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Lending a Helping Hand. Male Masturbators & Tools of the Trade.

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Mistress J is always looking for tools and toys to enhance your experience here at the studio. Some of her favorite shopping sites are Extreme Restraints and The Stockroom. If someone wanted to send me a gift card from either site, Mistress J wouldn’t complain!

But I digress.

Me & Lelo

Using a masturbator provides new sensations down south. While I assume most visitors don’t tire of Rosie Palm and her 5 sisters,  Miss J is always looking to shake things up (pun intended). So what exciting things can be explored? Keep reading.

My newest and favorite tool is the Hummingbird. This non-porous plastic sleeve fits on either of my two wands and provides a snug vibration that will get your juices flowing and send you over the edge!

I am the proud owner of two wands. One is the Hitachi Magic Wand or Slut Machine as I like to call it. The Hitachi plugs into the wall and delivers a powerful punch of vibration. One could say it pulses faster than an actual hummingbird’s wings. When flying solo, this is a very efficient tool. It gets the job done in 30 seconds.

Birds of a feather flock together.

Fits like a glove!

The Lelo wand on the other hand, is softer, sophisticated, subtle quiet, and slowly builds up, similar to a kettle boiling. This makes it GREAT for couples play. The subtleties of this wand provide superior spasms upon crescendo! That’s why I love using the hummingbird on this one.  As an edging expert, I like to keep a guy on the perimeter as long as I can.  

If I want to test your endurance, I put the hummingbird on the Hitachi and watch you struggle to maintain control. 

This is what my client ” Los” had to say about the hummingbird.

“I have never experienced anything like it. I remember the pleasure running though me with such intensity that I gasped involuntary. At some point she turned the intensity or volume higher which immediately overwhelmed me.  I liked it too much.”

So there you have it.

Perhaps one shouldn’t put all their eggs in one basket, but with a basket full of TENGA eggs, there’s no need to diversify! The TENGA EGG is made of a super stretchy material has a bumpy inside. Here is the description taken from the TENGA website:

These egg whites are cholesterol free…

Different Strokes from Different Yolks! Super-Stretch Sleeves for Pleasure! The TENGA EGG Series may look small, but their super-stretchable material can fit men of all sizes! The external designs of each EGG reflect the internal details within them – with a total of 13 EGGs to choose from you’re sure to find a perfect match!

I especially enjoy using these in my FBSM and Bondassage/Elysium sessions. I climb on top of my client and slip the egg on to their um, egg beater,  and slowly twist and stroke. Each egg has a different inside, so your experience can vary each time I use one on you. Now, for hygiene reasons, I only use one to a customer. And, since it comes with a unique carrying case, I offer you your egg to take home as a party favor.

From now until Easter 2017. I am offering an Egg-cellent special session. You don some bunny ears and go on an Easter egg hunt throughout my studio. When you find the TENGA Egg, I’ll use it on you!

One of the pleasure of having someone use a masturbatory on you is an element of naughtiness. I mean, after all, you are getting edged by a thing not a person! How devious. And, to make it more naughty, if feels good! Oh my.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about male masturbators and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Trimming the Weeds. Or, Should a Man Manscape?

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To manscape, or not to manscape? That is the question.

If a client asks me if they should manscape, I ask them if they like their partners hairy. I leave it at that and let them decide. After all, hairiness is a two-way street.

I am a very open minded Mistress, and enjoy the male body in all forms, and I do enjoy me some male chest hair, especially to rub my feet in. But when it comes to the nether regions, my opinion is, trimmed is best. Not bald, or totally bushy, but trimmed. 

This is for a few reasons. One, it’s pretty and the hair does not visually detract from the main attraction.

The second reason is for CBT, or cock ball torture. If you want Mistress J to tie up your balls with rope, shorter hair is better. Now, if you are a hard core masochist, the longer pubes will get pulled and twisted along with the goods. Perhaps that’s what you desire?

The third and most important is cleanliness. Sometimes particles can get trapped in butt hair despite a vigorous shower. Good boys want to be minty fresh for their Mistress.

 This graphic will give you a good idea on why Dommes might enjoy a clean works pace.

Decorating is a breeze!

Gents, you won’t get no action, if we can’t see what your packin’!

That being said, while I prefer things trimmed down under, I won’t turn away anyone who looks like this.  And while I understand some areas are hard to reach, I offer erotic shaving as part of a session. Imagine me, warm water, shave gel and a sharp razor by your bits!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about being shaved and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Wax On, Wax Off. Wax Play With Mistress J

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Grasshopper, I know sometimes your cravings require a delicate balance between sensuality and sadism. I am writing about the perfect session for you. A hot wax session! Hot candle wax play is fun. It is artistic. It requires submission and tolerance. And, if scented candles are used, can be a fruity good time!

Ryan was feeling stressed out. I invited him over for a hot wax session and he readily agreed. My weapons of choice that day were a white pillar candle, a red cranberry candle in a tin, an evergreen scented candle and two sex candles. One in purple, the other red.

I lit the candles 10 minutes before he arrived, so the wax would be nice and gooey when it was time to play. After he stretched his nekkid body on the massage table, we got down to business.

Securing his hands to the table, I proceeded to pour the colorful wax on his shoulders. Red, purple, green, white. So colorful and pretty. 

Ryan enjoyed the warm wax dripping onto his skin. Sometimes he’d wiggle if  a drop was unusually hot, then he’d settle back down and mutter his pleasure at the heat.

I pour my wax  from a pretty high angle to prevent burning the skin. The distance gives the wax time to cool off so the subject won’t get burned.  We did a side by side comparison of a sex candle vs. a regular candle. The reviews were mixed. 

Ryan thought the sex candles (which claim to burn at a lower temperature) actually felt hotter on contact, but cooled faster then a soy candle. Another client said the opposite. He thought the sex candles were 5 degrees cooler. I found these results interesting, and I think more research is in order.

Ryan’s back and shoulders are hairless, so I poured the wax with glee. You could say that I poured my heart out to him. Ha, ha. His ass was a little hairy, so I rubbed some massage oil in before coating his buns. A coat of oil helps the wax come off the hair. Ryan said the oil made the wax feel a tiny bit hotter, something he enjoyed! I also made sure I coated his balls. 

Now, I have played with Ryan many times and I know his tastes and limits. He is a pain, sensation and bondage slut. If I am browsing the internet for toys and am doubtful, I ask myself, “would Ryan like this?” If the answer is yes, I buy it. My point is, I knew he could take the heat of the wax and enjoy it. I know wax play isn’t for everyone, but those who like it, will enjoy a session with lil’ ol’ me. 

Love, Italian style!

That is a good lead in for the next part. I poured wax in his butt crack and balls! Ryan wiggled and giggled. He liked it. I knew he would, the little perv. I used green, red and white wax for his under carriage. How festive it looked. Viva Italia! I had a sudden craving for pasta. 

The session went on with me pouring wax all over him. Eventually, he like, totally, looked like an 80’s splatter painting, it was sooo rad! He was so bright and colorful. And the dried wax created a little bit of a restricted feeling, another thing Ryan enjoyed. 

When I felt my masterpiece was complete, I stopped pouring and let the wax harden. Now it was time to clean him up for the shower! I took one of the cat claws and scraped off the wax. It came off in hard clumps. Little bits clung to the hair on his balls. I used a dry brush and got them clean. He seemed to enjoy the attention down there.

Feel like experiencing some hot wax play? I’d love to pour it on thick!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about wax play & my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

FBSM, Tie & Tease and Elysium. The Sensual Side at the Studio.

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It is true Mistress J enjoys blogging about (with client permission) some of her extreme sessions. But many of the sessions here are sensual, and she likes it that way!

I spend a lot of my week doing sensual massage, and my new session, the Tie & Tease has become a customer favorite.   

I’ll explain a little about my three sensual massage sessions FBSM, Tie & Tease and Elysium, with pictures depicting Elysium and the Tie & Tease.

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Warm lube and oil feels of so nice!

In a FBSM session, you spend 60% face down and 40% face up. We always start face down.  Your arms and legs are free.

In Elysium and the Tie & Tease, you are restrained

Elysium is more 50/50 face up and down, but remember, in this session, your arms and legs are tied down to the table and are blindfolded and are wearing headphones. You really sink into subspace in this one.

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Can’t touch this!

The Tie & Tease is a face up session.  The whole time your sexy body is exposed to me. You are tied down, and you become a little toy for me to play with!

When one is tied down, they can look, or feel, but not touch. Often, my client ends up struggling against the restraints, muttering he wishes he could be free. That always makes me smile.

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Schwing!

As you stretch out your nude body in my warm playroom, I heat the massage oil and lube, along with some hot towels.

In all of my sensual sessions, you will experience sensation play. What is that you ask? Well, you can expect to experience a variety of objects all along your body. Some might be soft and fluffy, others a little scratchy, some pointy, some tickling, and for some, even mildly electric! Electric current can be very sensual when on a low setting.

Set to special music, all of these sessions start off slow. I like to think of each session as a slow seduction. I am the seducer of course, you, my object of desire. Slowly, I caress and tease your body, sending up shivers of delight. Face down or face up, something begins to rise to the occasion. 

After a nice beginning of sensation play, I do a nice body to body oil glide. My LUSCIOUS, CURVY BODY teases and torments you as I glide over you with warm oil. Remember, in an Elysium session, you’ll be deprived of sight and sound, so you won’t know what’s happening! 

It is after the glide when I turn you over.

handle-it

Taking “matters” into my own hands!

I really enjoy teasing and playing the edge game.   I tease you with my hands. Think slow Klixen massage. Such agonizing torment!

Over & over, I play with you, until you think you will explode. I love watching you struggle to maintain control over your body, which wants to rupture in delight. I bring you oh-so-close to the edge.

Then I back off, then do it again…    

How long can you hold out?

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about the Tie & Tease, Elysium, FBSM  & my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

 

 

 

Come to the Dark Side with Bondassage® and Elysium®

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It is an exciting time here at Mistress J Studios. I recently became certified in Bondassage® and Elysium® and am super excited to offer  these experiences to my clients!

I already offer spine-tingling sensual FBSM and BDSM experiences. Adding Bondassage and Elysium is like adding a cherry to a sundae. These are the high-end sensual experiences you have been craving to reach those hidden desires. You know, the deep, dark ones that you bury in your heart and soul?

My clients often hunger for a way to give up the control and decision making they have in everyday life. They yearn to surrender to a woman who can guide them to submission. Bondassage and Elysium take what I do one step further.

Created by the fabulous Jaeleen Bennis in Santa Cruz, providers must undergo a intensive 3-day training to call themselves a Bondassage or Elysium practitioner. The training is fantastic and I learned a lot. Certified Practitioners combine innovative massage techniques with subtle breath and energy work, rhythmic body play, and a delicious menu of skilled sensation experiences.

Bondassage is a kinky massage that will surely knock your socks off! Naked, collared and cuffed to my table, I will take you on a journey of submission, exploration, and pleasure. Letting go is the ultimate power. Letting go to me is the ultimate in pleasure. The session is steeped in wheelD/s and combines sensory deprivation, sensation play, massage and a little corporal work all in one. This is perfect for my massage clients wanting more edge play in their sessions or are curious to try BDSM. Three quarters of the session will be spent face down.

Elysium is a bound massage without the D/s. It’s a slower, softer version on Bondassage. There is sensory deprivation and lots of sensation play and tons of slow, sexy tease. Imagine being brought to the edge and back over and over. Elysium pushes the boundaries between bliss, self control and ecstasy and is designed for massage devotees seeking something spectacularly sensual. Three quarters of the session will be spent face up.

Both sessions are divine. Both sessions have me using my body as a tool to make you drool. Both sessions are for the connoisseur of pleasure.

Come and experience this deliciously creative playground and awaken to a profound level of pleasure and relaxation.

Submission never felt better…

Rates:

90 Minute Session:  500.

120 Minute Session:  700.    

Check out my profile on the Bondassage website!

 

If you are curious about Bondassage, Elysium and Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

 

Let My Fingers Do The Walking! Enjoy FBSM

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Who doesn’t like a massage? Massage is not an indulgence but a necessity. We must take care of our bodies in order to function at 100%man on table.

They don’t need to be clinical to be therapeutic. In fact, sensual touch has healing powers beyond measure.

My Full Body Sensual Massage (FBSM) validates my client as a breathing, sensual being. My massages are without judgment around you being a naturally erotic, sensual person. I bring the attitude that I am giving something to you, and not trying to get something in return. You surrender to me, let me take control,  and allow your body to be my plaything.

Most of my clients have deeper needs than sore muscles. They crave a sensual intimacy missing from their everyday lives. Intimacy generally refers to the feeling of being in a close personal association and belonging together.

I hear over and over desires of letting go and letting someone else take control. Many want to experience surrender in a gentle way. Others crave sensuality and vulnerability.

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You’re in good hands with Mistress J.

By now, you are probably thinking “Speak English woman! What does this all mean?” Let me begin by describing a session.

With all sessions, we will spend a few minutes discussing boundaries, desires and expectations. I explain that restraints and blindfolds are optional and get your views on that. I discover your likes and dislikes on my various tools and share safewords.

 

You are led upstairs to my massage room. Candles are lit, the room dimmed. A soft citrus scent lingers in the air. You get undressed and wait for me on the table, breathless with anticipation.

I have carefully chosen music for this experience. As the music begins to fill the room, I lightly touch you. I start to lead you down the road to bliss, using your body as my plaything.

After a bit of soft teasing, I apply my signature massage oil. I have sexy massagea very unique way of applying it! 🙂 Different levels of pressure are applied to your body. Nothing is off limits to me. I touch your feet, knees, thighs back, glutes, etc.

Then I flip you over and do more of the same! Stress and tension melt away. Your body tingles and your senses are heightened. You have lost the need to go somewhere, perform, or ‘do’ anything. You are mine, and you like it. Surrender never felt better.

If you are curious about FBSM and Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.