Tens Units, Violet Wands and Electrodes. Oh My!

In the cold, dark month of January in San Jose, CA, a special pervert, addicted to electricity visited me several times. A little electrical play was needed to combat the harsh California winter, to zap things up a bit. And, like a good neighbor, he called Mistress J.

Strapping him to the table we experimented with many things on many areas. Face down first, I used my magic gloves to warm him up with tingly little sharp prickles. Then, I moved to the Violet Wand. I zapped this and that, discovering what he liked best. I included the TENS unit on his butt and balls for maximum shock value.

TENS is short for Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation, it’s medical purpose is to stimulate muscles and nerves and ease pain. I’ve used it on my knee when I tore my meniscus. It works and you can control the intensity very easily.

Perverts soon realized a TENS unit can be used FOR pain rather than to alleviate it. Like the man in this blog post. Shocking, isn’t it? Pun intended. The sexy TENS unit has loops and clips as well as pads.

Turning him over, we did more of the same, but I took the liberty of using the TENS’ Velcro loop to use on his cock. I had recently purchased the “Cock Cap”, because during an earlier session I discovered he liked the tip of his shaft to be zapped. He’s a seasoned electrical slut and I knew I could give him some serious shock therapy!

I can let the TENS do it’s thing and with my free hands, move on to other places. My magic gloves are really fun. They allow me to tickle areas with tiny cat claw like sensations. 

The Violet Wand traveled up and down his body. Stopping at nipples, hips, balls, anus, and feet. I experimented with different heads, taking note of what he liked, and using the ones he didn’t as punishment for any misdeeds.

I don’t have a photo of it, but I have two TENS units, and he loved the loops and cap on his cock, with the pads around his genital area, in combination with the wand to jolt his junk!

I have a ground for the Violet Wand, and this lovely rubber whip send sharp sparks to all the good places! I warn yo, it is NOT for the faint of heart. It packs a punch, as does the mylar whip, which he seemed to like better.

If you’re curious about electrical play, I suggest giving it a try. I always start low and build up. Electrical play can be very soft and sensual, or pack a serious punch. If you have a pacemaker, this isn’t the play for you. But as you all know, Mistress J is a creative sort, so I have you covered.

Here’s an interesting article on electrosex https://www.kinkly.com/2/1367/passion-play/sex-toys/electrify-your-orgasms-tens-units-for-beginners

Locked Up for a Weekend and Made to Serve!

I have known Mike for 6 years, though it only feels like two. He has been featured in past blog and Twitter posts, and much has been made of his large balls. This past weekend, he had the opportunity for extended play and service.

Zip it! 

Mike arrived Friday afternoon with his custom made Bon 4 chastity device. (His balls are so huge, he had to order a device from the Netherlands) We did our usual hard core fun and games of CBT, paddling, nipple clamps, edging, bondage and anal.  It’s fun to play with Mike because he can take pain and is open to trying new things.

One of the new things he experienced that day was the Zipper! Clothespins on balls are common for Mike. but this time I had a shoelace strung in between. When I decided I had enough, I  gave a yank, and all the clothespins came off at once!

Cooling things off.

Next, he was going to try extended chastity lock up. In the past, his schedule had only allowed 1 night of being caged. I  was going to keep him caged Friday-Monday with some unique play on Sunday.

But first, we had to prep him for lock down. Mike gets excited when I spank him and he had a raging boner.  Because of that, we had trouble shoving his large jewels inside the cage. I had him cool things off in a bowl of ice water. Isn’t that a cute picture?

I sent him home with blue balls and the promise of play on Sunday. Apparently, this got him very excited and he had a hard time sleeping. He sent me this email and photo the next morning:

“This morning I woke to a morning wood at full attention even in the cage. I

Ready for take off!

couldn’t believe it, I was sticking straight out even with the weight of the cage, my balls pulled tight by the base ring and 3 inches of shaft behind the ring pushing the whole cage away from body.  It looked like a plane trying to take flight. I don’t think I’ve ever been that hard and frustrated in my life.  Knowing that you have the key and that I can’t really do anything is so intoxicating.”

Dressed to kill.

Sunday arrived, and Mike was the serving boy at my brunch for 3 kinky friends. Two women and one man arrived hungry and ready to see serving Mike in action. Mike was still caged, but I know sometimes a caged bird drips pre-cum, so I had him wear panties. This was his first time doing so. So many firsts for him this weekend.

 
He greeted the guests, taking their purses and offering drinks. He served our brunch, which was a spinach and cheese frittata, fruit salad, honey buns and sausage. He was polite, only speaking when spoken too and stood in the corner waiting for instructions. All the while he was on display.
 

After the meal, we went into the living room and we played two rounds of Jeopardy on my Alexa. Each guest had a paddle, and if he answered a question wrong, he received a whack or a clothespin on his balls, or both.

Nice buns!

 
We had cake and coffee, and two guests had to go, so me, Mike and another dominant woman headed upstairs to further torment Mike, and he liked it! Hey Mikey!
 
He was sent home and experienced another airplane situation that night. Hot and bothered, and not just from our heat wave, Mike came over Monday after work and I let him out of his cage.
 
I’ll give you three guesses what happened next!
 

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Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 
 

Wax and Wane. A tale of wax play.

Mistress J has a steady stream of regular clients with particular interests. Today’s blog post features Moe,* a gentleman who is really into the art of wax play.

Always on the lookout for things to delight my guests, I came across these body wax candles . from Agreeable Agony when I was at DomCon this past May. I bought them with Moe in mind. You see, not only are they beautiful, but they come in glass pitchers that allow for a nice pour, and Mistress doesn’t get her fingers scorched. They burn at a slightly lower temperature, and I can usually peel them off in a long, sexy strip.

Such agreeable clean up

I start of his session by securing him to the table and warming him up with a nice, sensual massage, rubbing the warmed oil over his body. A coat of oil provides a nice barrier for the wax, and the dried wax comes off easier. After I get his body tingling with sensations, I randomly pour the hot, melted wax on him.

rollin’, rollin’ rollin’ RAWhide!

For added effect, I often use my ice roller. Moe is a huge sensation slut and likes the alternating feeling of heat and ice. Sometimes he even screams as the hot wax drips into a sensitive or intimate area… But he must like it, he keeps coming back.

We have conducted very comprehensive and scientific studies on the candles and have reached these conclusions:

The cheap candles burn the hottest. Moe likes those best, as he’s a wax slut. They are however, the most difficult to clean up because they crumble like crazy and make a big mess.

Variety is the spice of life!

Miss J pours it on thick.

The Agreeable Agony candles are my favorite. I love the pitcher for ease of pouring and also really enjoy peeling the wax off of his body. I aim to peel the whole strip off without it breaking. Look at the photo for an example of what I’m talking about.

The English citron candles I use to make the house smell good are also nice, and sit firmly in the middle of the rating scale. They come in a glass jar, which is handy, and they don’t crumble as much as the cheap ones, and they’re by far the best smelling ones I use.

So, to make the most of it, I use every type of candle I have and let Moe enjoy them, one by one, drip by drip.

Cleaning the wax off of him is fun for the both of us, and sometimes I thinks it’s my favorite part of the session, aside from Moe’s screams. As i mentioned earlier, I love peeling off long strips of wax. Bur what about the other types? Well, those metal claws I have come in handy. I use one to scrape off the chunks. It provides an interesting sensation for Moe and I think is even a little scary.

After tormenting his back, I turn him over and start all over again!

If you have a hankerin’ for wax play, and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*not his real name.