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The Perils of Being My Plaything!

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It’s not my fault you are a dirty slut. But you are, and you need to be punished!

When you visit me, you agree to be my plaything. Your body is here for my amusement and entertainment. After we negotiate our boundaries, you become mine!  Now the peril begins…   

 

Taming the Teat:

Got sensitive nipples? I think nipple suckers are just the thing! Are you worried your nipples are too small? Relax, after an hour in one of these, your nipples will be nice and plump as the compression sends the blood to the desired area. They will be nice and tender afterwards too.

Girls just want to have fun. And this little lady liked electrical play on her nipples! Such a naughty thing. She needed to be put in her place. She was, and she liked it.

 

 

Humble Beginnings:

You know I like my men humble. I have both a homemade humbler and a store bought humbler. Here, Mike models the store bought humbler and a variety of festive clothespins I picked up last year on my vacation in Poland. Ain’t they pretty? And they feel sooo nice when Mistress takes them off! For some reason this photo makes me smile.

 

 

 

Controlling  the Cock:

Zap, Crackle, Pop! A fabulous erection controlling device is my zapper! The violet want comes with a variety of attachments and delivers a satisfying jolt wherever it’s needed. Leo is wearing the homemade humbler and to prevent him from finishing, I give him a hearty zap now and again. Another fun use for this is to use it during an edging session. A well timed zap keeps things in check.  You see, Miss J like to control everything! 

 

Where’s the beef?

Sometimes a man simply can’t control his erection! If that is the case, chastity shows him who’s the boss. Me! Here, Mike proudly submits to being locked up in his Bon 4 metal cage. He is owned by me and will now experience long term confinement. 

 

 

So that’s the story pervs.

If you are a nasty thing and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

A Handmade Tale. A Peek Inside Mistress J’s Dungeon!

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You CAN keep a good man down!

 

It is said that necessity it the mother of invention. Well, Mistress J is blessed with a keen imagination and talented kinky friends who can help her invent pervy items for the dungeon!

Let’s take a look around the dungeon and see what has been crafted by hand.

The largest item is my cross. Made by Max, this cross has the ability to come apart for transportation. The wooden panels are attached to the metal X, which Max fabricated himself. The wood is birch, and now has a dark stain on it.

This photo is of the cross before it was stained. I think it needs a second coat. Who wants to be a good boy and do it for me? 

You might also notice I now have different curtains. I like changing things up now and again.

I love having nekkid men kneel in front of it for me.  A good place for a man is on all fours with his arse in the air, ready for inspection…

 

The second largest item is my Queening Chair. Perhaps you are wondering if this is a chair for short people? The answer is no. The chair is for the lady’s comfort during certain activities. The height is perfect for panty sniffing and administering showers into the mouth while the person in question lies beneath.  The chair also allows the lady to be comfortable while using her feet on select body parts. After all, why should Mistress J be uncomfortable, that’s the sub’s job!

The chair was modified by Tanya Caress. This is the last remaining chairs from my late grandmother’s beloved dining room set. I still have the table in my dining area. It is a gorgeous parquet patterned solid wood table, and I plan to keep it forever.  The chair is appropriately Queen Anne in style. Fit for royalty I say. I wonder if Grandma would approve of it’s current use?

 

I love to have access to various parts. A spreader bar helps with that purpose. I pry open a man’s legs, then cuff their ankles to the bar. I often pull their legs back and chain them to the wall. Such a nice view.

The spreader bar was also a Tanya Caress specialty, re-purposed from a closet rod. I still use it to hang things. ha ha.

 

One of my favorite items is my home made humbler. Simple and inexpensive, the humbler fits ALL sizes of balls because it is just dowels and rubber bands. I pull the junk back between the legs and secure the dowels around it. Try standing up and walking, I dare you!

On the same note, a pair of chopsticks and some rubber bands really show a nipple who is the boss. These two items give a new meaning to the term morning wood! 

 

I know these items are tempting you. Give in to your desire and give me a call. I’d love to create a session just for you!

If you are curious about my dungeon and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.
 

Trimming the Weeds. Or, Should a Man Manscape?

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To manscape, or not to manscape? That is the question.

If a client asks me if they should manscape, I ask them if they like their partners hairy. I leave it at that and let them decide. After all, hairiness is a two-way street.

I am a very open minded Mistress, and enjoy the male body in all forms, and I do enjoy me some male chest hair, especially to rub my feet in. But when it comes to the nether regions, my opinion is, trimmed is best. Not bald, or totally bushy, but trimmed. 

This is for a few reasons. One, it’s pretty and the hair does not visually detract from the main attraction.

The second reason is for CBT, or cock ball torture. If you want Mistress J to tie up your balls with rope, shorter hair is better. Now, if you are a hard core masochist, the longer pubes will get pulled and twisted along with the goods. Perhaps that’s what you desire?

The third and most important is cleanliness. Sometimes particles can get trapped in butt hair despite a vigorous shower. Good boys want to be minty fresh for their Mistress.

 This graphic will give you a good idea on why Dommes might enjoy a clean works pace.

Decorating is a breeze!

Gents, you won’t get no action, if we can’t see what your packin’!

That being said, while I prefer things trimmed down under, I won’t turn away anyone who looks like this.  And while I understand some areas are hard to reach, I offer erotic shaving as part of a session. Imagine me, warm water, shave gel and a sharp razor by your bits!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about being shaved and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

FBSM, Tie & Tease and Elysium. The Sensual Side at the Studio.

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It is true Mistress J enjoys blogging about (with client permission) some of her extreme sessions. But many of the sessions here are sensual, and she likes it that way!

I spend a lot of my week doing sensual massage, and my new session, the Tie & Tease has become a customer favorite.   

I’ll explain a little about my three sensual massage sessions FBSM, Tie & Tease and Elysium, with pictures depicting Elysium and the Tie & Tease.

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Warm lube and oil feels of so nice!

In a FBSM session, you spend 60% face down and 40% face up. We always start face down.  Your arms and legs are free.

In Elysium and the Tie & Tease, you are restrained

Elysium is more 50/50 face up and down, but remember, in this session, your arms and legs are tied down to the table and are blindfolded and are wearing headphones. You really sink into subspace in this one.

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Can’t touch this!

The Tie & Tease is a face up session.  The whole time your sexy body is exposed to me. You are tied down, and you become a little toy for me to play with!

When one is tied down, they can look, or feel, but not touch. Often, my client ends up struggling against the restraints, muttering he wishes he could be free. That always makes me smile.

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Schwing!

As you stretch out your nude body in my warm playroom, I heat the massage oil and lube, along with some hot towels.

In all of my sensual sessions, you will experience sensation play. What is that you ask? Well, you can expect to experience a variety of objects all along your body. Some might be soft and fluffy, others a little scratchy, some pointy, some tickling, and for some, even mildly electric! Electric current can be very sensual when on a low setting.

Set to special music, all of these sessions start off slow. I like to think of each session as a slow seduction. I am the seducer of course, you, my object of desire. Slowly, I caress and tease your body, sending up shivers of delight. Face down or face up, something begins to rise to the occasion. 

After a nice beginning of sensation play, I do a nice body to body oil glide. My LUSCIOUS, CURVY BODY teases and torments you as I glide over you with warm oil. Remember, in an Elysium session, you’ll be deprived of sight and sound, so you won’t know what’s happening! 

It is after the glide when I turn you over.

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Taking “matters” into my own hands!

I really enjoy teasing and playing the edge game.   I tease you with my hands. Think slow Klixen massage. Such agonizing torment!

Over & over, I play with you, until you think you will explode. I love watching you struggle to maintain control over your body, which wants to rupture in delight. I bring you oh-so-close to the edge.

Then I back off, then do it again…    

How long can you hold out?

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about the Tie & Tease, Elysium, FBSM  & my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

 

 

 

Come to the Dark Side with Bondassage® and Elysium®

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It is an exciting time here at Mistress J Studios. I recently became certified in Bondassage® and Elysium® and am super excited to offer  these experiences to my clients!

I already offer spine-tingling sensual FBSM and BDSM experiences. Adding Bondassage and Elysium is like adding a cherry to a sundae. These are the high-end sensual experiences you have been craving to reach those hidden desires. You know, the deep, dark ones that you bury in your heart and soul?

My clients often hunger for a way to give up the control and decision making they have in everyday life. They yearn to surrender to a woman who can guide them to submission. Bondassage and Elysium take what I do one step further.

Created by the fabulous Jaeleen Bennis in Santa Cruz, providers must undergo a intensive 3-day training to call themselves a Bondassage or Elysium practitioner. The training is fantastic and I learned a lot. Certified Practitioners combine innovative massage techniques with subtle breath and energy work, rhythmic body play, and a delicious menu of skilled sensation experiences.

Bondassage is a kinky massage that will surely knock your socks off! Naked, collared and cuffed to my table, I will take you on a journey of submission, exploration, and pleasure. Letting go is the ultimate power. Letting go to me is the ultimate in pleasure. The session is steeped in wheelD/s and combines sensory deprivation, sensation play, massage and a little corporal work all in one. This is perfect for my massage clients wanting more edge play in their sessions or are curious to try BDSM. Three quarters of the session will be spent face down.

Elysium is a bound massage without the D/s. It’s a slower, softer version on Bondassage. There is sensory deprivation and lots of sensation play and tons of slow, sexy tease. Imagine being brought to the edge and back over and over. Elysium pushes the boundaries between bliss, self control and ecstasy and is designed for massage devotees seeking something spectacularly sensual. Three quarters of the session will be spent face up.

Both sessions are divine. Both sessions have me using my body as a tool to make you drool. Both sessions are for the connoisseur of pleasure.

Come and experience this deliciously creative playground and awaken to a profound level of pleasure and relaxation.

Submission never felt better…

Rates:

90 Minute Session:  500.

120 Minute Session:  700.    

Check out my profile on the Bondassage website!

 

If you are curious about Bondassage, Elysium and Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

 

Let My Fingers Do The Walking! Enjoy FBSM

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Who doesn’t like a massage? Massage is not an indulgence but a necessity. We must take care of our bodies in order to function at 100%man on table.

They don’t need to be clinical to be therapeutic. In fact, sensual touch has healing powers beyond measure.

My Full Body Sensual Massage (FBSM) validates my client as a breathing, sensual being. My massages are without judgment around you being a naturally erotic, sensual person. I bring the attitude that I am giving something to you, and not trying to get something in return. You surrender to me, let me take control,  and allow your body to be my plaything.

Most of my clients have deeper needs than sore muscles. They crave a sensual intimacy missing from their everyday lives. Intimacy generally refers to the feeling of being in a close personal association and belonging together.

I hear over and over desires of letting go and letting someone else take control. Many want to experience surrender in a gentle way. Others crave sensuality and vulnerability.

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You’re in good hands with Mistress J.

By now, you are probably thinking “Speak English woman! What does this all mean?” Let me begin by describing a session.

With all sessions, we will spend a few minutes discussing boundaries, desires and expectations. I explain that restraints and blindfolds are optional and get your views on that. I discover your likes and dislikes on my various tools and share safewords.

 

You are led upstairs to my massage room. Candles are lit, the room dimmed. A soft citrus scent lingers in the air. You get undressed and wait for me on the table, breathless with anticipation.

I have carefully chosen music for this experience. As the music begins to fill the room, I lightly touch you. I start to lead you down the road to bliss, using your body as my plaything.

After a bit of soft teasing, I apply my signature massage oil. I have sexy massagea very unique way of applying it! 🙂 Different levels of pressure are applied to your body. Nothing is off limits to me. I touch your feet, knees, thighs back, glutes, etc.

Then I flip you over and do more of the same! Stress and tension melt away. Your body tingles and your senses are heightened. You have lost the need to go somewhere, perform, or ‘do’ anything. You are mine, and you like it. Surrender never felt better.

If you are curious about FBSM and Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.