Tiffany Goes Back to School. Part 1

New backpack.

 

The beautiful Tiffany was coming to town for one last trip before the year ended and she wanted to go all out!

Tiffany wanted to have a milestone in her education, as she feels she is getting ready to graduate into a real and true sissy slut. 

She wants to LEARN as much as possible, and who better to teach her than Mistress J?

The slut was very horny and wanted to taste real cock. I had the perfect friend in mind when she made this request, but more on that in Part 2.

Tiff was going to get a pussy wax at a local place and check into her regular hotel. She was going to have Friday late afternoon and evening and much of Saturday for homework assignments. I told her I’d come over to her hotel Saturday evening for grading and play.

I had a special gift for her, a personalized backpack, hot pink of course, and left it at the desk earlier that day. I wanted her to have it waiting for her upon her arrival. It was full of clothes and gadgets, as well as instructions for the weekend.

Tiffany had two pages of homework assignments. I won’t bore you by listing all of them, so only the highlights will be discussed. 

One of my favorite tasks, was Tiffany was allowed to only eat “kid food” that weekend. Juice boxes, mac and cheese, PB&J, oatmeal, and soups were her menu. Which she had to purchase herself.

The school subjects were:

Physical Education, Ceramics, Math, Photography, Film Making and Creative Writing.

Ceramics was one of my favorite subjects. I had high hopes for this one. I supplied her with a Play Dough kit with an assortment of colors and letter stamps. She was instructed to make pornographic images and naughty words. Grading would be on technique as well as creativity. This is what she came up with. Grade: C. Why a C? I was hoping for interesting color combinations and naughtier people.

Tiffany fared much better in the other subjects, which also translated to a fabulous grade in Film Making.

Math required Tiffany to do multiplication and addition exercises by grabbing a squishy pecker with her butt cheek, walk across the room and drop it on the chair. She really knows her numbers and has tight little cheeks.  She could cross the room without dropping a pecker! Grade: A.

Tiffany really shined in PE. She took this subject seriously. She was instructed to do arm curls with the heavy metal dildo with a butt plug in her butt. Look at this photo. What perfect form! The plug stayed in the whole time. Grade: A+.

She may have scored an A+ in Film Making, but this girl did NOT take a single still photo. I had to make still photos from the videos. Such a Bad Girl. Photography Grade: F.

Creative Writing was another area of expertise. She was instructed to write love letters to Mr D, Amber and Mike Tyson (Tiffany is a huge fan).

Below is the letter to Mike Tyson. I want to send Mr D and Amber their letters privately, then they can give a grade themselves. Please email me at mistressjstudios@gmail with your email and I’ll forward her letter.

A peek up the school girl’s skirt!

Mike’s letter:

“Mike,

Love your power and body and I can’t wait until I am woman enough to take your BBC.  I am working with my Mistress to become more mature and I can’t wait until a BBC is allowed to be put in front on my body…  My mouth and bottom would by a lovely welcoming home for you as I would take my time fully exploring your needs.
 
Please think of me and let me know what I can do to prove myself to you.”
 
What do you all think of this letter? Aside from the rather casual salutation, do you think it is worthy of a B+? 
 
I leave this post with a photo of Tiffany studying her Bible. Stay tuned for my next episode of Tiffany Goes Back to School. The school girl cuts loose and becomes a real slut. You don’t want to miss it.
 
 
 

Locked Up for a Weekend and Made to Serve!

I have known Mike for 6 years, though it only feels like two. He has been featured in past blog and Twitter posts, and much has been made of his large balls. This past weekend, he had the opportunity for extended play and service.

Zip it! 

Mike arrived Friday afternoon with his custom made Bon 4 chastity device. (His balls are so huge, he had to order a device from the Netherlands) We did our usual hard core fun and games of CBT, paddling, nipple clamps, edging, bondage and anal.  It’s fun to play with Mike because he can take pain and is open to trying new things.

One of the new things he experienced that day was the Zipper! Clothespins on balls are common for Mike. but this time I had a shoelace strung in between. When I decided I had enough, I  gave a yank, and all the clothespins came off at once!

Cooling things off.

Next, he was going to try extended chastity lock up. In the past, his schedule had only allowed 1 night of being caged. I  was going to keep him caged Friday-Monday with some unique play on Sunday.

But first, we had to prep him for lock down. Mike gets excited when I spank him and he had a raging boner.  Because of that, we had trouble shoving his large jewels inside the cage. I had him cool things off in a bowl of ice water. Isn’t that a cute picture?

I sent him home with blue balls and the promise of play on Sunday. Apparently, this got him very excited and he had a hard time sleeping. He sent me this email and photo the next morning:

“This morning I woke to a morning wood at full attention even in the cage. I

Ready for take off!

couldn’t believe it, I was sticking straight out even with the weight of the cage, my balls pulled tight by the base ring and 3 inches of shaft behind the ring pushing the whole cage away from body.  It looked like a plane trying to take flight. I don’t think I’ve ever been that hard and frustrated in my life.  Knowing that you have the key and that I can’t really do anything is so intoxicating.”

Dressed to kill.

Sunday arrived, and Mike was the serving boy at my brunch for 3 kinky friends. Two women and one man arrived hungry and ready to see serving Mike in action. Mike was still caged, but I know sometimes a caged bird drips pre-cum, so I had him wear panties. This was his first time doing so. So many firsts for him this weekend.

 
He greeted the guests, taking their purses and offering drinks. He served our brunch, which was a spinach and cheese frittata, fruit salad, honey buns and sausage. He was polite, only speaking when spoken too and stood in the corner waiting for instructions. All the while he was on display.
 

After the meal, we went into the living room and we played two rounds of Jeopardy on my Alexa. Each guest had a paddle, and if he answered a question wrong, he received a whack or a clothespin on his balls, or both.

Nice buns!

 
We had cake and coffee, and two guests had to go, so me, Mike and another dominant woman headed upstairs to further torment Mike, and he liked it! Hey Mikey!
 
He was sent home and experienced another airplane situation that night. Hot and bothered, and not just from our heat wave, Mike came over Monday after work and I let him out of his cage.
 
I’ll give you three guesses what happened next!
 

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 
 

Barefoot in the Park with Tiffany

 

Our slut enjoys exercise. She also enjoys showing off her body. So what better way to combine the two than to take her to a local park for some outdoor exercise!

When she told me she’d be in town on 8/8, I started planning her outfit. Tight shorts, sports bra, gaff panty, socks and a hat were purchased. I even sprung for a new wig and tramp stamp temporary tattoo. She was going to be gorgeous. 

I picked a local park, Almaden Lake, which is near me and usually quiet on the trail, especially during the week. There is a par course and secluded areas around it. An ideal setting for sluts to display their athletic ability.

I have to admit, this session was full of mishaps, but we had fun anyway, and got some great shots.

Tiffany arrived bright eyed and bushy tailed Thursday morning. I had acquired a butt plug with rattles inside. How embarrassing to be jogging and making butt noise at the same time. Well, the plug was too big for her tiny butt hole, so she had to run with her smaller dedicated jewel butt plug instead. 

Our intention was for her to arrive at the park partially dressed, go into the ladies bathroom, change, put on lipstick and come out.  As I mentioned, this park is usually quiet on a weekday morning, that particular day the park was CROWDED! 

Nice pussy.

There were at least 10 old men playing boccie ball in front of the bathrooms, with a brownie troop nearby. The pavilion by the trail head had a group of 20 kids and chaperones. Not to mention, there were tons of walkers circling the lake. It was a beautiful day. A nice 82 degrees with no humidity. I think that was the big draw.

Tiffany was a bit self conscious of her slutty shorts with well padded gaff, so we opted to park near the entrance to the trail right from the road, bypassing the lake entirely. In the car, she changed out of her sweats, but kept her pussy cat shirt on. We than proceeded to the trail eager to try her skill on the par course. That day, it seemed like every single retired person was walking their dog, not to mention the amount of bicyclists too. Holy moley.

I noted she was visibly worried, and she told me she feared her boy clit would poke through her shorts, and cause mayhem on the trail. I opted for a secluded spot off the trail and by the stream. She relaxed a bit and we did some warm up stretches.

Downward facing tramp.

Caught up in the serenity of the stream and surrounding trees, Tiffany was inspired to do some yoga. Downward dog was her favorite pose, as it showed off the tramp stamp and tight butt nicely.

I wanted the slut to do some Prancercise in the grass. Tiffany can be a bit of a diva, and almost cried because her new white socks got a little mud on them. Sigh.

Run Tiffany, Run!

I was irritated by her drama and made her play fetch. She liked the doggie pose so much, she needed to be treated like one!  I threw the ball to her and she brought it back to me in her mouth like a good puppy.

Tiffany is as fond of running as I am, so we headed to a different spot where she could show off her fine running form. Look at that stride! Look at those boobs! Those legs! Such a graceful runner!

Summer isn’t complete without baseball. She did a few laps around the ball field and ended with some sexy stretches. Did I mention the grounds crew was out getting the field ready for the afternoon little league game? Well, they were, and they gave our girl a few encouraging whistles.

Why did she feel more comfortable with the grounds crew than the folks at the park? She’s a whore that’s why. She’s always looking for attention.

Put me in coach, I’m ready to play. Today…

I decided she could go to work without release. That should teach her! I am the boss, and I control her cum.

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Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Slut Tiffany Returns for More Torture.

Tiffany keeps coming back. This East Coast slut always visits me when she’s in town on business.

I met her at her hotel on Friday evening to dress her for our shopping trip. I had purchased little red pegging panties for her and I was very excited to see them on her. I had a remote controlled vibrating butt plug, a chastity cage, and a shopping list! 

Mistress J prepares Tiffany’s ass for shopping in San Jose!

After saying our hellos, I bent her over the bed and lubed her up, gave her a quick warm-up and slid in the butt plug. She said it was VERY full. I shoved her boy clit into the chastity cage, and we went back to the Hustler Store. For some reason, Tiffany was walking funny in the hallway. Was it because her junk was imprisoned and she had a large bulb in her butt? I don’t know. I do know, she opted to take the stairs rather than the elevator, so it must have felt good!

We shopped at Tiffany’s favorite store where she bought a few outfits and a hood to make videos. I intermittently turned the butt plug on and off, and she was enjoying our game.

I sent her home with some tasks to complete before our 10:30 am appointment Saturday morning.  The tasks were to record herself doing the following things:

1. Tiffany, you are instructed to give a lesson on anal training.

  • Make sure your red panties get some screen time.
  • Use white board to prepare an outline/and or diagrams or tips. Erase board when necessary.
  • Use rubbers on dildos
  • Grading will be on ability to convey an idea.

2. Demonstrate how you can ride a dildo  Play “Mustang Sally” as you gyrate on the dildo. Sing along during the chorus. Grading will be on vocal talent and riding ability.

3. At 11 pm, record yourself writing 50 times “I’m a big whore and like to choke on cocks.” Grading is on neatness, legibility, uniform writing and overall presentation. Provide a shot of the clock.

4. At midnight, record yourself inserting ice cubes in ass. Provide a shot of the clock. Extra points will be given if you can insert more than 10.

5. In the morning record yourself putting on your dainty things under your street clothes. Take a shower with provided feminine smelling soap. Use soap all weekend. Have breakfast downstairs or outside with lingerie on under clothes. 

6. Sleep in chastity. Arrive with butt plug in place.

7. Wear pegging panties under street clothes all weekend, and fly home in them.

Grading:

Anal stuff: Tiffany did a great job explaining the anal training and riding the dildo. I personally felt she didn’t sing loud enough during the chorus of Mustang Sally, so points were deducted. Also, she was a little off key…

Ice cubes: Major points were deducted because she was unable to insert ice cubes in her ass. She said the shape wasn’t conducive to sliding in, or some baloney like that. A backup activity of an oral sex demonstration on a dildo was provided, and I must say, she did a good job with that and provided interesting camera angles.

Mistress J makes sub give a BJ in San Jose, CA

Sloppy BJs are the best!

Sentences: Tiffany did a great job writing her 50 sentences. This time, a blank paper was provided so she did not have the benefit of the lines. I feel her penmanship is fantastic. I did not deduct for all capital letters, because her writing is so easy to read. I love how uniform each sentence is, and how they practically line up down the whole page. Points were deducted however. She complained a little by saying 50 sentences is a lot…  Wait until next time Tiff.

On Saturday, Tiffany arrived on time. We watched and critiqued her videos downstairs, then went up to the playroom for the fun.

Since she wrote about sucking cocks, I wanted to see her cock sucking/chocking skills in action. She complied readily. Her greedy mouth satisfied my two spring colored cocks and gave very sloppy and noisy blow jobs.

Mistress J humiliates male sub in San Jose, CA

Pretty in pink.

Spring is my favorite season and Easter had just passed. I used to love going to my neighborhood Easter Egg hunt as a kid. Tiffany made a cute bunny, don’t you think? She hopped around the playroom as I hummed the Bunny Hop Song. Her basket was filled with Tenga eggs and since she was a good girl, she got to take one home.

Tiffany is a bondage and anal slut. So, up went the legs! I have hooks all over my playroom, so her legs were pried open with a spreader bar and attached to the ceiling, while her arms were above her head. I teased her boy pussy and enjoyed using my ice roller on her delicate parts.  Cock slapping, vibrator torture, more cock sucking & toe sucking occurred. 

Chastity in San JoseFinally, the chastity device came off! Poor Tiffany’s boy clit was in shock after being caged up for a night and morning. Despite it’s shriveled appearance, I was able to edge her several times. 

Tiff had saved her cum for a week in anticipation of our meeting. Needless to say, she was VERY sensitive and called out “edge” very early during the game. I used both my hands and my feet to edge her.

Finally, Tiffany was allowed her release. But into a condom. And she had to suck her juice out. Poor girl. Such a humiliating morning. I felt sorry for her, for 10 seconds.

But Tiffany is a trooper. She went up to San Francisco that night for more play. What can I say, girls really do just want to have fun.

Humiliation and exposure are my specialties! Mistress J in San Jose, CA

Humiliation and exposure are my specialties!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Pegging for Newbies! Bliss is butt a short drive away.

I have these undies in red.

Mistress J enjoys working with newbies, and she especially likes taking a man’s ass virginity.

I get many inquiries from men who have never experienced the joys of ass play, but are dying to try. “Come on over.” I tell them. Let me pop your cherry! Bliss is butt a short drive away…

First, give yourself an enema at home. A clean butt is good manners.

How to I go about stretching out a virgin ass? The most important thing is to take my time. Why rush, the journey is fun. I start with a gloved finger and lots of silicon based lube. I tease the rosebud with circular motions. As I feel you relax, I gently slide the tip of my finger in. 

I have a good grasp of reading my guest’s bodies. I can usually tell when they are relaxed enough for penetration. I tell them to listen to their body. Some days the mind is willing but the body isn’t, it’s important to honor this.

The lube is applied and my fingertip is slowly warming up the back door. When I feels it’s time, my finger slides in. I give you a taste of all of my fingers. Next, I move on to my vibrating butt plug. After enjoying the cool vibes, I decide what you might need and can handle next.

Some butts need the slut machine, which is my Hitachi capped with a prostate adapter. This provides a fab warm up to a dildo. The dual speeds are guaranteed to make you squeal with pleasure. I love using this toy on seasoned as well as virgin butts. It’s a favorite of mine and my friends. I invite you to try it.

Now, this next part determines how slutty your virgin ass is. Do I need to use my smallest dildo, or can I start with something bigger?

Most of the time we start with my smallest burgundy strap-on. I keep 4 cocks mounted and ready to go. My harness of choice is the Terra Firma with buckle by Stormy Leather.  While I often start with the slimmest dildo, there have been a few butts able to start 1 or 2 steps larger. In fact, this happened yesterday.

Doggie style. A self portrait.

I like to have my guest take my cock on all fours while kneeling on my chaise lounge. I love the view, and it’s such a good height. Sometimes, this angle doesn’t work well for a virgin butt. I find having my slut lay on his back on my massage table with his legs up is a fun and easy way to slip in. Plus, this really is the ultimate roll reversal. I get to be the man, and he takes it like the little bitch he is.

I feel I am a fabulous butt-fucker. I suggest if you are curious about being pegged and are a newbie, you can’t go wrong with me.

Paul was a butt virgin, now he’s a regular. He takes my biggest cocks and begs for more. This is what he had to say:

“Getting pegged was such an intense feeling. It made me crave it bigger and deeper.”  And trust me folks, he does.

So many men started out with my small dong, now they crave the biggest things I have. And I am always adding to my collection.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

The Stockings Were Hung by the Chimney With Care…

with hopes that Mistress J soon would be there!

Some men have a really strong stocking/antyhose fetish. So strong that the sight and feeling of silky stockings send them straight into subspace. This post is for the guys who like stockings.

My favorite thing to do to a fetishist is to torment and tease them by rubbing my feet all over them, in the back and the front. I have also used my stockings for bondage and gags when necessary.

This happened recently:

First, my slut strips down to his proper uniform and, naked, shows his appreciation for the honor of worshiping my feet. He plants a kiss on my shoe, then gently slides them off. I always require a massage, and when I feel ready, I proceed with the teasing.

My silky feet caress his naked body leaving no area untouched. I feel his excitement grow, and use it to my advantage. I have very talented toes. They like to grab things.

I have him rub his cock with my black-clad tootsies. I tell him to fuck my feet. He obeys…

He is then forced to lick my feet after they have been all over his cock. I hope he can taste his pre-cum and smell his balls. 

I bend him over and my horny feet run over his butt. I poke his butt hole with my toe. He likes it.

I kneel on the couch and with a nice view of my ass, he is forced to fuck my feet again. He is close to edging. He must beg to be allowed to cum.

The slut gets turned over again. I am going to make this man cum on my stockings. He’s told to stand up and as I caress his nipples he masturbates. I tell him to get close to the edge. Now he’s close. So i rum his man parts with my stockinged feet. He’s in heaven now and explodes.  I feel his warm gooey cum through the fabric of my stocking. I then have him peel off the soiled items and wipe my legs.

Now go home.

If you have a stocking fetish and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

A Tale of Two Sissies

Actually, it was one sissy, but she saw me twice.

Someone is happy to see me.

Tiffany was trapped inside of a young, Asian male’s body. She longed for freedom, but lacked a safe place for expression. Tiffany had never sucked cock, but wanted to. She had never been pounded up the ass, but desired it. Tiffany had never worn stockings, heels or lingerie and cried herself to sleep for longing

Then one day, while visiting San Jose, she called Mistress J Studios. Mistress J invited her over they had fun together. Tiffany tried on some lacy undies and a bra. She walked in heels for the first time, stumbling only once.

Tiffany went through a strict training regimen. First, she had to warm up her throat on a series of rubber dongs. I stick them on a mirror and it become my glory hole. The slut kneeled down and worked the cocks well. Each time she went a little deeper and after mastering one cock, she moved on to a bigger one.

After the cock sucking, it was time to work on the clit and pussy.I like to have my sluts wear open crotch panties. That way I have access to the goods and the lingerie can stay on. The sissy’s boy clit (cock) and boy pussy (ass) gets a good workout, and she remains feminine.

She leaned against the cross facing me first. I slapped her clitty and pinched her nipples. Other types of play occurred, and after a while, she was instructed to turn around and present her pussy to me. She complied, and enjoyed a series of swats, pinches and floggings on her butt and back.

Finally, it was time for anal/pussy training. Spread out and chained pussy up on the floor she eagerly awaited my gloved fingers. After getting her tight hole a little looser, she was begging for more.

I won’t go into any more sordid details, but Tiffany got the training she needed. She was filled to the brim and went home a satisfied lady.

But wait, there’s more!  

Business brought the slut back to the bay Area and she continued with her training. A full makeover took place and I decided

Three cheers for the red, white and blue!

to dress her up like a trashy girl. She was also treated like one.  It sure is fun watching these girls blossom and spread their, um, wings.

Tiffany showed her true colors, taking it like a champ. She is a patriotic princess and believes in the freedom to be a slut!

If you have a hidden sissy and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

A Few More (new) Things…

Talk about Spring Cleaning!

I thought I’d use the first day of summer to talk about all the spring changes I made here at my humble abode. The condo was painted from top to bottom. New carpeting was installed on the stairs, landing and my bedroom. Now the best part: Laminate Flooring!

The entire downstairs and my playroom boast beautiful Pergo floors. It’s so pretty and durable. I invite you to come and book a session to see them in person!

Here is a pano shot of my playroom: 

X marks the spot!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The cross has been re-stained and is now mounted on the wall. It opens the floor quite a bit and creates a nice focal point.

 

A friend bought me a leather sling for my birthday. I have been wanting one forever, and now I have one! Let me know if you wanna take a ride! 

 

sling-a-ding-ding

 

 

 

 

 

I’m so happy with my updated space. I think you’ll like it too. As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

A Mistress Among Many. Miss J Went to DomCon LA!

Last month, I attended DomCon in LA. It was a birthday gift to myself, as I have always wanted to attend. DomCon was celebrating it’s 15th anniversary, and it was the weekend after my birthday, so it seemed like a good sign I should attend. I was only there for the weekend, from May 11-13, but the convention runs for a whole week.

I have attended many kink events here in the Bay Area. Many have been FemmeDomme oriented and others mixed energy. As a female dominant, I enjoy events with strong female energy, and while this was an event for both female and male dominants, there was LOTS of fabulous FemmeDomme energy swirling around. DomCon is an event for professionals and lifestyle enthusiasts alike, and was started by Mistress Cyan. You can read the history of DomCon here.

One of my favorite activities was sitting in the hotel lobby watching the non-kinky folk stare at the convention attendees gathered in the lobby. Folks were dressed in their finest leather, rubber, vinyl, lacy, black red, BDSM outfits. The actual convention area was blocked off and had security, but us kinksters enjoyed the lobby and restaurants as well.

It was very empowering for me to be at an event with such a strong female dominant presence, and one that acknowledged the legitimacy of professional domination. I enjoyed being a part of the Dominant women who strutted about, using their sexuality as a possible weapon and not getting punished for it I loved seeing Dommes of ALL ages being trailed by their submissives, especially the male ones. No catcalls, no grabbing, just being admired.

It’s also a gender fluid environment. I liked seeing altar egos or true genders embraced and on display as some people born with boy parts freely exhibited their feminine side and wore dresses in PUBLIC! There was even a cross-dressing pageant hosted by Alice in Bondageland. My sissy had broken out in hives, so we didn’t compete this year.

To be able to do this and not get harassed is something many cis-gendered white men cannot appreciate. They take this freedom for granted. I felt at this convention, the playing field was even, if not reversed. And it was FUN!

Shopping:

The shopping was fantastic and I bought a few things in the incredible vendor area. I love new things!

The soft green flogger is from Bunny Flogger. This one is so much fuller and heavier than my previous one. It has such a nice swing to it and throws nicely. This is perfect for sensual play.

I call the red thing my Dragon’s Tongue. It can provide a sensual little lick with the tip or provide a stingy swat. It depends on my mood. This was purchased from Agreeable Agony, and it was exactly what I was looking for to add to my tools.    

Another thing at the Agreeable Agony booth caught my eye. These beautiful soy candles in the glass pitcher. I have a few friends that like wax play and these keep Mistress J’s fingers from getting burned. They also clean up nicely.

Leather by Danny had these cute little CBT boards. I really like this because the cock stays in place and I can torment it any way I like. I was being nice here, I used a shoe lace. But for really bad boys, I have some scratchy twine that will feel great on those tender parts.

Intrigued? Contact me. I’d love to use my new toys on you!

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Harness the Energy! Can a harness help in strap-on play?

The short answer is hell ya! But I digress.

A friend was over today, and as I was shoving one dildo up his butt, and another in his mouth, I wondered if I could somehow harness this sexy energy and generate electricity. If I could, imagine how low my power bills would go!

If anyone out there knows how I could do this, drop me a line. Trust me, by the sheer volume of my pervy friends, we could become rich if we could generate, harness, store and sell the electricity produced by this unique activity.

Speaking of harnesses, I have two. I have the Doggie Style strap and the Luv Rydr. I purchased the doggie strap from Curvy Girl, and Texas Tim gave me the Luv Rydr.

Both harnesses can be used on women for PIV experiences or on men for pegging.

So, What do these harnesses do? They enhance the experience of the receiver and assist the giver. I call it a

Who let the dogs out?

win-win Jim. 

In the case of the doggie strap, the giver enjoys having most of the pressure off the lower back. She can lean back and have her body weight balance her body. By gripping the handles, and she can use her arms to create motion.

The receiver enjoys a deep feeling of penetration. The padded strap slides under the belly, and when the giver lifts the strap, a wonderful feeling of deepness occurs. 

The doggie strap has been well received and has been my favorite until the Luv Rydr showed up…

I’M TOO SEXY…

So, the first thought on this thing  is: “What the hell. This thing is butt ugly.” Look at it, it’s ridiculous! But, never judge book by it’s cover. Despite the clownish appearance, this thing gets the job done!

The device hooks over the arms, and there is an adjustable strap attached to the padded handle. The arm straps connect to a padded chest piece and there are no pressure points to make the experience uncomfortable for the wearer.

The giver grabs the paddled handle, and despite thinking of trapezes, gets to work.

When I was pounding Texas Tim, I couldn’t feel any stress points either. I didn’t think the thing was working, But Tim told me otherwise.

“Very good, the experience, lived up to how I had imaged it. The leather was soft, and I felt controlled by you as you pulled back on the handle. I had to move back to you or at least stay put as I could not move away from your thrusting deep into me. I felt like you were pounding me harder and deeper.

It helps get me into a sub-space where I knew I was a plaything for your use. Adding into that my legs were chained and spread open, I felt completely at your mercy. I was doing my best to please you so that the lesson that you own my ass would not require a larger Mistress cock. Knowing that if you had decided to go bigger, there I was in no position to refuse. (I know I always have my safe words) but when you take me to that place where I feel safe being submissive I enjoy feeling completely under your control. 

So yes, I think the harness was a great gift I hope you enjoyed using it on me.”

See pervy peeps, the Luv Ryder is so well designed, it takes the pressure off, so to speak, and real work can be accomplished.

A female receiver reviewed the Luv Rydr:

“As the “receiver” of the fun, wearing it did make me feel very objectified and the feeling  that “I only exist to be f****ed”. 

As the person wearing it, it is very comfortable. The stress on the body is very well distributed over the shoulders, so it’s really easy to wear for a long time.  Nothing rubbing strangely or scratchy.

The harness did lead to me being f****ed silly for a very long time. I like it very hard and intense so it did add to that kind of fun.  It created very deep penetration and I had that feeling (that I love) like I cannot get away, and I just have to take it. That makes me so turned on.  So much fun.”

Based on my recommendation, a male friend bought his own Luv Rydr and used it on his female partner. He said:

“The Luv Rydr harness works in the same manner as the doggie strap, giving you handles, but it holds the whole person.  It allows you to make sure your partner can’t get away and you can get great pressure.  It’s holding them on the shoulders, really keeping them in place.  It can even allow different angles that normally can’t be done more than a pump.  Since it’s on the shoulder and a sturdy point to harness, you can balance yourself and pound away.”

So there you have it folks. I use these things for a reason, and, that reason is you! And in case you were wondering, I did not receive any compensation from these fine companies.

ride, Sally ride.

As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.