Tens Units, Violet Wands and Electrodes. Oh My!

In the cold, dark month of January in San Jose, CA, a special pervert, addicted to electricity visited me several times. A little electrical play was needed to combat the harsh California winter, to zap things up a bit. And, like a good neighbor, he called Mistress J.

Strapping him to the table we experimented with many things on many areas. Face down first, I used my magic gloves to warm him up with tingly little sharp prickles. Then, I moved to the Violet Wand. I zapped this and that, discovering what he liked best. I included the TENS unit on his butt and balls for maximum shock value.

TENS is short for Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation, it’s medical purpose is to stimulate muscles and nerves and ease pain. I’ve used it on my knee when I tore my meniscus. It works and you can control the intensity very easily.

Perverts soon realized a TENS unit can be used FOR pain rather than to alleviate it. Like the man in this blog post. Shocking, isn’t it? Pun intended. The sexy TENS unit has loops and clips as well as pads.

Turning him over, we did more of the same, but I took the liberty of using the TENS’ Velcro loop to use on his cock. I had recently purchased the “Cock Cap”, because during an earlier session I discovered he liked the tip of his shaft to be zapped. He’s a seasoned electrical slut and I knew I could give him some serious shock therapy!

I can let the TENS do it’s thing and with my free hands, move on to other places. My magic gloves are really fun. They allow me to tickle areas with tiny cat claw like sensations. 

The Violet Wand traveled up and down his body. Stopping at nipples, hips, balls, anus, and feet. I experimented with different heads, taking note of what he liked, and using the ones he didn’t as punishment for any misdeeds.

I don’t have a photo of it, but I have two TENS units, and he loved the loops and cap on his cock, with the pads around his genital area, in combination with the wand to jolt his junk!

I have a ground for the Violet Wand, and this lovely rubber whip send sharp sparks to all the good places! I warn yo, it is NOT for the faint of heart. It packs a punch, as does the mylar whip, which he seemed to like better.

If you’re curious about electrical play, I suggest giving it a try. I always start low and build up. Electrical play can be very soft and sensual, or pack a serious punch. If you have a pacemaker, this isn’t the play for you. But as you all know, Mistress J is a creative sort, so I have you covered.

Here’s an interesting article on electrosex https://www.kinkly.com/2/1367/passion-play/sex-toys/electrify-your-orgasms-tens-units-for-beginners

A Fireside Chat With Mistress J…

John is an out of town visitor who I see a few times a year. Our visits are always in the evening, and candle and firelight always set the stage for our sensual and spectacular sessions.

John enjoys being on display for Mistress J, and I love looking at his sexy body in the soft light of my fireplace. As a favored plaything, John likes to please his mistress and I enjoy telling him what he can do to please me. He is always in his serving uniform (naked) while I remain comfortably clothed.    

The session usually starts with him slowly stripping for me to music. He has a slim, toned tall and lean body, with just the right amount of body hair. After his strip tease, he treats Mistress to a nice, long sensual foot massage, complete with kissing and caressing. His strong hands know where my tootsies need it most, and such attention brings a smile to my face. I run my toes through his chest hair, giving the center hairs a nice tug with my toes. I also tug other things with my toes, but, I digress.

After the massage, he must show off his many skills, as well as his body, which he does with unbridled enthusiasm. John has a thirsty throat, as you can see in this photo. This nasty thing likes to suck it deep for Mistress J. He certainly knows how to give one heck of a sloppy BJ, and his cute little gagging sounds make me chuckle.

Sometimes, if Mistress is in the mood, John must give another show, one demonstrating his erotic skills. Can he gracefully mount and ride a dildo while masturbating and looking cute? Why yes, he can, and does so with glee. 

There’s a fair amount of slutty dirty talk during our sessions. John has a lady friend he chats with online, and they share their fantasies and mutually masturbate in front of each other. Their fantasies often involve me directing them to fondle themselves for my pleasure, and perhaps joining in the fun. One day I hope we can virtually include her in one of our sessions.

Talk such as this gets him extremely riled up. I swear this man’s cock just keeps getting bigger and redder, throbbing with delight. Sometimes I get riled up to and use my pink friend in front of him. It is safe to say, the session is often pleasurable for the both of us!

If you are in the mood for a nice, fireside chat with me, please reach out.

Intrigued? Contact me.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

CBT means your cock belongs to ME!

Mistress J picked a pack of pickled peckers!

When you enter the doors of Mistress J’s studio, you have agreed to become my plaything. What does Mistress like best? You guessed it, your penis.

Call it whatever you like; a cock, dick, boy clit, etc, the fact is, I get to play with it.  You have very little choice in the matter.

CBT (cock, ball torture) can be a hard, ball busting experience, but it can also be soft and sensual. It depends on the guest’s preference. Let’s talk tough today, I’m in a mood.

By now I am sure you are wondering what evil plans might Mistress J have for your manhood. Here are a few examples from very satisfied guests.

Chastity is a common fantasy, but few dare to explore the ultimate “mind” control. That’s right, men think with their dicks. I’ll cage your brain and  reduce you to quivering flesh. You’ll love the feeling of your arousal pressing against the steel or plastic cage, unable to grow. You can’t touch it. It frustrates you. I laugh and torment it as much as I like.

I like to grab things with my toes, and balls are the perfect size for grabbing and pulling.

Then, we have those cocks that need to be beaten into submission. A few firm wacks often do the trick. Did you know that there are a few men out there that get so aroused by penis smacking, they actually edge! Edging, in case you didn’t know, is when someone gets close to climax.

You won’t be board if your penis is on board!

I have many tools for penis smacking. Those include my hands, various paddles and floggers, and to provide support for all this, I have my penis board! It holds your member in place and I can smack away! 

One of the cruelest toys, and a personal favorite is my parachute. This leather beauty has tiny silver spikes on the inside. It fastens around the balls and pulls them down. Imagine a hundred little cat claws grabbing onto your balls! Such pleasurable pain!

Now, to add insult to injury, I have a few weights to add to the chains on the parachute. Why weight? It feels good! Don’t wait to try the parachute. 

Hair clips and clothespins are FANTASTIC CBT tools. I picked up these hand painted beauties in Poland and use them often. When I use the whole set it looks like a smile.

Wanna put a smile on my face? Book a session with me and let me play with your family jewels!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

The Stockings Were Hung by the Chimney With Care…

with hopes that Mistress J soon would be there!

Some men have a really strong stocking/antyhose fetish. So strong that the sight and feeling of silky stockings send them straight into subspace. This post is for the guys who like stockings.

My favorite thing to do to a fetishist is to torment and tease them by rubbing my feet all over them, in the back and the front. I have also used my stockings for bondage and gags when necessary.

This happened recently:

First, my slut strips down to his proper uniform and, naked, shows his appreciation for the honor of worshiping my feet. He plants a kiss on my shoe, then gently slides them off. I always require a massage, and when I feel ready, I proceed with the teasing.

My silky feet caress his naked body leaving no area untouched. I feel his excitement grow, and use it to my advantage. I have very talented toes. They like to grab things.

I have him rub his cock with my black-clad tootsies. I tell him to fuck my feet. He obeys…

He is then forced to lick my feet after they have been all over his cock. I hope he can taste his pre-cum and smell his balls. 

I bend him over and my horny feet run over his butt. I poke his butt hole with my toe. He likes it.

I kneel on the couch and with a nice view of my ass, he is forced to fuck my feet again. He is close to edging. He must beg to be allowed to cum.

The slut gets turned over again. I am going to make this man cum on my stockings. He’s told to stand up and as I caress his nipples he masturbates. I tell him to get close to the edge. Now he’s close. So i rum his man parts with my stockinged feet. He’s in heaven now and explodes.  I feel his warm gooey cum through the fabric of my stocking. I then have him peel off the soiled items and wipe my legs.

Now go home.

If you have a stocking fetish and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

Wax and Wane. A tale of wax play.

Mistress J has a steady stream of regular clients with particular interests. Today’s blog post features Moe,* a gentleman who is really into the art of wax play.

Always on the lookout for things to delight my guests, I came across these body wax candles . from Agreeable Agony when I was at DomCon this past May. I bought them with Moe in mind. You see, not only are they beautiful, but they come in glass pitchers that allow for a nice pour, and Mistress doesn’t get her fingers scorched. They burn at a slightly lower temperature, and I can usually peel them off in a long, sexy strip.

Such agreeable clean up

I start of his session by securing him to the table and warming him up with a nice, sensual massage, rubbing the warmed oil over his body. A coat of oil provides a nice barrier for the wax, and the dried wax comes off easier. After I get his body tingling with sensations, I randomly pour the hot, melted wax on him.

rollin’, rollin’ rollin’ RAWhide!

For added effect, I often use my ice roller. Moe is a huge sensation slut and likes the alternating feeling of heat and ice. Sometimes he even screams as the hot wax drips into a sensitive or intimate area… But he must like it, he keeps coming back.

We have conducted very comprehensive and scientific studies on the candles and have reached these conclusions:

The cheap candles burn the hottest. Moe likes those best, as he’s a wax slut. They are however, the most difficult to clean up because they crumble like crazy and make a big mess.

Variety is the spice of life!

Miss J pours it on thick.

The Agreeable Agony candles are my favorite. I love the pitcher for ease of pouring and also really enjoy peeling the wax off of his body. I aim to peel the whole strip off without it breaking. Look at the photo for an example of what I’m talking about.

The English citron candles I use to make the house smell good are also nice, and sit firmly in the middle of the rating scale. They come in a glass jar, which is handy, and they don’t crumble as much as the cheap ones, and they’re by far the best smelling ones I use.

So, to make the most of it, I use every type of candle I have and let Moe enjoy them, one by one, drip by drip.

Cleaning the wax off of him is fun for the both of us, and sometimes I thinks it’s my favorite part of the session, aside from Moe’s screams. As i mentioned earlier, I love peeling off long strips of wax. Bur what about the other types? Well, those metal claws I have come in handy. I use one to scrape off the chunks. It provides an interesting sensation for Moe and I think is even a little scary.

After tormenting his back, I turn him over and start all over again!

If you have a hankerin’ for wax play, and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*not his real name.

Drilling Me Softly… The Joy of the Drill-Do!

“I heard she sang a good song…”*

Wanna get tooled?

Yes, Mistress J is always on the lookout for new toys, and since 90% of her visitors enjoy ass play, she recently invested in a Drill-Do.

You see, women enjoy power tools as much as men, and this lil’ beauty has proven itself to be the queen of my crop. (pun intended)

This is an actual drill by Chicago Electric. I find that very appropriate since Mistress J’s family comes from Chicago. Serendipity perhaps?

This drill has a unique cock attachment and can accommodate any vac-u-lock style dong. The good news is, if I want to do any remodeling, I can switch out the cock attachment for a saw and take down what needs to come down. But, I digress.

The Drill-Do has proven itself to be a safe and fun toy that brings much pleasure to both parties. Mistress J is a stickler for hygiene, always uses a condom, and thoroughly cleans each and every item after use. 

Instead of a drill bit, I call it a drill butt!

Long term visitor Allen was my first victim. He submitted to some wax play and as he presented his lovely butt to me, I inserted the Drill-do. 

I think we we both a little nervous. I had never used a saw before and was unsure of the power and if I could handle such a machine. Allen was nervous because he was on the receiving end, and as someone very familiar with power tools, and, well, nothing more needs to be said.

I slipped on a condom and lubed up the dong. Once securely in place, I started the machine on low. I heard a delightful humming and couldn’t tell if it came from Allen or the Drill-Do. Perhaps both?

A Happy Mistress!

After the initial warm up, Allen gave the OK for faster power.  Soon, I had the Drill-Do going full speed! I felt so powerful holing my butt drill. Allen was very happy and could really take it, so I gave it.

Sweet Caroline

I am so glad I have my new toy. This has proven to be worth every penny, and is my ultimate tool. I have used it on quite a few butts, all with raving reviews. Mistress J has mastered the machine!

As always, Mistress J is looking for a few good men or women to play with.

Wanna try the Drill-Do? I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*From Roberta Flak’s Killing me softly with his song.

Down of the Farm. Fall is Harvest Time!

Were you pervs aware Mistress J is a farmer? Yes indeed. She specializes in a particular form of animal husbandry; the male cock! And now that its fall, let’s harvest these guys.

 

Big, angry cock!

Cockadoodledo!

The farm is a serene place, full of peaceful animals except for one. There is one very large, angry cock with a bright red head. Look at him! Why is he mad? Perhaps he needs a spanking to straighten him out.

 

Peter Cotton Balls.

 

Bunnies happily frolic in the barnyard. Look at Peter Cotton Balls. Isn’t he cute? I think so, and in typical bunny fashion, it looks like he’s ready to multiply!

 

Lots of hay and tools are regularly used on my farm. Perhaps I have even used a few on you? Mistress J keeps her tools clean and organized, as you can see here.  Farmer J knows the perfect tool is necessary for a good harvest. She is always buying new things. 

 

A very special tool is the drip bucket. Drips and spills occur almost daily. An organized farmer like Mistress J has a bucket ready to go to collect milky white substances.

Remember the rhyme “Jack and Jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of water”? Well, Mistress J tends to fetch other liquids here on the farm, and the cocks don’t complain either…

 

More Cowbell!

And no farm can be complete without cowbells!

 

 

If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination and want to visit the farm, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

A Handmade Tale. A Peek Inside Mistress J’s Dungeon!

You CAN keep a good man down!

 

It is said that necessity it the mother of invention. Well, Mistress J is blessed with a keen imagination and talented kinky friends who can help her invent pervy items for the dungeon!

Let’s take a look around the dungeon and see what has been crafted by hand.

The largest item is my cross. Made by Max, this cross has the ability to come apart for transportation. The wooden panels are attached to the metal X, which Max fabricated himself. The wood is birch, and now has a dark stain on it.

This photo is of the cross before it was stained. I think it needs a second coat. Who wants to be a good boy and do it for me? 

You might also notice I now have different curtains. I like changing things up now and again.

I love having nekkid men kneel in front of it for me.  A good place for a man is on all fours with his arse in the air, ready for inspection…

 

The second largest item is my Queening Chair. Perhaps you are wondering if this is a chair for short people? The answer is no. The chair is for the lady’s comfort during certain activities. The height is perfect for panty sniffing and administering showers into the mouth while the person in question lies beneath.  The chair also allows the lady to be comfortable while using her feet on select body parts. After all, why should Mistress J be uncomfortable, that’s the sub’s job!

The chair was modified by Tanya Caress. This is the last remaining chairs from my late grandmother’s beloved dining room set. I still have the table in my dining area. It is a gorgeous parquet patterned solid wood table, and I plan to keep it forever.  The chair is appropriately Queen Anne in style. Fit for royalty I say. I wonder if Grandma would approve of it’s current use?

 

I love to have access to various parts. A spreader bar helps with that purpose. I pry open a man’s legs, then cuff their ankles to the bar. I often pull their legs back and chain them to the wall. Such a nice view.

The spreader bar was also a Tanya Caress specialty, re-purposed from a closet rod. I still use it to hang things. ha ha.

 

One of my favorite items is my home made humbler. Simple and inexpensive, the humbler fits ALL sizes of balls because it is just dowels and rubber bands. I pull the junk back between the legs and secure the dowels around it. Try standing up and walking, I dare you!

On the same note, a pair of chopsticks and some rubber bands really show a nipple who is the boss. These two items give a new meaning to the term morning wood! 

 

I know these items are tempting you. Give in to your desire and give me a call. I’d love to create a session just for you!

If you are curious about my dungeon and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.
 

Stop and smell the roses! Panty Sniffing in San Jose.

The Scent of a Woman. It’s intoxicating. So much that they even named a movie after it. 

I get very sweaty down there while I work, and my panties pay the price!

Panty sniffing is a popular fetish. Some men simply can’t get enough of the female smell.  Smell is a pwerful motivator. 

Wikipedia states “Olfactophilia or osmolagnia is a paraphilia for, or sexual arousal by, smells and odors emanating from the body, especially the sexual areas.” One man said my nether regions smell like “A salty ocean breeze.”

Taking in the salty air…

I often have guests ask if they can have the honor of smelling my undies. I often comply, and if I know in advance of their penchant for panties, I will don a pair of well worn fragrant ones, and let them enjoy the bouquet!

Smothering is a popular request.  As my guest lies on his back, I envelop his nose and mouth as I sit down. He is smothered by my thighs and ‘things’ until he can’t breathe. Now, imagine a gentleman with a panty fetish enjoying those sights and smells while I wear well worn and dirty panties! 

Mistress J is a big fan of thongs, and wears them daily, but some men have a granny panty fetish. I have had several clients request that I wear traditional nylon knickers, the kind you buy at Target eight to a pack. Perhaps they remind them of days gone by, like seeing them on the neighbor’s clothes line as they dry in the afternoon breeze. 

Granny panties!

Here is a photo of my round, curvy, juicy bottom fully encased in shiny nylon. What are your thoughts? 

I have been known to give my guest a lovely parting gift of the panties worn during the session. These are the ones he has sniffed and worn on his face. I put them in a sandwich baggie to preserve the smell, and my guest gets to think of our session every time he opens the bag!

Some men want to wear my panties, mingling their scent with mine. How naughty and intimate!

Now remember readers,  a true gentleman would NEVER steal a woman’s panties. That is just plain rude! 

A glimpse up my skirt.

After all, these small articles of fabric can be expensive, and every gal has her favorite pair. Most gals are happy to donate their dainties if asked. But theft is just wrong. Mistress J does not tolerate that kind of behavior.

If you are curious about the smell of my panties and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

Wax On, Wax Off. Wax Play With Mistress J

Grasshopper, I know sometimes your cravings require a delicate balance between sensuality and sadism. I am writing about the perfect session for you. A hot wax session! Hot candle wax play is fun. It is artistic. It requires submission and tolerance. And, if scented candles are used, can be a fruity good time!

Ryan was feeling stressed out. I invited him over for a hot wax session and he readily agreed. My weapons of choice that day were a white pillar candle, a red cranberry candle in a tin, an evergreen scented candle and two sex candles. One in purple, the other red.

I lit the candles 10 minutes before he arrived, so the wax would be nice and gooey when it was time to play. After he stretched his nekkid body on the massage table, we got down to business.

Securing his hands to the table, I proceeded to pour the colorful wax on his shoulders. Red, purple, green, white. So colorful and pretty. 

Ryan enjoyed the warm wax dripping onto his skin. Sometimes he’d wiggle if  a drop was unusually hot, then he’d settle back down and mutter his pleasure at the heat.

I pour my wax  from a pretty high angle to prevent burning the skin. The distance gives the wax time to cool off so the subject won’t get burned.  We did a side by side comparison of a sex candle vs. a regular candle. The reviews were mixed. 

Ryan thought the sex candles (which claim to burn at a lower temperature) actually felt hotter on contact, but cooled faster then a soy candle. Another client said the opposite. He thought the sex candles were 5 degrees cooler. I found these results interesting, and I think more research is in order.

Ryan’s back and shoulders are hairless, so I poured the wax with glee. You could say that I poured my heart out to him. Ha, ha. His ass was a little hairy, so I rubbed some massage oil in before coating his buns. A coat of oil helps the wax come off the hair. Ryan said the oil made the wax feel a tiny bit hotter, something he enjoyed! I also made sure I coated his balls. 

Now, I have played with Ryan many times and I know his tastes and limits. He is a pain, sensation and bondage slut. If I am browsing the internet for toys and am doubtful, I ask myself, “would Ryan like this?” If the answer is yes, I buy it. My point is, I knew he could take the heat of the wax and enjoy it. I know wax play isn’t for everyone, but those who like it, will enjoy a session with lil’ ol’ me. 

Love, Italian style!

That is a good lead in for the next part. I poured wax in his butt crack and balls! Ryan wiggled and giggled. He liked it. I knew he would, the little perv. I used green, red and white wax for his under carriage. How festive it looked. Viva Italia! I had a sudden craving for pasta. 

The session went on with me pouring wax all over him. Eventually, he like, totally, looked like an 80’s splatter painting, it was sooo rad! He was so bright and colorful. And the dried wax created a little bit of a restricted feeling, another thing Ryan enjoyed. 

When I felt my masterpiece was complete, I stopped pouring and let the wax harden. Now it was time to clean him up for the shower! I took one of the cat claws and scraped off the wax. It came off in hard clumps. Little bits clung to the hair on his balls. I used a dry brush and got them clean. He seemed to enjoy the attention down there.

Feel like experiencing some hot wax play? I’d love to pour it on thick!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about wax play & my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.