folks, he does.

So many men started out with my small dong, now they crave the biggest things I have. And I am always adding to my collection.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Wax and Wane. A tale of wax play.

Mistress J has a steady stream of regular clients with particular interests. Today’s blog post features Moe,* a gentleman who is really into the art of wax play.

Always on the lookout for things to delight my guests, I came across these body wax candles . from Agreeable Agony when I was at DomCon this past May. I bought them with Moe in mind. You see, not only are they beautiful, but they come in glass pitchers that allow for a nice pour, and Mistress doesn’t get her fingers scorched. They burn at a slightly lower temperature, and I can usually peel them off in a long, sexy strip.

Such agreeable clean up

I start of his session by securing him to the table and warming him up with a nice, sensual massage, rubbing the warmed oil over his body. A coat of oil provides a nice barrier for the wax, and the dried wax comes off easier. After I get his body tingling with sensations, I randomly pour the hot, melted wax on him.

rollin’, rollin’ rollin’ RAWhide!

For added effect, I often use my ice roller. Moe is a huge sensation slut and likes the alternating feeling of heat and ice. Sometimes he even screams as the hot wax drips into a sensitive or intimate area… But he must like it, he keeps coming back.

We have conducted very comprehensive and scientific studies on the candles and have reached these conclusions:

The cheap candles burn the hottest. Moe likes those best, as he’s a wax slut. They are however, the most difficult to clean up because they crumble like crazy and make a big mess.

Variety is the spice of life!

Miss J pours it on thick.

The Agreeable Agony candles are my favorite. I love the pitcher for ease of pouring and also really enjoy peeling the wax off of his body. I aim to peel the whole strip off without it breaking. Look at the photo for an example of what I’m talking about.

The English citron candles I use to make the house smell good are also nice, and sit firmly in the middle of the rating scale. They come in a glass jar, which is handy, and they don’t crumble as much as the cheap ones, and they’re by far the best smelling ones I use.

So, to make the most of it, I use every type of candle I have and let Moe enjoy them, one by one, drip by drip.

Cleaning the wax off of him is fun for the both of us, and sometimes I thinks it’s my favorite part of the session, aside from Moe’s screams. As i mentioned earlier, I love peeling off long strips of wax. Bur what about the other types? Well, those metal claws I have come in handy. I use one to scrape off the chunks. It provides an interesting sensation for Moe and I think is even a little scary.

After tormenting his back, I turn him over and start all over again!

If you have a hankerin’ for wax play, and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*not his real name.

May is My Birthday Month. Read Some Birthday Porn.

This is a made up fantasy. A product of my deviant and dirty mind. Enjoy.

(This is not offered in a session pervs, please don’t ask.)

 

Another year passes, time to add another candle to the cake!

My slut knows I enjoy my birthday, and that I enjoy presents. The slut arrives at my house, wearing a  trench coat and a very strategically placed big red bow and nothing else.

At my nod he drops the coat and kneels in the middle of the living room. I am wearing a black see-through lace chemise without panties and silver stilettos. I slowly circle the boy, caressing his shoulders. I am wet with anticipation of unwrapping my gift. I notice the bow has moved and seems to be sticking further out. I tell him to kiss my feet and he obeys.

I lay the boy on his back and place a thin pillow under his head and a thicker one under his pelvis. Then, I tie his arms to the TV cabinet and his legs to the feet of the couch. He is a perfect starfish. Open, vulnerable and helpless.

I crouch over him and the slut gets a nice view of my creamy pussy. I decide I want some nice oral worship so I ride my sluts face. I alternate between smothering him and allowing him to fully taste and lick me. At intervals, I order him to gently bite and suck on my lips and penetrate me with his tongue.

The slut’s bow is standing at attention and I slide off his face and give him a good slap on the cock. I love the way his body twitches when I slap him.

I strap a chin dildo on this face then climb back on, taking my fill and pleasure on the large dildo. He squirms, being so close, but yet so far away from the prize he was so recently worshiping. I can tell he wants my lips back on his face. But I let him suffer as I fuck his face.

Wanting more, I slide off and rip off the purple bow. I slap his cock a few more times and it becomes super hard and red, dripping with white pre-cum that slides down to his balls. I am now hungry for my man’s meat, so I slowly impale him with my wet pussy. We both gasp with pleasure at that first touch. I love being in control of my fuck toy and I use him with pleasure and gusto.

I alternate between riding him slow and deep then hard and fast. His hips thrust wildly, the only movement his body can make. I keep him on the edge, when I feel him getting close, I slow down, or slap his face. I use him.

He is my gift, my present, and it is my birthday. It is all about me taking my pleasure how I see fit and I ride him until I come. I come hard and it drips down his cock forming a puddle at the base.

He wants to come, but I don’t let him. He whimpers in pleasure and pain at being denied. He loves to be used by me. He is just my pleasure object and he knows it.

I got what I wanted on my birthday. I got my bitch. 😉

How Liberating! Hands free pleasure at the studio.

Mistress J is all about multi-tasking. So any devices that can help her do two things at once, or sit back and enjoy a show are always welcomed.

Recently, Texas Tim gifted me with the Liberator Wanda Magic Toy Mount, The Wand Essentials Strap Cap and the Wand Essentials Passion Pillow Wand Harness from Amazon. We had fun with the Liberator during our session. 

Texas Tim has become a huge ass slut and I was determined to break in my new toys. Using the strap cap, I attached a nice sized dildo to my Lelo Cordless Wand.

Now I was ready to have some fun. At the appropriate time, the Texas slut presented his ass to me and I used the wand on him. The girth and curvature of the dong allowed me to keep it vibrating in his ass hands free and allowed me to prepare other delights, such as my strap on.

After pounding him with my strap on cocks, I decided he needed to entertain me. After all, he’s here for MY amusement, not the other way around. 

He was instructed to straddle the Liberator complete with ass wand and ride it, Tim willingly complied.  He squatted over the Liberator and his hole slowly swallowed the purple dildo. The firm foam allowed Tim to gyrate to his specifications, becoming an enabler of his pleasure.

I sat on the couch and watched.

I pointed the wand this way and that,  alternating his positions as he sat this way and that.

I think he enjoyed it best when he straddled it while facing the smaller side of the pillow. His ass and his legs got a bit of a workout! Later, he told me he really enjoyed the Liberator and it might have been his favorite thing that day.

Next time, I will use the Liberator with my Hitachi Wand with P-Spot adapter on him and see how well that is received. I also have the sex stool, which in combination to the above could relieve leg fatigue. Hmmmm….

The Liberator can be used for a woman’s pleasure too. In fact, I think that was the original intent, but Miss J is a naughty thing. 

Mistress J’s Desire:     

This could be me with you watching.

I have the desire to restrain a slut and force him to watch me pleasure myself with my Lelo. I’ll be comfortable perched on the Liberator and can ride it how I see fit. Ah, the agony!

Here is a caveat. Please DO NOT ask (or beg) for this particular scenario. It is for me to decide if and when I want to  do it. If you ask, it will not happen. No exceptions, not even hints or references.

If it happens, it will be a surprise.

As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

Drilling Me Softly… The Joy of the Drill-Do!

“I heard she sang a good song…”*

Wanna get tooled?

Yes, Mistress J is always on the lookout for new toys, and since 90% of her visitors enjoy ass play, she recently invested in a Drill-Do.

You see, women enjoy power tools as much as men, and this lil’ beauty has proven itself to be the queen of my crop. (pun intended)

This is an actual drill by Chicago Electric. I find that very appropriate since Mistress J’s family comes from Chicago. Serendipity perhaps?

This drill has a unique cock attachment and can accommodate any vac-u-lock style dong. The good news is, if I want to do any remodeling, I can switch out the cock attachment for a saw and take down what needs to come down. But, I digress.

The Drill-Do has proven itself to be a safe and fun toy that brings much pleasure to both parties. Mistress J is a stickler for hygiene, always uses a condom, and thoroughly cleans each and every item after use. 

Instead of a drill bit, I call it a drill butt!

Long term visitor Allen was my first victim. He submitted to some wax play and as he presented his lovely butt to me, I inserted the Drill-do. 

I think we we both a little nervous. I had never used a saw before and was unsure of the power and if I could handle such a machine. Allen was nervous because he was on the receiving end, and as someone very familiar with power tools, and, well, nothing more needs to be said.

I slipped on a condom and lubed up the dong. Once securely in place, I started the machine on low. I heard a delightful humming and couldn’t tell if it came from Allen or the Drill-Do. Perhaps both?

A Happy Mistress!

After the initial warm up, Allen gave the OK for faster power.  Soon, I had the Drill-Do going full speed! I felt so powerful holing my butt drill. Allen was very happy and could really take it, so I gave it.

Sweet Caroline

I am so glad I have my new toy. This has proven to be worth every penny, and is my ultimate tool. I have used it on quite a few butts, all with raving reviews. Mistress J has mastered the machine!

As always, Mistress J is looking for a few good men or women to play with.

Wanna try the Drill-Do? I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*From Roberta Flak’s Killing me softly with his song.

Down of the Farm. Fall is Harvest Time!

Were you pervs aware Mistress J is a farmer? Yes indeed. She specializes in a particular form of animal husbandry; the male cock! And now that its fall, let’s harvest these guys.

 

Big, angry cock!

Cockadoodledo!

The farm is a serene place, full of peaceful animals except for one. There is one very large, angry cock with a bright red head. Look at him! Why is he mad? Perhaps he needs a spanking to straighten him out.

 

Peter Cotton Balls.

 

Bunnies happily frolic in the barnyard. Look at Peter Cotton Balls. Isn’t he cute? I think so, and in typical bunny fashion, it looks like he’s ready to multiply!

 

Lots of hay and tools are regularly used on my farm. Perhaps I have even used a few on you? Mistress J keeps her tools clean and organized, as you can see here.  Farmer J knows the perfect tool is necessary for a good harvest. She is always buying new things. 

 

A very special tool is the drip bucket. Drips and spills occur almost daily. An organized farmer like Mistress J has a bucket ready to go to collect milky white substances.

Remember the rhyme “Jack and Jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of water”? Well, Mistress J tends to fetch other liquids here on the farm, and the cocks don’t complain either…

 

More Cowbell!

And no farm can be complete without cowbells!

 

 

If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination and want to visit the farm, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

The Perils of Being My Plaything!

It’s not my fault you are a dirty slut. But you are, and you need to be punished!

When you visit me, you agree to be my plaything. Your body is here for my amusement and entertainment. After we negotiate our boundaries, you become mine!  Now the peril begins…   

 

Taming the Teat:

Got sensitive nipples? I think nipple suckers are just the thing! Are you worried your nipples are too small? Relax, after an hour in one of these, your nipples will be nice and plump as the compression sends the blood to the desired area. They will be nice and tender afterwards too.

Girls just want to have fun. And this little lady liked electrical play on her nipples! Such a naughty thing. She needed to be put in her place. She was, and she liked it.

 

 

Humble Beginnings:

You know I like my men humble. I have both a homemade humbler and a store bought humbler. Here, Mike models the store bought humbler and a variety of festive clothespins I picked up last year on my vacation in Poland. Ain’t they pretty? And they feel sooo nice when Mistress takes them off! For some reason this photo makes me smile.

 

 

 

Controlling  the Cock:

Zap, Crackle, Pop! A fabulous erection controlling device is my zapper! The violet want comes with a variety of attachments and delivers a satisfying jolt wherever it’s needed. Leo is wearing the homemade humbler and to prevent him from finishing, I give him a hearty zap now and again. Another fun use for this is to use it during an edging session. A well timed zap keeps things in check.  You see, Miss J like to control everything

 

Where’s the beef?

Sometimes a man simply can’t control his erection! If that is the case, chastity shows him who’s the boss. Me! Here, Mike proudly submits to being locked up in his Bon 4 metal cage. He is owned by me and will now experience long term confinement. 

 

 

So that’s the story pervs.

If you are a nasty thing and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.