Stop and smell the roses! Panty Sniffing in San Jose.

The Scent of a Woman. It’s intoxicating. So much that they even named a movie after it. 

I get very sweaty down there while I work, and my panties pay the price!

Panty sniffing is a popular fetish. Some men simply can’t get enough of the female smell.  Smell is a pwerful motivator. 

Wikipedia states “Olfactophilia or osmolagnia is a paraphilia for, or sexual arousal by, smells and odors emanating from the body, especially the sexual areas.” One man said my nether regions smell like “A salty ocean breeze.”

Taking in the salty air…

I often have guests ask if they can have the honor of smelling my undies. I often comply, and if I know in advance of their penchant for panties, I will don a pair of well worn fragrant ones, and let them enjoy the bouquet!

Smothering is a popular request.  As my guest lies on his back, I envelop his nose and mouth as I sit down. He is smothered by my thighs and ‘things’ until he can’t breathe. Now, imagine a gentleman with a panty fetish enjoying those sights and smells while I wear well worn and dirty panties! 

Mistress J is a big fan of thongs, and wears them daily, but some men have a granny panty fetish. I have had several clients request that I wear traditional nylon knickers, the kind you buy at Target eight to a pack. Perhaps they remind them of days gone by, like seeing them on the neighbor’s clothes line as they dry in the afternoon breeze. 

Granny panties!

Here is a photo of my round, curvy, juicy bottom fully encased in shiny nylon. What are your thoughts? 

I have been known to give my guest a lovely parting gift of the panties worn during the session. These are the ones he has sniffed and worn on his face. I put them in a sandwich baggie to preserve the smell, and my guest gets to think of our session every time he opens the bag!

Some men want to wear my panties, mingling their scent with mine. How naughty and intimate!

Now remember readers,  a true gentleman would NEVER steal a woman’s panties. That is just plain rude! 

A glimpse up my skirt.

After all, these small articles of fabric can be expensive, and every gal has her favorite pair. Most gals are happy to donate their dainties if asked. But theft is just wrong. Mistress J does not tolerate that kind of behavior.

If you are curious about the smell of my panties and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

Lending a Helping Hand. Male Masturbators & Tools of the Trade.

Mistress J is always looking for tools and toys to enhance your experience here at the studio. Some of her favorite shopping sites are Extreme Restraints and The Stockroom. If someone wanted to send me a gift card from either site, Mistress J wouldn’t complain!

But I digress.

Me & Lelo

Using a masturbator provides new sensations down south. While I assume most visitors don’t tire of Rosie Palm and her 5 sisters,  Miss J is always looking to shake things up (pun intended). So what exciting things can be explored? Keep reading.

My newest and favorite tool is the Hummingbird. This non-porous plastic sleeve fits on either of my two wands and provides a snug vibration that will get your juices flowing and send you over the edge!

I am the proud owner of two wands. One is the Hitachi Magic Wand or Slut Machine as I like to call it. The Hitachi plugs into the wall and delivers a powerful punch of vibration. One could say it pulses faster than an actual hummingbird’s wings. When flying solo, this is a very efficient tool. It gets the job done in 30 seconds.

Birds of a feather flock together.

Fits like a glove!

The Lelo wand on the other hand, is softer, sophisticated, subtle quiet, and slowly builds up, similar to a kettle boiling. This makes it GREAT for couples play. The subtleties of this wand provide superior spasms upon crescendo! That’s why I love using the hummingbird on this one.  As an edging expert, I like to keep a guy on the perimeter as long as I can.  

If I want to test your endurance, I put the hummingbird on the Hitachi and watch you struggle to maintain control. 

This is what my client ” Los” had to say about the hummingbird.

“I have never experienced anything like it. I remember the pleasure running though me with such intensity that I gasped involuntary. At some point she turned the intensity or volume higher which immediately overwhelmed me.  I liked it too much.”

So there you have it.

Perhaps one shouldn’t put all their eggs in one basket, but with a basket full of TENGA eggs, there’s no need to diversify! The TENGA EGG is made of a super stretchy material has a bumpy inside. Here is the description taken from the TENGA website:

These egg whites are cholesterol free…

Different Strokes from Different Yolks! Super-Stretch Sleeves for Pleasure! The TENGA EGG Series may look small, but their super-stretchable material can fit men of all sizes! The external designs of each EGG reflect the internal details within them – with a total of 13 EGGs to choose from you’re sure to find a perfect match!

I especially enjoy using these in my FBSM and Bondassage/Elysium sessions. I climb on top of my client and slip the egg on to their um, egg beater,  and slowly twist and stroke. Each egg has a different inside, so your experience can vary each time I use one on you. Now, for hygiene reasons, I only use one to a customer. And, since it comes with a unique carrying case, I offer you your egg to take home as a party favor.

From now until Easter 2017. I am offering an Egg-cellent special session. You don some bunny ears and go on an Easter egg hunt throughout my studio. When you find the TENGA Egg, I’ll use it on you!

One of the pleasure of having someone use a masturbatory on you is an element of naughtiness. I mean, after all, you are getting edged by a thing not a person! How devious. And, to make it more naughty, if feels good! Oh my.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about male masturbators and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Trimming the Weeds. Or, Should a Man Manscape?

To manscape, or not to manscape? That is the question.

If a client asks me if they should manscape, I ask them if they like their partners hairy. I leave it at that and let them decide. After all, hairiness is a two-way street.

I am a very open minded Mistress, and enjoy the male body in all forms, and I do enjoy me some male chest hair, especially to rub my feet in. But when it comes to the nether regions, my opinion is, trimmed is best. Not bald, or totally bushy, but trimmed. 

This is for a few reasons. One, it’s pretty and the hair does not visually detract from the main attraction.

The second reason is for CBT, or cock ball torture. If you want Mistress J to tie up your balls with rope, shorter hair is better. Now, if you are a hard core masochist, the longer pubes will get pulled and twisted along with the goods. Perhaps that’s what you desire?

The third and most important is cleanliness. Sometimes particles can get trapped in butt hair despite a vigorous shower. Good boys want to be minty fresh for their Mistress.

 This graphic will give you a good idea on why Dommes might enjoy a clean works pace.

Decorating is a breeze!

Gents, you won’t get no action, if we can’t see what your packin’!

That being said, while I prefer things trimmed down under, I won’t turn away anyone who looks like this.  And while I understand some areas are hard to reach, I offer erotic shaving as part of a session. Imagine me, warm water, shave gel and a sharp razor by your bits!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about being shaved and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Wax On, Wax Off. Wax Play With Mistress J

Grasshopper, I know sometimes your cravings require a delicate balance between sensuality and sadism. I am writing about the perfect session for you. A hot wax session! Hot candle wax play is fun. It is artistic. It requires submission and tolerance. And, if scented candles are used, can be a fruity good time!

Ryan was feeling stressed out. I invited him over for a hot wax session and he readily agreed. My weapons of choice that day were a white pillar candle, a red cranberry candle in a tin, an evergreen scented candle and two sex candles. One in purple, the other red.

I lit the candles 10 minutes before he arrived, so the wax would be nice and gooey when it was time to play. After he stretched his nekkid body on the massage table, we got down to business.

Securing his hands to the table, I proceeded to pour the colorful wax on his shoulders. Red, purple, green, white. So colorful and pretty. 

Ryan enjoyed the warm wax dripping onto his skin. Sometimes he’d wiggle if  a drop was unusually hot, then he’d settle back down and mutter his pleasure at the heat.

I pour my wax  from a pretty high angle to prevent burning the skin. The distance gives the wax time to cool off so the subject won’t get burned.  We did a side by side comparison of a sex candle vs. a regular candle. The reviews were mixed. 

Ryan thought the sex candles (which claim to burn at a lower temperature) actually felt hotter on contact, but cooled faster then a soy candle. Another client said the opposite. He thought the sex candles were 5 degrees cooler. I found these results interesting, and I think more research is in order.

Ryan’s back and shoulders are hairless, so I poured the wax with glee. You could say that I poured my heart out to him. Ha, ha. His ass was a little hairy, so I rubbed some massage oil in before coating his buns. A coat of oil helps the wax come off the hair. Ryan said the oil made the wax feel a tiny bit hotter, something he enjoyed! I also made sure I coated his balls. 

Now, I have played with Ryan many times and I know his tastes and limits. He is a pain, sensation and bondage slut. If I am browsing the internet for toys and am doubtful, I ask myself, “would Ryan like this?” If the answer is yes, I buy it. My point is, I knew he could take the heat of the wax and enjoy it. I know wax play isn’t for everyone, but those who like it, will enjoy a session with lil’ ol’ me. 

Love, Italian style!

That is a good lead in for the next part. I poured wax in his butt crack and balls! Ryan wiggled and giggled. He liked it. I knew he would, the little perv. I used green, red and white wax for his under carriage. How festive it looked. Viva Italia! I had a sudden craving for pasta. 

The session went on with me pouring wax all over him. Eventually, he like, totally, looked like an 80’s splatter painting, it was sooo rad! He was so bright and colorful. And the dried wax created a little bit of a restricted feeling, another thing Ryan enjoyed. 

When I felt my masterpiece was complete, I stopped pouring and let the wax harden. Now it was time to clean him up for the shower! I took one of the cat claws and scraped off the wax. It came off in hard clumps. Little bits clung to the hair on his balls. I used a dry brush and got them clean. He seemed to enjoy the attention down there.

Feel like experiencing some hot wax play? I’d love to pour it on thick!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about wax play & my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Cock-A-Doodle-Do! A girl wears a ding-a-ling and the boys like it!

roosterMistress J loves being a woman. She likes her lady parts and her curves. She likes seeing men drool at her juicy ass and perky breasts. She appreciates the gift of multiple orgasms and her power of seduction over men.

But once in a while, or several times a week, as is the case here at the studio, a tool she wasn’t born with must be employed.

That tool is the rubber cock. 

I will now use this opportunity to switch from the third to first person. 

straponMost of my clients like seeing me wearing a cock and using it in some way.  I might be forcing it down their throat or sliding it up their ass. Either way, the sight of me in my strap-on literally and figuratively brings them to their knees! 

Let’s talk about boys who like to suck a girl’s cock.

Since I am happy being a strong, powerful woman, I can honestly say I do not suffer from penis envy. THAT is reserved for my clients. They envy women who can strap it on and give it to a man in his mouth. 

I enjoy making a guy choke on it, watching the drool and snot come out of his nose as he swallows my tool. I like hearing the sloppy sounds as he devours dick like it was a deliciously decadent dessert.

 I especially like seeing a blow job virgin stare at the large willy in front of him, eyes wide with fear and doubt, wondering how he can manage it.

“Suck it up buttercup.” I tell him. 

He struggles against a firm hand holding his head and forcing it down deep, my fingers buried in his hair.  He experiences his gag reflex hitting the large object on the back of his throat. He feels the humiliation of drool dripping down his face and the difficulty to breathe as his nose becomes clogged with his own mucus as he fights to master the member. 

Speaking of blow job virgins, I remember the fist time I had Allen* suck my rainbow bridge. I wrote about Allen last year, remember him? He started off so innocent, but quickly wanted more and more. One day, I told him he was going to suck cock. I stuck my rainbow beauty on the mirror and had him sit on the stool in front of it. He stared at it for a long time. He was scared, perhaps even a little angry Mistress J would demand such disgusting things of him. 

Jumbo size. How do you guys walk around with these things?

Super Size it! How do you guys walk around with these things?

After looking at it and breathing deeply for about 3 minutes he began to pleasure the rainbow. As his throat opened up, he warmed up to my cock. Deeper and deeper it went. Soon, he was sucking like a well seasoned pro! I think he was hoping to reach the pot of gold at the end of that rainbow!

He liked it so much, one day he asked me to don my biggest dick and make him pleasure it. And pleasure it he did! And after he was done, his reward was to take photos of me in my big brown cock!

I have a variety of sizes to satisfy all my clients. I like to be able to cater to the newbie as well as seasoned cock suckers. IMG_20160216_164039298The photo on the right is a small sampling of what I have to chew on here in the studio. I’m confident I have something just your size…

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about cock sucking & my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*name changed to protect the not so innocent.

 

No cocks were harmed in the making of this blog.

Come to the Dark Side with Bondassage® and Elysium®

It is an exciting time here at Mistress J Studios. I recently became certified in Bondassage® and Elysium® and am super excited to offer  these experiences to my clients!

I already offer spine-tingling sensual FBSM and BDSM experiences. Adding Bondassage and Elysium is like adding a cherry to a sundae. These are the high-end sensual experiences you have been craving to reach those hidden desires. You know, the deep, dark ones that you bury in your heart and soul?

Step into my parlor...

Step into my parlor…

My clients often hunger for a way to give up the control and decision making they have in everyday life. They yearn to surrender to a woman who can guide them to submission. Bondassage and Elysium take what I do one step further.

Created by the fabulous Jaeleen Bennis in Santa Cruz, providers must undergo a intensive 3-day training to call themselves a Bondassage or Elysium practitioner. The training is fantastic and I learned a lot. Certified Practitioners combine innovative massage techniques with subtle breath and energy work, rhythmic body play, and a delicious menu of skilled sensation experiences.

Bondassage is a kinky massage that will surely knock your socks off! Naked, collared and cuffed to my table, I will take you on a journey of submission, exploration, and pleasure. Letting go is the ultimate power. Letting go to me is the ultimate in pleasure. The session is steeped in wheelD/s and combines sensory deprivation, sensation play, massage and a little corporal work all in one. This is perfect for my massage clients wanting more edge play in their sessions or are curious to try BDSM. Three quarters of the session will be spent face down.

Elysium is a bound massage without the D/s. It’s a slower, softer version on Bondassage. There is sensory deprivation and lots of sensation play and tons of slow, sexy tease. Imagine being brought to the edge and back over and over. Elysium pushes the boundaries between bliss, self control and ecstasy and is designed for massage devotees seeking something spectacularly sensual. Three quarters of the session will be spent face up.

Both sessions are divine. Both sessions have me using my body as a tool to make you drool. Both sessions are for the connoisseur of pleasure.

Come and experience this deliciously creative playground and awaken to a profound level of pleasure and relaxation.

Submission never felt better…

Introductory rates:

60 Minute Session (Elysium only): 300.

90 Minute Session:  400 (required for first visit)

120 Minute Session:  500

Check out my profile on the Bondassage website!

 

If you are curious about Bondassage, Elysium and Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose bondassagestudio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.