The short answer is hell ya! But I digress.
A friend was over today, and as I was shoving one dildo up his butt, and another in his mouth, I wondered if I could somehow harness this sexy energy and generate electricity. If I could, imagine how low my power bills would go!
If anyone out there knows how I could do this, drop me a line. Trust me, by the sheer volume of my pervy friends, we could become rich if we could generate, harness, store and sell the electricity produced by this unique activity.
Speaking of harnesses, I have two. I have the Doggie Style strap and the Luv Rydr. I purchased the doggie strap from Curvy Girl, and Texas Tim gave me the Luv Rydr.
Both harnesses can be used on women for PIV experiences or on men for pegging.
So, What do these harnesses do? They enhance the experience of the receiver and assist the giver. I call it a
Who let the dogs out?
win-win Jim.
In the case of the doggie strap, the giver enjoys having most of the pressure off the lower back. She can lean back and have her body weight balance her body. By gripping the handles, and she can use her arms to create motion.
The receiver enjoys a deep feeling of penetration. The padded strap slides under the belly, and when the giver lifts the strap, a wonderful feeling of deepness occurs.
The doggie strap has been well received and has been my favorite until the Luv Rydr showed up…
I’M TOO SEXY…
So, the first thought on this thing is: “What the hell. This thing is butt ugly.” Look at it, it’s ridiculous! But, never judge book by it’s cover. Despite the clownish appearance, this thing gets the job done!
The device hooks over the arms, and there is an adjustable strap attached to the 
padded handle. The arm straps connect to a padded chest piece and there are no pressure points to make the experience uncomfortable for the wearer.
The giver grabs the paddled handle, and despite thinking of trapezes, gets to work.
When I was pounding Texas Tim, I couldn’t feel any stress points either. I didn’t think the thing was working, But Tim told me otherwise.
“Very good, the experience, lived up to how I had imaged it. The leather was soft, and I felt controlled by you as you pulled back on the handle. I had to move back to you or at least stay put as I could not move away from your thrusting deep into me. I felt like you were pounding me harder and deeper.
It helps get me into a sub-space where I knew I was a plaything for your use. Adding into that my legs were chained and spread open, I felt completely at your mercy. I was doing my best to please you so that the lesson that you own my ass would not require a larger Mistress cock. Knowing that if you had decided to go bigger, there I was in no position to refuse. (I know I always have my safe words) but when you take me to that place where I feel safe being submissive I enjoy feeling completely under your control.
So yes, I think the harness was a great gift I hope you enjoyed using it on me.”
See pervy peeps, the Luv Ryder is so well designed, it takes the pressure off, so to speak, and real work can be accomplished.
A female receiver reviewed the Luv Rydr:
“As the “receiver” of the fun, wearing it did make me feel very objectified and the feeling that “I only exist to be f****ed”.
As the person wearing it, it is very comfortable. The stress on the body is very well distributed over the shoulders, so it’s really easy to wear for a long time. Nothing rubbing strangely or scratchy.
The harness did lead to me being f****ed silly for a very long time. I like it very hard and intense so it did add to that kind of fun. It created very deep penetration and I had that feeling (that I love) like I cannot get away, and I just have to take it. That makes me so turned on. So much fun.”
Based on my recommendation, a male friend bought his own Luv Rydr and used it on his female partner. He said:
“The Luv Rydr harness works in the same manner as the doggie strap, giving you handles, but it holds the whole person. It allows you to make sure your partner can’t get away and you can get great pressure. It’s holding them on the shoulders, really keeping them in place. It can even allow different angles that normally can’t be done more than a pump. Since it’s on the shoulder and a sturdy point to harness, you can balance yourself and pound away.”
So there you have it folks. I use these things for a reason, and, that reason is you! And in case you were wondering, I did not receive any compensation from these fine companies.
ride, Sally ride.
As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.
Intrigued? Contact me.
Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.
My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you.
Texas Tim has become a huge ass slut and I was determined to break in my new toys. Using the strap cap, I attached a nice sized dildo to my Lelo Cordless Wand.
He squatted over the Liberator and his hole slowly swallowed the purple dildo. The firm foam allowed Tim to gyrate to his specifications, becoming an enabler of his pleasure.
Next time, I will use the Liberator with my Hitachi Wand with P-Spot adapter on him and see how well that is received. I also have the sex stool, which in combination to the above could relieve leg fatigue. Hmmmm….
scalded. This has happened before…
dinner party I had for my FemmeDomme friends. He did a nice job serving and clearing the table, all the while in his special uniform. I was impressed, as he kept his thingy under control. There was no dripping on the floor. Such a good boy!
armed and eagled with no way to dismount. I could do WHATEVER I wanted to you. Oh the horror!
Anal Play: For many men, their deepest and darkest desires are to be pegged, I like to make a man spread his ass cheeks and become my Bend Over Boyfriend!
have a selection of wigs, jewelry, shoes and clothing to bring out the lady in you. You can be naughty or nice. I like it all! And you will too.
a few on you? Mistress J keeps her tools clean and organized, as you can see here. Farmer J knows the perfect tool is necessary for a good harvest. She is always buying new things. 
daily. An organized farmer like Mistress J has a bucket ready to go to collect milky white substances.
satisfying jolt wherever it’s needed. Leo is wearing the homemade humbler and to prevent him from finishing, I give him a hearty zap now and again. Another fun use for this is to use it during an edging session. A well timed zap keeps things in check. You see, Miss J like to control everything! 
people? The answer is no. The chair is for the lady’s comfort during certain activities. The height is perfect for panty sniffing and administering showers into the mouth while the person in question lies beneath. The chair also allows the lady to be comfortable while using her feet on select body parts. After all, why should Mistress J be uncomfortable, that’s the sub’s job!
I love to have access to various parts. A spreader bar helps with that purpose. I pry open a man’s legs, then cuff their ankles to the bar. I often pull their legs back and chain them to the wall. Such a nice view.
practitioner. We had an email consultation about outfits and accessories and planned a date.
The shoot went longer than three hours, almost five. I guess Mistress J is a muse for many, and Kamran was so caught up in me that we went over.