CBT means your cock belongs to ME!

Mistress J picked a pack of pickled peckers!

When you enter the doors of Mistress J’s studio, you have agreed to become my plaything. What does Mistress like best? You guessed it, your penis.

Call it whatever you like; a cock, dick, boy clit, etc, the fact is, I get to play with it.  You have very little choice in the matter.

CBT (cock, ball torture) can be a hard, ball busting experience, but it can also be soft and sensual. It depends on the guest’s preference. Let’s talk tough today, I’m in a mood.

By now I am sure you are wondering what evil plans might Mistress J have for your manhood. Here are a few examples from very satisfied guests.

Chastity is a common fantasy, but few dare to explore the ultimate “mind” control. That’s right, men think with their dicks. I’ll cage your brain and  reduce you to quivering flesh. You’ll love the feeling of your arousal pressing against the steel or plastic cage, unable to grow. You can’t touch it. It frustrates you. I laugh and torment it as much as I like.

I like to grab things with my toes, and balls are the perfect size for grabbing and pulling.

Then, we have those cocks that need to be beaten into submission. A few firm wacks often do the trick. Did you know that there are a few men out there that get so aroused by penis smacking, they actually edge! Edging, in case you didn’t know, is when someone gets close to climax.

You won’t be board if your penis is on board!

I have many tools for penis smacking. Those include my hands, various paddles and floggers, and to provide support for all this, I have my penis board! It holds your member in place and I can smack away! 

One of the cruelest toys, and a personal favorite is my parachute. This leather beauty has tiny silver spikes on the inside. It fastens around the balls and pulls them down. Imagine a hundred little cat claws grabbing onto your balls! Such pleasurable pain!

Now, to add insult to injury, I have a few weights to add to the chains on the parachute. Why weight? It feels good! Don’t wait to try the parachute. 

Hair clips and clothespins are FANTASTIC CBT tools. I picked up these hand painted beauties in Poland and use them often. When I use the whole set it looks like a smile.

Wanna put a smile on my face? Book a session with me and let me play with your family jewels!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Tiffany Goes Back to School. Part 1

New backpack.

 

The beautiful Tiffany was coming to town for one last trip before the year ended and she wanted to go all out!

Tiffany wanted to have a milestone in her education, as she feels she is getting ready to graduate into a real and true sissy slut. 

She wants to LEARN as much as possible, and who better to teach her than Mistress J?

The slut was very horny and wanted to taste real cock. I had the perfect friend in mind when she made this request, but more on that in Part 2.

Tiff was going to get a pussy wax at a local place and check into her regular hotel. She was going to have Friday late afternoon and evening and much of Saturday for homework assignments. I told her I’d come over to her hotel Saturday evening for grading and play.

I had a special gift for her, a personalized backpack, hot pink of course, and left it at the desk earlier that day. I wanted her to have it waiting for her upon her arrival. It was full of clothes and gadgets, as well as instructions for the weekend.

Tiffany had two pages of homework assignments. I won’t bore you by listing all of them, so only the highlights will be discussed. 

One of my favorite tasks, was Tiffany was allowed to only eat “kid food” that weekend. Juice boxes, mac and cheese, PB&J, oatmeal, and soups were her menu. Which she had to purchase herself.

The school subjects were:

Physical Education, Ceramics, Math, Photography, Film Making and Creative Writing.

Ceramics was one of my favorite subjects. I had high hopes for this one. I supplied her with a Play Dough kit with an assortment of colors and letter stamps. She was instructed to make pornographic images and naughty words. Grading would be on technique as well as creativity. This is what she came up with. Grade: C. Why a C? I was hoping for interesting color combinations and naughtier people.

Tiffany fared much better in the other subjects, which also translated to a fabulous grade in Film Making.

Math required Tiffany to do multiplication and addition exercises by grabbing a squishy pecker with her butt cheek, walk across the room and drop it on the chair. She really knows her numbers and has tight little cheeks.  She could cross the room without dropping a pecker! Grade: A.

Tiffany really shined in PE. She took this subject seriously. She was instructed to do arm curls with the heavy metal dildo with a butt plug in her butt. Look at this photo. What perfect form! The plug stayed in the whole time. Grade: A+.

She may have scored an A+ in Film Making, but this girl did NOT take a single still photo. I had to make still photos from the videos. Such a Bad Girl. Photography Grade: F.

Creative Writing was another area of expertise. She was instructed to write love letters to Mr D, Amber and Mike Tyson (Tiffany is a huge fan).

Below is the letter to Mike Tyson. I want to send Mr D and Amber their letters privately, then they can give a grade themselves. Please email me at mistressjstudios@gmail with your email and I’ll forward her letter.

A peek up the school girl’s skirt!

Mike’s letter:

“Mike,

Love your power and body and I can’t wait until I am woman enough to take your BBC.  I am working with my Mistress to become more mature and I can’t wait until a BBC is allowed to be put in front on my body…  My mouth and bottom would by a lovely welcoming home for you as I would take my time fully exploring your needs.
 
Please think of me and let me know what I can do to prove myself to you.”
 
What do you all think of this letter? Aside from the rather casual salutation, do you think it is worthy of a B+? 
 
I leave this post with a photo of Tiffany studying her Bible. Stay tuned for my next episode of Tiffany Goes Back to School. The school girl cuts loose and becomes a real slut. You don’t want to miss it.
 
 
 

Locked Up for a Weekend and Made to Serve!

I have known Mike for 6 years, though it only feels like two. He has been featured in past blog and Twitter posts, and much has been made of his large balls. This past weekend, he had the opportunity for extended play and service.

Zip it! 

Mike arrived Friday afternoon with his custom made Bon 4 chastity device. (His balls are so huge, he had to order a device from the Netherlands) We did our usual hard core fun and games of CBT, paddling, nipple clamps, edging, bondage and anal.  It’s fun to play with Mike because he can take pain and is open to trying new things.

One of the new things he experienced that day was the Zipper! Clothespins on balls are common for Mike. but this time I had a shoelace strung in between. When I decided I had enough, I  gave a yank, and all the clothespins came off at once!

Cooling things off.

Next, he was going to try extended chastity lock up. In the past, his schedule had only allowed 1 night of being caged. I  was going to keep him caged Friday-Monday with some unique play on Sunday.

But first, we had to prep him for lock down. Mike gets excited when I spank him and he had a raging boner.  Because of that, we had trouble shoving his large jewels inside the cage. I had him cool things off in a bowl of ice water. Isn’t that a cute picture?

I sent him home with blue balls and the promise of play on Sunday. Apparently, this got him very excited and he had a hard time sleeping. He sent me this email and photo the next morning:

“This morning I woke to a morning wood at full attention even in the cage. I

Ready for take off!

couldn’t believe it, I was sticking straight out even with the weight of the cage, my balls pulled tight by the base ring and 3 inches of shaft behind the ring pushing the whole cage away from body.  It looked like a plane trying to take flight. I don’t think I’ve ever been that hard and frustrated in my life.  Knowing that you have the key and that I can’t really do anything is so intoxicating.”

Dressed to kill.

Sunday arrived, and Mike was the serving boy at my brunch for 3 kinky friends. Two women and one man arrived hungry and ready to see serving Mike in action. Mike was still caged, but I know sometimes a caged bird drips pre-cum, so I had him wear panties. This was his first time doing so. So many firsts for him this weekend.

 
He greeted the guests, taking their purses and offering drinks. He served our brunch, which was a spinach and cheese frittata, fruit salad, honey buns and sausage. He was polite, only speaking when spoken too and stood in the corner waiting for instructions. All the while he was on display.
 

After the meal, we went into the living room and we played two rounds of Jeopardy on my Alexa. Each guest had a paddle, and if he answered a question wrong, he received a whack or a clothespin on his balls, or both.

Nice buns!

 
We had cake and coffee, and two guests had to go, so me, Mike and another dominant woman headed upstairs to further torment Mike, and he liked it! Hey Mikey!
 
He was sent home and experienced another airplane situation that night. Hot and bothered, and not just from our heat wave, Mike came over Monday after work and I let him out of his cage.
 
I’ll give you three guesses what happened next!
 

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 
 

Slut Tiffany Returns for More Torture.

Tiffany keeps coming back. This East Coast slut always visits me when she’s in town on business.

I met her at her hotel on Friday evening to dress her for our shopping trip. I had purchased little red pegging panties for her and I was very excited to see them on her. I had a remote controlled vibrating butt plug, a chastity cage, and a shopping list! 

Mistress J prepares Tiffany’s ass for shopping in San Jose!

After saying our hellos, I bent her over the bed and lubed her up, gave her a quick warm-up and slid in the butt plug. She said it was VERY full. I shoved her boy clit into the chastity cage, and we went back to the Hustler Store. For some reason, Tiffany was walking funny in the hallway. Was it because her junk was imprisoned and she had a large bulb in her butt? I don’t know. I do know, she opted to take the stairs rather than the elevator, so it must have felt good!

We shopped at Tiffany’s favorite store where she bought a few outfits and a hood to make videos. I intermittently turned the butt plug on and off, and she was enjoying our game.

I sent her home with some tasks to complete before our 10:30 am appointment Saturday morning.  The tasks were to record herself doing the following things:

1. Tiffany, you are instructed to give a lesson on anal training.

  • Make sure your red panties get some screen time.
  • Use white board to prepare an outline/and or diagrams or tips. Erase board when necessary.
  • Use rubbers on dildos
  • Grading will be on ability to convey an idea.

2. Demonstrate how you can ride a dildo  Play “Mustang Sally” as you gyrate on the dildo. Sing along during the chorus. Grading will be on vocal talent and riding ability.

3. At 11 pm, record yourself writing 50 times “I’m a big whore and like to choke on cocks.” Grading is on neatness, legibility, uniform writing and overall presentation. Provide a shot of the clock.

4. At midnight, record yourself inserting ice cubes in ass. Provide a shot of the clock. Extra points will be given if you can insert more than 10.

5. In the morning record yourself putting on your dainty things under your street clothes. Take a shower with provided feminine smelling soap. Use soap all weekend. Have breakfast downstairs or outside with lingerie on under clothes. 

6. Sleep in chastity. Arrive with butt plug in place.

7. Wear pegging panties under street clothes all weekend, and fly home in them.

Grading:

Anal stuff: Tiffany did a great job explaining the anal training and riding the dildo. I personally felt she didn’t sing loud enough during the chorus of Mustang Sally, so points were deducted. Also, she was a little off key…

Ice cubes: Major points were deducted because she was unable to insert ice cubes in her ass. She said the shape wasn’t conducive to sliding in, or some baloney like that. A backup activity of an oral sex demonstration on a dildo was provided, and I must say, she did a good job with that and provided interesting camera angles.

Mistress J makes sub give a BJ in San Jose, CA

Sloppy BJs are the best!

Sentences: Tiffany did a great job writing her 50 sentences. This time, a blank paper was provided so she did not have the benefit of the lines. I feel her penmanship is fantastic. I did not deduct for all capital letters, because her writing is so easy to read. I love how uniform each sentence is, and how they practically line up down the whole page. Points were deducted however. She complained a little by saying 50 sentences is a lot…  Wait until next time Tiff.

On Saturday, Tiffany arrived on time. We watched and critiqued her videos downstairs, then went up to the playroom for the fun.

Since she wrote about sucking cocks, I wanted to see her cock sucking/chocking skills in action. She complied readily. Her greedy mouth satisfied my two spring colored cocks and gave very sloppy and noisy blow jobs.

Mistress J humiliates male sub in San Jose, CA

Pretty in pink.

Spring is my favorite season and Easter had just passed. I used to love going to my neighborhood Easter Egg hunt as a kid. Tiffany made a cute bunny, don’t you think? She hopped around the playroom as I hummed the Bunny Hop Song. Her basket was filled with Tenga eggs and since she was a good girl, she got to take one home.

Tiffany is a bondage and anal slut. So, up went the legs! I have hooks all over my playroom, so her legs were pried open with a spreader bar and attached to the ceiling, while her arms were above her head. I teased her boy pussy and enjoyed using my ice roller on her delicate parts.  Cock slapping, vibrator torture, more cock sucking & toe sucking occurred. 

Chastity in San JoseFinally, the chastity device came off! Poor Tiffany’s boy clit was in shock after being caged up for a night and morning. Despite it’s shriveled appearance, I was able to edge her several times. 

Tiff had saved her cum for a week in anticipation of our meeting. Needless to say, she was VERY sensitive and called out “edge” very early during the game. I used both my hands and my feet to edge her.

Finally, Tiffany was allowed her release. But into a condom. And she had to suck her juice out. Poor girl. Such a humiliating morning. I felt sorry for her, for 10 seconds.

But Tiffany is a trooper. She went up to San Francisco that night for more play. What can I say, girls really do just want to have fun.

Humiliation and exposure are my specialties! Mistress J in San Jose, CA

Humiliation and exposure are my specialties!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Dude Looks Like a Lady.

Tiffany wearing items from Hustler’s BDSM line!

“So never judge a book by its cover”

Tiffany came back to town. She was all riled up and ready to play. Thoroughly excited to see me, the slut called and texted several times before our session. Because she was so frisky, I knew I had to get her in line. I planned an elaborate homework assignment.

We opted for a split session, with shopping at the San Jose’s Hustler Hollywood store on Thursday evening followed by a two hour session Friday morning. 

Before shopping, she took Uber to my place and I locked her in chastity and put her in pink panties. Then, we hopped in my car and went to the store. I wanted to look at anal toys, and she wanted slutty clothes. Both are available there. She came away with a few nice things. I came away with ideas…

After Hustler, I dropped her off at her hotel with a bag of items and a homework assignment. The bag contained a bottle of water and a bar of chocolate (for refreshment) anal trainer, lube, rubbers, paper and clothespins.

She was told to make good videos for me because she would be graded. Additional grades will come from the feedback of this blog, so please comment.

Her instructions:

Record this:

1.  Insert condom-clad butt plug in butt.

2. Sit at the table with butt plug in and write 25 times “I am a slut, with a plug in my butt.”  Use properspelling and punctuation. Points will be deducted if not followed.
 
3. Put on stockings and panties and clothes pins on nipples. Dance around to “Dude looks like a lady” by Aerosmith. Grading will be on sexiness of the dance and enthusiasm.
 
4. To the song “Hurts so good” by John Mellencamp, set dildo on the bathtub rim and slide up and down on it.
 
5. Unlock cage and edge yourself 10x. Grading will be on how close you can get to the edge without cumming. If you cum, you must eat it. You will receive a failing grade if you cum.
 
6. Lock yourself back up and sleep with key around neck.
 
Don’t record this:
 
7. Give yourself an enema before arriving at my house.
 
The next morning Tiff arrived bright eyed and bushy tailed, wearing a bejeweled butt plug, chastity device and her fancy lingerie under her unassuming tech worker clothes.
 
We settled in to watch the videos. I have to say, they made me blush a

Love put me wise to her love in disguise
She had the body of a Venus, Lord, imagine my surprise!

little, especially the one where she rode the anal trainer. This was a funny sensation since Mistress J sees men in the depths of depravity every day. But I liked it. Up to the playroom we went, and things got really dirty there…
 
She admitted the homework assignments got her even deeper in to submissive heads pace, and made her super horny. She admitted it was hard not to cum during the edging assignment, and I saw this struggle on her face in the video,
 
Tiffany has this to say about the homework: “The homework assignments were a great way to feel my Mistress’ control outside of her room”
 
Slut Tiffany has a nice, petite body. (She can wear my shoes.) I made her strut around the room flaunting her sexuality.
 
Tiffany was really horny. She hadn’t cum for a week and she kept begging to be let out of her cage. She was subsequently punished for being annoying.
 
I keep a small wardrobe for her here. She’s the only one who can wear such small clothes. I put her in her denim dress and was shocked that her chastity device created unsightly and unfeminine bulges.
 
Tiffany has become quite the mouth and ass slut. She also enjoys bondage. I bound her arms behind her back and made her suck big cock. She gagged and drooled.
 
I wanted to tease her as much as I could, so I flipped her on her back and played with her boy pussy. I opened her up nice and wide then got out my Liberator and Dick-on-a-stick. She rode that thing with her arms bound behind her back. That dirty whore! She was moaning and groaning and begging to let me out of her cage. Pre-cum dripped through the crevices of the chastity cage leaving a pool on the tip of her clit. Her pussy was soaking wet.
 
 I stripped off her dress and gave her a sissy lip gag. This resulted in more drool. She sucked on her favorite Popsicle until tears came out of her eyes and snot dripped out her nose. Down on all fours, she got fucked with the very thing she just ate!  Nasty.
 
More bondage, more butt play, finally a release from the cage. She endured as much edging as she could, then begged to cum. I denied her request and the bitch was so horny, her cum slipped out and I quickly captured it in a Dixie cup and forced her to swallow. She’s good at that. 
 
I know she will return, and I will have some homework ready!
 

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 
 
 
 
 
 

 

 

Wax and Wane. A tale of wax play.

Mistress J has a steady stream of regular clients with particular interests. Today’s blog post features Moe,* a gentleman who is really into the art of wax play.

Always on the lookout for things to delight my guests, I came across these body wax candles . from Agreeable Agony when I was at DomCon this past May. I bought them with Moe in mind. You see, not only are they beautiful, but they come in glass pitchers that allow for a nice pour, and Mistress doesn’t get her fingers scorched. They burn at a slightly lower temperature, and I can usually peel them off in a long, sexy strip.

Such agreeable clean up

I start of his session by securing him to the table and warming him up with a nice, sensual massage, rubbing the warmed oil over his body. A coat of oil provides a nice barrier for the wax, and the dried wax comes off easier. After I get his body tingling with sensations, I randomly pour the hot, melted wax on him.

rollin’, rollin’ rollin’ RAWhide!

For added effect, I often use my ice roller. Moe is a huge sensation slut and likes the alternating feeling of heat and ice. Sometimes he even screams as the hot wax drips into a sensitive or intimate area… But he must like it, he keeps coming back.

We have conducted very comprehensive and scientific studies on the candles and have reached these conclusions:

The cheap candles burn the hottest. Moe likes those best, as he’s a wax slut. They are however, the most difficult to clean up because they crumble like crazy and make a big mess.

Variety is the spice of life!

Miss J pours it on thick.

The Agreeable Agony candles are my favorite. I love the pitcher for ease of pouring and also really enjoy peeling the wax off of his body. I aim to peel the whole strip off without it breaking. Look at the photo for an example of what I’m talking about.

The English citron candles I use to make the house smell good are also nice, and sit firmly in the middle of the rating scale. They come in a glass jar, which is handy, and they don’t crumble as much as the cheap ones, and they’re by far the best smelling ones I use.

So, to make the most of it, I use every type of candle I have and let Moe enjoy them, one by one, drip by drip.

Cleaning the wax off of him is fun for the both of us, and sometimes I thinks it’s my favorite part of the session, aside from Moe’s screams. As i mentioned earlier, I love peeling off long strips of wax. Bur what about the other types? Well, those metal claws I have come in handy. I use one to scrape off the chunks. It provides an interesting sensation for Moe and I think is even a little scary.

After tormenting his back, I turn him over and start all over again!

If you have a hankerin’ for wax play, and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*not his real name.

A Tale of Two Sissies

Actually, it was one sissy, but she saw me twice.

Someone is happy to see me.

Tiffany was trapped inside of a young, Asian male’s body. She longed for freedom, but lacked a safe place for expression. Tiffany had never sucked cock, but wanted to. She had never been pounded up the ass, but desired it. Tiffany had never worn stockings, heels or lingerie and cried herself to sleep for longing

Then one day, while visiting San Jose, she called Mistress J Studios. Mistress J invited her over they had fun together. Tiffany tried on some lacy undies and a bra. She walked in heels for the first time, stumbling only once.

Tiffany went through a strict training regimen. First, she had to warm up her throat on a series of rubber dongs. I stick them on a mirror and it become my glory hole. The slut kneeled down and worked the cocks well. Each time she went a little deeper and after mastering one cock, she moved on to a bigger one.

After the cock sucking, it was time to work on the clit and pussy.I like to have my sluts wear open crotch panties. That way I have access to the goods and the lingerie can stay on. The sissy’s boy clit (cock) and boy pussy (ass) gets a good workout, and she remains feminine.

She leaned against the cross facing me first. I slapped her clitty and pinched her nipples. Other types of play occurred, and after a while, she was instructed to turn around and present her pussy to me. She complied, and enjoyed a series of swats, pinches and floggings on her butt and back.

Finally, it was time for anal/pussy training. Spread out and chained pussy up on the floor she eagerly awaited my gloved fingers. After getting her tight hole a little looser, she was begging for more.

I won’t go into any more sordid details, but Tiffany got the training she needed. She was filled to the brim and went home a satisfied lady.

But wait, there’s more!  

Business brought the slut back to the bay Area and she continued with her training. A full makeover took place and I decided

Three cheers for the red, white and blue!

to dress her up like a trashy girl. She was also treated like one.  It sure is fun watching these girls blossom and spread their, um, wings.

Tiffany showed her true colors, taking it like a champ. She is a patriotic princess and believes in the freedom to be a slut!

If you have a hidden sissy and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

A Few More (new) Things…

Talk about Spring Cleaning!

I thought I’d use the first day of summer to talk about all the spring changes I made here at my humble abode. The condo was painted from top to bottom. New carpeting was installed on the stairs, landing and my bedroom. Now the best part: Laminate Flooring!

The entire downstairs and my playroom boast beautiful Pergo floors. It’s so pretty and durable. I invite you to come and book a session to see them in person!

Here is a pano shot of my playroom: 

X marks the spot!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The cross has been re-stained and is now mounted on the wall. It opens the floor quite a bit and creates a nice focal point.

 

A friend bought me a leather sling for my birthday. I have been wanting one forever, and now I have one! Let me know if you wanna take a ride! 

 

sling-a-ding-ding

 

 

 

 

 

I’m so happy with my updated space. I think you’ll like it too. As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Having a Ball!

 

Twist and shout

Bollocks! Mistress J loves to play with balls. They swing and bounce, they are fun to poke and prod and even twist! As my plaything, I get to do what I want to you. Instead of grabbing a fistful of dollars, I often will grab a fistful of balls!

Ball play is fun because it doesn’t need to be extreme, so everyone can enjoy. I grab both balls in one hand, pull them away from the body and twist. By keeping them together, there is no pain. Now, if you are craving a little pain, let me know and I’ll accommodate you!

twinkle toes

 When things start to get serious in a session, I’ll take off my shoes. Now My toes can join in the fun! My toes like the feel of balls. I like to step on them, grab the ball sack with my cute little toes and pull. My visitor enjoys looking at my manicured feet playing with his privates. Sometimes, I’ll even give the hair a little tug.

In some cases, I don’t want you looking at me.  When that happens, I turn you to the wall and go to town on the back of the balls! Poor baby…

 

Ouch!

For more extreme play and discipline, I’ll bring out my parachute that has little pins on the inside. The cute little chains that hang down are not only decorative, but serve a purpose. I can hang weights from them! And, as you can imagine, I have several.

For some reason, my male friends tend to walk on their tippy toes when this thing is dangling from the family jewels. Why is that?

The ice is right!

Things often get pretty heated here during a session with me. Have no fear, I have a simple remedy; a nice cold ice bag! This makes me smile just thinking about using it!

I get a lot of gratification playing with the gonads. This blog post only showcases a small sampling of the fun we can have together, so I suggest booking a session as soon as possible!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Trimming the Weeds. Or, Should a Man Manscape?

To manscape, or not to manscape? That is the question.

If a client asks me if they should manscape, I ask them if they like their partners hairy. I leave it at that and let them decide. After all, hairiness is a two-way street.

I am a very open minded Mistress, and enjoy the male body in all forms, and I do enjoy me some male chest hair, especially to rub my feet in. But when it comes to the nether regions, my opinion is, trimmed is best. Not bald, or totally bushy, but trimmed. 

This is for a few reasons. One, it’s pretty and the hair does not visually detract from the main attraction.

The second reason is for CBT, or cock ball torture. If you want Mistress J to tie up your balls with rope, shorter hair is better. Now, if you are a hard core masochist, the longer pubes will get pulled and twisted along with the goods. Perhaps that’s what you desire?

The third and most important is cleanliness. Sometimes particles can get trapped in butt hair despite a vigorous shower. Good boys want to be minty fresh for their Mistress.

 This graphic will give you a good idea on why Dommes might enjoy a clean works pace.

Decorating is a breeze!

Gents, you won’t get no action, if we can’t see what your packin’!

That being said, while I prefer things trimmed down under, I won’t turn away anyone who looks like this.  And while I understand some areas are hard to reach, I offer erotic shaving as part of a session. Imagine me, warm water, shave gel and a sharp razor by your bits!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about being shaved and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.