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Locked Up for a Weekend and Made to Serve!

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I have known Mike for 6 years, though it only feels like two. He has been featured in past blog and Twitter posts, and much has been made of his large balls. This past weekend, he had the opportunity for extended play and service.

Zip it! 

Mike arrived Friday afternoon with his custom made Bon 4 chastity device. (His balls are so huge, he had to order a device from the Netherlands) We did our usual hard core fun and games of CBT, paddling, nipple clamps, edging, bondage and anal.  It’s fun to play with Mike because he can take pain and is open to trying new things.

One of the new things he experienced that day was the Zipper! Clothespins on balls are common for Mike. but this time I had a shoelace strung in between. When I decided I had enough, I  gave a yank, and all the clothespins came off at once!

Cooling things off.

Next, he was going to try extended chastity lock up. In the past, his schedule had only allowed 1 night of being caged. I  was going to keep him caged Friday-Monday with some unique play on Sunday.

But first, we had to prep him for lock down. Mike gets excited when I spank him and he had a raging boner.  Because of that, we had trouble shoving his large jewels inside the cage. I had him cool things off in a bowl of ice water. Isn’t that a cute picture?

I sent him home with blue balls and the promise of play on Sunday. Apparently, this got him very excited and he had a hard time sleeping. He sent me this email and photo the next morning:

“This morning I woke to a morning wood at full attention even in the cage. I

Ready for take off!

couldn’t believe it, I was sticking straight out even with the weight of the cage, my balls pulled tight by the base ring and 3 inches of shaft behind the ring pushing the whole cage away from body.  It looked like a plane trying to take flight. I don’t think I’ve ever been that hard and frustrated in my life.  Knowing that you have the key and that I can’t really do anything is so intoxicating.”

Dressed to kill.

Sunday arrived, and Mike was the serving boy at my brunch for 3 kinky friends. Two women and one man arrived hungry and ready to see serving Mike in action. Mike was still caged, but I know sometimes a caged bird drips pre-cum, so I had him wear panties. This was his first time doing so. So many firsts for him this weekend.

 
He greeted the guests, taking their purses and offering drinks. He served our brunch, which was a spinach and cheese frittata, fruit salad, honey buns and sausage. He was polite, only speaking when spoken too and stood in the corner waiting for instructions. All the while he was on display.
 

After the meal, we went into the living room and we played two rounds of Jeopardy on my Alexa. Each guest had a paddle, and if he answered a question wrong, he received a whack or a clothespin on his balls, or both.

Nice buns!

 
We had cake and coffee, and two guests had to go, so me, Mike and another dominant woman headed upstairs to further torment Mike, and he liked it! Hey Mikey!
 
He was sent home and experienced another airplane situation that night. Hot and bothered, and not just from our heat wave, Mike came over Monday after work and I let him out of his cage.
 
I’ll give you three guesses what happened next!
 

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 
 

You Naughty Boy! You Need a Spanking!

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Attachment-1 (1)When boys are naughty, they need to be spanked!

Spankings are the second most requested service here at Mistress J Studios. The number one request will be in another blog post, so hold on pervs.

Why would a strong, manly man willingly pay me to turn them over my knee and spank their behind like a naughty child? Excellent question Grasshopper.

Spankings are intimate and erotic. There is a feeling of vulnerability and helplessness when one is draped bare-assed across a knee, with the buttocks on full display. One is instantly reduced to a body part, and a luscious one at that!

Bare bottom spanking is primal. It is humiliating, and for many, it feels good.

To quote Dr. Victoria Zdrok from an article on AskMen.

  • The bottom is a prime erogenous zone; however, unlike other zones such as the breasts and back of the neck, the sexual arousal nerves in the bottom are buried in a layer of fat and require harder stimulation — like in spanking — to trigger them;Attachment-1
  • The physiological process of sexual arousal demands that before orgasm can occur, blood must be collected and kept in the genitals and nearby areas. Spanking creates just such a physiological response, as the stinging of the skin causes blood to collect in the bottom (and simultaneously in the nearby genitals), thus accomplishing “mechanically” what caresses and kisses do psychologically.
  • The feeling of “surrender” or submission is an important part of a sexual response, as many men need to give up control and give themselves “permission” to feel sexual. Spanking incites and reinforces such feelings;

Often the eroticism is triggered by something in youth. Perhaps a spanking from an Aunt or baby sitter triggered a sexual feeling. Maybe a photograph or scene from a movie stirred the first flush of desire.

For me, I got excited over the thought of the Spanking Machine. As a child in the mid-west, on a birthday of a classmate, the birthday person had to go through the Spanking Machine. The Spanking Machine consisted of crawling under a gauntlet of legs and receiving a spanking from each kid. The thought of delivering the spankings thrilled me. Especially on the male classmates. I dreaded receiving them, and was glad when my birthday fell on a weekend. The Spanking Machine could only be experienced on the actual birthday. Those were the rules.

I have mentioned in previous blog posts that I love a man’s butt! I love to sensually dominate men. So spanking a male submissive is perfect for me!  I use my hand, a hairbrush, paddles and canes. When a man is bare bottomed and across my lap, I can FEEL his excitement! Sometimes I need to place a towel across my lap to protect my skirt from the excitement. It’s a lovely feeling.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about spanking and Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

 My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.