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I feel Good! And You Will Too…

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Cold metal chains on your bare behind!

So many of my posts show extreme deprivation of my guests here at the studio. Today I am sharing something of the softer side: Sensation Play. One of my favorite things to do.

Do you like that tingly feeling you get if you run your nails on your inner arm? I do.

Does light (or heavy) tickling turn you on and get you wet?

Do you like the contrast between hot and cold temperatures on your naked skin? Do you get the shivers? Do you like the feel of goose bumps and the feeling you get when your nipples harden?

That’s a part of sensation play. Your erogenous zones are areas on your body that have has heightened sensitivity, the stimulation of which may generate a sexual response such as relaxation, sexual fantasies, sexual arousal, and orgasm.

Most people think about the major erogenous zones like the genital area, nipples, lips and neck.  But don’t forget the inner elbow as I like to call it, back of the knee, ears and the sides of the hips.

I have personally experienced erogenous zone orgasm. During play, running a soft fuzzy implement on my neck turns me on so much. Sometimes I giggle and have a gigglegasm.

My favorite tools are my metal claws. I don’t leave home without them. They are a favorite among my guests. They can tickle, pinch, scratch, poke, anything my little heart desires. How about I trail my claws along your body from your ankle up to you shoulder? Perhaps your cock would like it if I dig my claws into your balls?

Stimulation—via kissing, caressing, or light pressure—enhances intimacy, builds arousal, and can diversify sexual experiences.

When the body is aroused, tickling and teasing are intensified. I love watching my guest squirm in pleasure. Now, add a blindfold and headphones. No sight or sound, what will happen next? The anticipation heightens the pleasure even more.

Spiky little things on your ding-a-ling!

The Wartenburg Wheel is another fun toy. In real life, it’s a medical tool used in neurological exams to test nerve sensitivity and pain perception. It features a small, spiky stainless steel wheel with radiating pins attached to a handle, which is rolled across the skin to assess sensory responses.

And assess I do! I often see things jumping in response to my wheel. Or claws, or ice roller, or…

The sessions where I do the majority of this sexy play is in my massage type sessions:

  • Bondassage and Elysium
  • Bond-a-Milk
  • Tie and tease
  • FBSM

I do play around with this in my BDSM sessions but very limited. Usually those are heavier more intense sessions. 

That being said, many things considered “heavy playing” such as flogging and cock ball torture (CBT) can be done sensually and gently. Flogging with a bunny flogger or piece of cloth feels good. CBT isn’t always the harsh scenes on porn. Tying the cock with a shoelace and stimulating it is gentle CBT.

I highly recommend that you give sensation play a try. In fact, try it with me! Contact me and book a session real soon.

XOX,

Mistress J

The Land of Milk and Honey. The Milking Table Experience.

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A hole in one!

So there you are, browsing Mistress J’s website, looking for an exciting and unique adventure, when suddenly, you see a listing for the Milking Table Experience. What could that be? Intrigued, you decide to read about it., and you find it’s a superior experience tailored for the discerning sensual gentleman, such as yourself. 

As you explore the listing, you feel a tingle in your nether regions. That’s what the milking table does, it makes you tingle and ready to mingle. As you lie face down on the table with your parts in a strategically cut out hole, gravity takes force. Things are able to dangle and grow comfortably without restriction. 

I start my session with some sexy sensation play and massage to get you relaxed. Next, I climb up and do jaw dropping body to body glides that gets things pointed downward and drippy. If you desire a little back door massage, I can incorporate that at this time.

When I decide I am ready to play with the front. I slide under the table and work your dangling participle. 

There’s a reason why this is called a gravity defying table. You see, the downward position allows your blood and juices to flow to their maximum capacity. Sensitivity is heightened, and combined with the comfort of simply lying still, is a dream come true. 

As I play with my toy, I can literally feel the build up in my hands. Cocks get incredibly hard and the pre-cum dripping is incredible. When my guest finally does explode, it comes from deep within, and the amount released is extra generous! 

My guests are left panting and spent, and perhaps even a little in shock at the intensity of the experience. 

I recommend giving the milking table a try. You will enjoy it, and will feel like a new man. I can combine this with Bondassage® for the adventurous individuals who crave submission and surrender. I call that session the Bond-a-Milk treatment.

Read more about Milking Tables here: https://www.kinkly.com/definition/10246/milking-table

 

 

A Fireside Chat With Mistress J…

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John is an out of town visitor who I see a few times a year. Our visits are always in the evening, and candle and firelight always set the stage for our sensual and spectacular sessions.

John enjoys being on display for Mistress J, and I love looking at his sexy body in the soft light of my fireplace. As a favored plaything, John likes to please his mistress and I enjoy telling him what he can do to please me. He is always in his serving uniform (naked) while I remain comfortably clothed.    

The session usually starts with him slowly stripping for me to music. He has a slim, toned tall and lean body, with just the right amount of body hair. After his strip tease, he treats Mistress to a nice, long sensual foot massage, complete with kissing and caressing. His strong hands know where my tootsies need it most, and such attention brings a smile to my face. I run my toes through his chest hair, giving the center hairs a nice tug with my toes. I also tug other things with my toes, but, I digress.

After the massage, he must show off his many skills, as well as his body, which he does with unbridled enthusiasm. John has a thirsty throat, as you can see in this photo. This nasty thing likes to suck it deep for Mistress J. He certainly knows how to give one heck of a sloppy BJ, and his cute little gagging sounds make me chuckle.

Sometimes, if Mistress is in the mood, John must give another show, one demonstrating his erotic skills. Can he gracefully mount and ride a dildo while masturbating and looking cute? Why yes, he can, and does so with glee. 

There’s a fair amount of slutty dirty talk during our sessions. John has a lady friend he chats with online, and they share their fantasies and mutually masturbate in front of each other. Their fantasies often involve me directing them to fondle themselves for my pleasure, and perhaps joining in the fun. One day I hope we can virtually include her in one of our sessions.

Talk such as this gets him extremely riled up. I swear this man’s cock just keeps getting bigger and redder, throbbing with delight. Sometimes I get riled up to and use my pink friend in front of him. It is safe to say, the session is often pleasurable for the both of us!

If you are in the mood for a nice, fireside chat with me, please reach out.

Intrigued? Contact me.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

What to Expect When You’re Expecting~Mistress J to Open

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What a long strange trip it has been.

After a long hiatus due to Covid19 and the health orders, the studio is cautiously reopening. A great many changes have taken place here at the studio.

The biggest change is my location! I sold the condo and bought a house a mile and a half away from the old place. Featuring a bigger playroom, air conditioning and a fireplace, Mistress J is ready to see her guests in comfort.

I moved at the beginning of the shelter in place and the quiet time allowed me to get my house and playroom in order. Though I will admit to constantly tweaking and adding exciting new things. I have also taken up gardening, which is very zen. I am expecting a very unique flower pot very soon that will be the PERFECT addition to my playroom.

Spank-a-doodle -do!

For example, a favorite purchase is this incredibly sexy spanking/fucking bench. You may have noticed I love red and black in my playroom, so I opted for the red bench. She is sooooo pretty. So far it seems to be a big hit. I love the restraints. I can’t have my guest wiggling away when I torment them.  Who wants to take a ride? 

In addition to these lovely items, I have some cute signage so people don’t get lost or forget where they are.

But what about the virus you ask? Well, let me tell you. I have purchased this air purifier that kills micro-organisms with a UV light. This will be on during our sessions. You will be asked to shower before we begin playing. As soon as we are done, I will immediately open the sliding glass door to let in sun and fresh air, and spray everything with alcohol and lemon myrtle. 

Once you leave the building, a cleaning I will go! Bathroom, playroom, hallway, doorknobs, switches, bottles, toys, pillows, furniture and equipment will get bleached or sanitized with cavi-wipes. 

I will only be seeing 1 person a day for a while. I stay home most of the time, enjoying my home with the exception to shop. I keep my house clean and feel I provide a healthy environment for my guests. I will expect the courtesy of letting me know if you feel under the weather so we can reschedule, and temperatures might be taken. Masks can also add to the fun!

There is nothing more sexy than safety!

 

*As of 3/31/21, Mistress J has had her first Covid vaccine! 

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Why is a Sensual Massage by Mistress J so Sensational?

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Sensual massage is one of my specialties. I love doing it, because I personally LOVE sensation play! I love receiving, and love giving. For folks not into BDSM, pegging, femminization or any of the rougher stuff,  sensual massage is a fabulous way to surrender and connect with me.

I set the stage with soft scent, candles and music. You start face down and I slowly warm up your body with soft touch. I might use feathers, a fur mitt, or silky fabric to get the goosebumps going.

I tickle the inside of your arm, along your side, behind the knee. Your erogenous zones are fair game, and I make use of them.

I use the music as a tool, using the beats and cadence to match what I am doing to your body. Even though this is a softer, sensual massage, I am in control, and guide you the whole time. I love to play, and you are my favorite plaything. 

Slowly I start to massage you with warm oil. Your legs, feet back, shoulders and buttocks get massaged. as I feel you sink further into surrender, I do my exquisite body glides. My curvy body is on top of you, and I slip and slide.

Then, I turn you over, and do it all again. Perhaps I start to incorporate something a bit more prickly? The wheel is fun, and sends shivers down your spine. A combination of heat and ice in exciting places makes you gasp with pleasure!

More warm oil, more body to body contact. Finally, a sublime ending.

Surrender never felt so good…

We can add a twist to this and tie you up!  An even deeper experience is Bondassage.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

 

 

 

How Liberating! Hands free pleasure at the studio.

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Mistress J is all about multi-tasking. So any devices that can help her do two things at once, or sit back and enjoy a show are always welcomed.

Recently, Texas Tim gifted me with the Liberator Wanda Magic Toy Mount, The Wand Essentials Strap Cap and the Wand Essentials Passion Pillow Wand Harness from Amazon. We had fun with the Liberator during our session. 

Texas Tim has become a huge ass slut and I was determined to break in my new toys. Using the strap cap, I attached a nice sized dildo to my Lelo Cordless Wand.

Now I was ready to have some fun. At the appropriate time, the Texas slut presented his ass to me and I used the wand on him. The girth and curvature of the dong allowed me to keep it vibrating in his ass hands free and allowed me to prepare other delights, such as my strap on.

After pounding him with my strap on cocks, I decided he needed to entertain me. After all, he’s here for MY amusement, not the other way around. 

He was instructed to straddle the Liberator complete with ass wand and ride it, Tim willingly complied.  He squatted over the Liberator and his hole slowly swallowed the purple dildo. The firm foam allowed Tim to gyrate to his specifications, becoming an enabler of his pleasure.

I sat on the couch and watched.

I pointed the wand this way and that,  alternating his positions as he sat this way and that.

I think he enjoyed it best when he straddled it while facing the smaller side of the pillow. His ass and his legs got a bit of a workout! Later, he told me he really enjoyed the Liberator and it might have been his favorite thing that day.

Next time, I will use the Liberator with my Hitachi Wand with P-Spot adapter on him and see how well that is received. I also have the sex stool, which in combination to the above could relieve leg fatigue. Hmmmm….

The Liberator can be used for a woman’s pleasure too. In fact, I think that was the original intent, but Miss J is a naughty thing. 

Mistress J’s Desire:     

This could be me with you watching.

I have the desire to restrain a slut and force him to watch me pleasure myself with my Lelo. I’ll be comfortable perched on the Liberator and can ride it how I see fit. Ah, the agony!

Here is a caveat. Please DO NOT ask (or beg) for this particular scenario. It is for me to decide if and when I want to  do it. If you ask, it will not happen. No exceptions, not even hints or references.

If it happens, it will be a surprise.

As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

Drilling Me Softly… The Joy of the Drill-Do!

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“I heard she sang a good song…”*

Wanna get tooled?

Yes, Mistress J is always on the lookout for new toys, and since 90% of her visitors enjoy ass play, she recently invested in a Drill-Do.

You see, women enjoy power tools as much as men, and this lil’ beauty has proven itself to be the queen of my crop. (pun intended)

This is an actual drill by Chicago Electric. I find that very appropriate since Mistress J’s family comes from Chicago. Serendipity perhaps?

This drill has a unique cock attachment and can accommodate any vac-u-lock style dong. The good news is, if I want to do any remodeling, I can switch out the cock attachment for a saw and take down what needs to come down. But, I digress.

The Drill-Do has proven itself to be a safe and fun toy that brings much pleasure to both parties. Mistress J is a stickler for hygiene, always uses a condom, and thoroughly cleans each and every item after use. 

Instead of a drill bit, I call it a drill butt!

Long term visitor Allen was my first victim. He submitted to some wax play and as he presented his lovely butt to me, I inserted the Drill-do. 

I think we we both a little nervous. I had never used a saw before and was unsure of the power and if I could handle such a machine. Allen was nervous because he was on the receiving end, and as someone very familiar with power tools, and, well, nothing more needs to be said.

I slipped on a condom and lubed up the dong. Once securely in place, I started the machine on low. I heard a delightful humming and couldn’t tell if it came from Allen or the Drill-Do. Perhaps both?

A Happy Mistress!

After the initial warm up, Allen gave the OK for faster power.  Soon, I had the Drill-Do going full speed! I felt so powerful holing my butt drill. Allen was very happy and could really take it, so I gave it.

Sweet Caroline

I am so glad I have my new toy. This has proven to be worth every penny, and is my ultimate tool. I have used it on quite a few butts, all with raving reviews. Mistress J has mastered the machine!

As always, Mistress J is looking for a few good men or women to play with.

Wanna try the Drill-Do? I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*From Roberta Flak’s Killing me softly with his song.

Down of the Farm. Fall is Harvest Time!

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Were you pervs aware Mistress J is a farmer? Yes indeed. She specializes in a particular form of animal husbandry; the male cock! And now that its fall, let’s harvest these guys.

 

Big, angry cock!

Cockadoodledo!

The farm is a serene place, full of peaceful animals except for one. There is one very large, angry cock with a bright red head. Look at him! Why is he mad? Perhaps he needs a spanking to straighten him out.

 

Peter Cotton Balls.

 

Bunnies happily frolic in the barnyard. Look at Peter Cotton Balls. Isn’t he cute? I think so, and in typical bunny fashion, it looks like he’s ready to multiply!

 

Lots of hay and tools are regularly used on my farm. Perhaps I have even used a few on you? Mistress J keeps her tools clean and organized, as you can see here.  Farmer J knows the perfect tool is necessary for a good harvest. She is always buying new things. 

 

A very special tool is the drip bucket. Drips and spills occur almost daily. An organized farmer like Mistress J has a bucket ready to go to collect milky white substances.

Remember the rhyme “Jack and Jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of water”? Well, Mistress J tends to fetch other liquids here on the farm, and the cocks don’t complain either…

 

More Cowbell!

And no farm can be complete without cowbells!

 

 

If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination and want to visit the farm, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

The Perils of Being My Plaything!

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It’s not my fault you are a dirty slut. But you are, and you need to be punished!

When you visit me, you agree to be my plaything. Your body is here for my amusement and entertainment. After we negotiate our boundaries, you become mine!  Now the peril begins…   

 

Taming the Teat:

Got sensitive nipples? I think nipple suckers are just the thing! Are you worried your nipples are too small? Relax, after an hour in one of these, your nipples will be nice and plump as the compression sends the blood to the desired area. They will be nice and tender afterwards too.

Girls just want to have fun. And this little lady liked electrical play on her nipples! Such a naughty thing. She needed to be put in her place. She was, and she liked it.

 

 

Humble Beginnings:

You know I like my men humble. I have both a homemade humbler and a store bought humbler. Here, Mike models the store bought humbler and a variety of festive clothespins I picked up last year on my vacation in Poland. Ain’t they pretty? And they feel sooo nice when Mistress takes them off! For some reason this photo makes me smile.

 

 

 

Controlling  the Cock:

Zap, Crackle, Pop! A fabulous erection controlling device is my zapper! The violet want comes with a variety of attachments and delivers a satisfying jolt wherever it’s needed. Leo is wearing the homemade humbler and to prevent him from finishing, I give him a hearty zap now and again. Another fun use for this is to use it during an edging session. A well timed zap keeps things in check.  You see, Miss J like to control everything! 

 

Where’s the beef?

Sometimes a man simply can’t control his erection! If that is the case, chastity shows him who’s the boss. Me! Here, Mike proudly submits to being locked up in his Bon 4 metal cage. He is owned by me and will now experience long term confinement. 

 

 

So that’s the story pervs.

If you are a nasty thing and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Stop and smell the roses! Panty Sniffing in San Jose.

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The Scent of a Woman. It’s intoxicating. So much that they even named a movie after it. 

I get very sweaty down there while I work, and my panties pay the price!

Panty sniffing is a popular fetish. Some men simply can’t get enough of the female smell.  Smell is a pwerful motivator. 

Wikipedia states “Olfactophilia or osmolagnia is a paraphilia for, or sexual arousal by, smells and odors emanating from the body, especially the sexual areas.” One man said my nether regions smell like “A salty ocean breeze.”

Taking in the salty air…

I often have guests ask if they can have the honor of smelling my undies. I often comply, and if I know in advance of their penchant for panties, I will don a pair of well worn fragrant ones, and let them enjoy the bouquet!

Smothering is a popular request.  As my guest lies on his back, I envelop his nose and mouth as I sit down. He is smothered by my thighs and ‘things’ until he can’t breathe. Now, imagine a gentleman with a panty fetish enjoying those sights and smells while I wear well worn and dirty panties! 

Mistress J is a big fan of thongs, and wears them daily, but some men have a granny panty fetish. I have had several clients request that I wear traditional nylon knickers, the kind you buy at Target eight to a pack. Perhaps they remind them of days gone by, like seeing them on the neighbor’s clothes line as they dry in the afternoon breeze. 

Granny panties!

Here is a photo of my round, curvy, juicy bottom fully encased in shiny nylon. What are your thoughts? 

I have been known to give my guest a lovely parting gift of the panties worn during the session. These are the ones he has sniffed and worn on his face. I put them in a sandwich baggie to preserve the smell, and my guest gets to think of our session every time he opens the bag!

Some men want to wear my panties, mingling their scent with mine. How naughty and intimate!

Now remember readers,  a true gentleman would NEVER steal a woman’s panties. That is just plain rude! 

A glimpse up my skirt.

After all, these small articles of fabric can be expensive, and every gal has her favorite pair. Most gals are happy to donate their dainties if asked. But theft is just wrong. Mistress J does not tolerate that kind of behavior.

If you are curious about the smell of my panties and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.