Caught With His Panties Down!

Pretty in Pink!

Pretty in Pink!

There are some men who enjoy wearing women’s panties. I happen to enjoy these men, and they do seem to find me.

Many a female friend has asked me what I enjoy about a panty-clad man, since they don’t find it attractive at all. There is defiantly a D/s aspect in asking a man to wear panties.

Historically, a straight man would sooner die than wear women’s clothes, for fear of being emasculated, or called a sissy by his peers. To seem “woman-like” was a terrible thing. Since women were perceived as weak, a man could NOT be weak. That would be social suicide.

fan

The fan had a secret language in days of old!

Though women had extreme social limitations, and labeled the “weaker” sex, they fortunately had the privilege of being the decorative sex. Women were able to express themselves through fabrics. Colors, textures, silks, satin, lace, ribbons and assorted trimmings were all at her disposal. And this wasn’t just limited to outerwear. Women’s underwear has, and continues to be, the ultimate sensual expression of female sexuality.

My clients enjoy wearing women’s panties because it pleases me. I enjoy the way the high cut legs accentuate a man’s behind. I love the way his package is highlighted and outlined. All the time, I hear that men enjoy the feeling of the silky fabric, the pretty lace and colors make them feel sexy in a way their plain, white cotton Jockey shorts do not.

May I serve you Mistress?

May I serve you Mistress?

I have seen amazing transformations the minute a frilly pair of panties is put on. The quiet, conservative man starts shaking his behind in glee. Feminine mannerisms appear suddenly natural to the wearer. It is as if the panties were a magical garment releasing a hidden person!

The intimate nature of the item also allows concealment under manly work clothes. Added excitement is the possible threat of discovery. Wearing panties to work is a delightful secret for the wearer and his Mistress.

 

Proof that some men wear panties to work!

Proof that some men wear panties to work!

Silicon Valley is a place of many contradictions. Men in tech are expected to be aggressive and dominant, and very much in control. It is a place where Dockers and a polo shirt are the standard uniform, though many young engineers wear jeans. That boring uniform cries out for expression. Realistically, one must conform, so panty wearing is the perfect solution to add some flair and sensuality, yet still remain outwardly masculine.

If you are curious about wearing panties or Feminine Domination, I invite you to visit me for a session or photo shoot.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is Mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Mummy Dearest

Many people like to get wrapped up in their work, but I can’t think of anyone who enjoys pallet wrap more then Ed of my friend and wrapper at Serious Images. You see Ed, is serious about bondage.

I met Ed at a party where he was watching over Modenarr who was lying on the floor wrapped from the neck down in pallet wrap with just his head and feet exposed and wiggling around. After carefully stepping over Modenarr, Ed and I sat down and had a long conversation where he explained to me the benefits of mummification and sensory deprivation.

Ed painted a picture of the recipient going on an inward trip, somewhat

Ed is wrapped up in his work!

Ed is wrapped up in his work!

different than the subspace of heavy impact play. He made it sound interesting and intriguing, and I expressed an interest in learning more and being both a top AND a bottom in a mummification scene.

Coincidentally, the next day, I went to a seminar at the Looking Glass featuring Cleo du Bois and sensory dep. It was a sensory dep weekend! The universe provides, here was something being shown to me that struck a cord, and I had to try.

A day was arranged and both Ed and Modenarr came over. Modenarr likes to use the term “wrap in foil”, and if you follow his adventures, you will find he is quite the little mummification slut, having played with some heavy hitters here in Silicon Valley. But I digress…

Modenarr, brought over a large suitcase filled with latex costumes, hoods and very specific metal devices. He also brought a bucket filled with colorful duct tape and 2 rolls of pallet wrap. He is a very prepared guy!

First, Ed and I strapped him into a sleep sac so I could see what that was all about, and since I have 3 cats, I wanted him to wear the kitty hood. We let Modenarr enjoy the comfort of my playroom and let the kitties explore the new plaything in the floor.

wrapAfter lunch, Ed gave me a step by step tutorial on proper wrapping and decorating using tape. We had Modenarr get nekkid, and Ed showed me how to wrap the pallet wrap around his body. Some folks wraps the arms separately, others wrap them to the body. You caan also use regular plastic wrap for this. After we encased his body in plastic, the duct tape was applied. Ed is known for his design work, so you won’t see a plain black wrapping by his hands.

We chose a red and black color scheme and I feel Ed’s design has a slight Aztec inspired look, don’t you?

photo (30)Of course, as a FemDom who delights in the naughty, a little humiliation was in order! I had a brand new dong, and Modenarr was the first to use it in any imaginable way. What a lucky kitty. Here he is giving it a kiss.

Remember, I offer private sessions as well as erotic photo sessions. Are you interested in mummification or sensory dep?

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing, gender bending is welcomed and encouraged here.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is Mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I can be found on Fetlife as MistressJ9. I look forward to hearing from you.

Two Goddesses Take The Virginity of the Sissy Handmaid

Not that long ago, in a galaxy far, far away SissyDomme Alice decided she needed a partner in crime to help=

manage the annual ritual of the Sacrifice of the Sissy Handmaiden’s Virginity on the Temple of Dommiliciousness.

After a lengthy search, Alice found MistressJ9, a friend of the sissies and fellow artist/Dominatrix. After showing her gratitude at being chosen as a SissyDomme, MissJ9 presented Alice with the handmaiden she carefully selected, dressed and decorated for the sacrifice.

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SeabhacM, the virginal handmaid, presented the Dommes with a flower to show her appreciation at being chosen. Alice, being the crafty rope Goddess, secured SeabhacM to the sacrificial Temple, where she was left for 2 days. Braving the elements, the young virgin touched MissJ9’s heart with her bravery and the tenderhearted Mistress shielded the maid with her umbrella, until her arm became tired.

Finally the day of the sacrifice came. MissJ9 inspected SeabhacM, confirming she was=
indeed a virgin. The two Goddesses encircled the temple, and, with their magical Dominatrix powers turned the maid into a quivering heap of flesh. Together they spanked, teased, pulled, tugged, tormented and sang to the young lady until her virginity was forcibly taken by one of the lovely Dommes.

Now finally a woman, SeabhacM was untied and left to crawl to her village. If she made it there alive, any willing Dominatrix could take the sissy into her home and use her as she saw fit. That is the honor of the sacrifice; to be forever used by FemDoms for eternity.

The End.

Did you enjoy this story? You can plan your very own fantasy session with Mistress J and Alice!

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing, gender bending is welcomed and encouraged here.

For more information on Alice, check out her websites AliceinBondageLand and AliceinSissyLand and AliceinStraponLand.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is Mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Alice in Chains. Or, Me and a Movie Star do an Amazing Transformation!

Two weeks ago, I had the honor of filming with the fabulous and famous Alice of Alice In Bondage Land!

Alice had arranged a special day for Mistress J.  She had her chastity clad sissy Bobbie ready to go for a full transformation, and I was going to be providing make up tips for sissies. This post will show you photos from the day and tell you about some of the fun we had turning Robert into Bobbie. If you want to see the full video, take a look at Alice In Sissy Land. The video will be uploaded shortly and you watch our adventure.

I provide complete cross dressing transformation services here at Mistress J Studios. Your session can include  hair and makeup, a photo session and even a little FemDom.

This was a fun day. We met at the Sunnyvale studio in our street clothes looking very vanilla. Bobbie (still Robert) hung up her wardrobe, laid out her frilly panties, lined up her shoes, then I picked out the outfit I wanted her to change into.  After the outfit was selected, we had to choose appropriate accessories, as they make the look complete, and it was decided I would let her wear my great-auntie’s vintage pearl necklace and screw back earrings.

Alice and I changed into our sexy Domina clothes set up our cameras and the filming began. Step by step I explained
what I was doing as far as makeup for Bobbie. That included color matching foundation, evening out redness, covering 5 o’clock shadow, etc. I demonstrated eye makeup techniques and painted on eyebrows, ending with the application of very full and fabulous false eyelashes. Sometime during the makeup lesson, it was determined that Bobbie was very wiggly, so Alice had to restrain her in ropes so she wouldn’t get away.

After the makeup and positioning of the wig, Bobbie was untied and told to get dressed. Bobbie had to strip out of her boy clothes and change into her girl clothes right there on camera! This included applying breast forms, the corset to make a waist, leggings and other support garments.

Bobbie is in chastity and had been for about 3 months. After stepping out of her man briefs, we got a good look at her bits in chastity. Her balls had grown huge and her little cock looked more like a clit confined in a cage.  Alice, being

If you look closely, you can see the chastity device.

If you look closely, you can see the chastity device.

Bobbie’s keyholder supervised the outfit change offering suggestions, humiliation and discipline when appropriate.

For the remainder of the afternoon, I took glamorous still photos of Bobbie and Alice, even a few of me were taken.

Alice and I then teamed up and doubled dommed the beautiful Bobbie. That naughty girl was giggly and wiggly and we had to put her in her place! Spanking, flogging, whipping

Bobbie is being a naughty girl.

Bobbie is being a naughty girl.

and general tormenting ensued, and the two ladies thoroughly enjoyed themselves.

After the photo shoot, we headed up to San Francisco to participate in the Sissy munch at Wicked Grounds coffee shop.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing, gender bending is welcomed and encouraged here.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is Mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I can be found on Fetlife as MistressJ9. I look forward to hearing from you.

Robert before.

Robert before.

 

Bobbie after with her keyholder Alice

Bobbie after the transformation with her keyholder Alice

Please Allow Me to (re)Introduce Myself

At long last my naughty new website has launched! 

Welcome readers to my new blog and website. Take a look around and enjoy the view.

Today, I will reintroduce myself to all of my readers. I am Mistress J, Erotic Photographer, Feminine Dominant and Transformation Artist.

Many of you have read my blog posts and know what I do. This blog tells you how Mistress J came to be.

For as long as I could remember, I have been a Feminist. Born in the Midwest and raised with traditional patriarchal views, I always bristled at the notion that women could not do something simply because they were women.

I am not exactly referring to choice of occupation, such as a woman wanting to be a plumber or electrician. I do feel women should do what they want for a living, even if I had no desire to do that type of work. I am referring to things such as having to be in earlier than the male child, the assumed role of domestic goddess, the Madonna complex, etc.

I always needed a better reason than “you are female, it is your job.”

I also questioned the double standard of sexual freedom of men v. women and was told “that is the way it is.”

I remember admiring women who were in control of their sexuality, doing what (and who) they wanted  and living their life their way. Think Mae West and Marlene Dietrich.

Deep down, I didn’t agree with these patriarchal views, but didn’t know about alternatives. As I got older, I didn’t even know about kink. Eventually, I heard about it, but didn’t feel the need to explore it.  Until one day.

From the moment I picked up my camera I have been a voyeur. I became a photojournalist and my camera opened the door to many things, court-side seats at basketball games, backside passes at music events, meetings with politicians, crossing police tape, etc. Granted, I had to provide a service for those privileges, but don’t we all? My camera allowed me to participate from the sidelines, to watch, AND be in a spot of some importance. My images were respected and admired. On the side,  I was growing a wedding and portrait business which eventually turned into a full time job.

The years passed, and I started  to do boudoir photography for women, and I was naturally good at it. It was during these shoots I noticed an exchange of power that titillated me. Through advertising, I started to get a few phone calls from men who wanted nude photos of themselves for various reasons, slowly, I took these men on as clients.

It was also during this time I went through a very messy and painful divorce. I mention this only because that experience catapulted Mistress J to the surface. Trauma changes you, and in my case, it brought out my sexy, dominant side. My camera introduced me to a culture I didn’t really know about, but once I started exploring, realized I fit into it quite nicely. I also discovered I belong on top.

In the vanilla world, I felt I had to keep some of my discoveries on the down low, suppress my feelings of power, desire and art. I often felt like an outsider. In the kink world, I do not.

Mistress J likes to command. She loves to command with her camera. She loves to direct and watch someone strip themselves figuratively and physically of their clothes and trappings and reveal a piece of themselves inside. She loves to feel that intoxicating power of unleashing that energy and creating a beautiful photo. She enjoys seeing a man weep with gratitude having given him a safe place to show his feminine side in a world that only celebrates masculinity. She enjoys giving that shy guy or gal the experience of feeling confident & beautiful in front of my lens, even if it is only for a short while.

She is me.

I invite you to share that experience with me.

Intrigued? ? Contact me. My email is Mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.

 

 

 

CFNM. Clothed Female Nude Male.

I dedicate this blog post to loyal reader Roger, this is his favorite topic. I write this in the morning before my afternoon photo shoot, where a lot of CFNM will be going on.

CFNM. Clothed Female Nude Male.

shoe webWhat the heck is this? I know many of you are asking, so I will tell you. The definition is taken from that reliable source Wikipedia.

“One-sided male nudity can also arise when a male disrobes for the sexual pleasure of a woman or other women, such as in a BDSM and/or sexual activity, as an indication of sexual submission, or as part of a male striptease. The objective of this type of scenario is that the male is denied the sexual pleasure of seeing the women in the same state of undress, and is not in a position to dominate the scene.

One-sided male nudity is also considered by some to be a form of sexual objectification of men or as a role reversal, whereby the male assumes a subservient sex role.”

That pretty much sums it up. As you know, Mistress J likes to dominate her sessions. And, as you know, Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing, gender bending is welcomed and encouraged here.

My main clients happen to be the submissive male and cross dressers. I think it is because I know how to make people feel safe.  And when men are stepping outside of traditional gender roles, or trying

A man adoring the lady's foot.

A man adoring a lady’s foot.

 

something they might perceive as a hidden desire that might be considered dirty and out of the norm, it puts them in a vulnerable spot.  I also feel male submission is a way for men to express their desire to worship and express their adoration of women. But the word submissive isn’t bad. At least not in my mind. In a world where women are still taught to serve men, being served is a wonderful experience.

I could go on and on about the psychology of why some men might want to be submissive and then have it photographed, but as I have said before, that is another blog post.

I will say, I understand that some men crave this. They want to have a woman tell them what to do, control them even if only for a brief moment in a private space.  The photographs capture this moment, providing a souvenir. Men also long to be perceived as attractive, many want to be objectified. A photo session with a skilled photographer such as myself ensures the experience of being a model along with the technical skills of creating a good photograph.

So, a submissive male session usually consists of me, Mistress J fully clothed and photographing the male in submissive poses. Since the sessions are sensual, I photograph my client and all of his, shall we say, attributes. Some even want a little FemDom thrown in, and please stay tuned, because that WILL be my next blog post!

Ladies, it IS OK to dominate a man, so long as you both desire it!In her personal life, Mistress J has a houseboy who likes to come over and help around the house.  Here is a photo of him serving me wine in his “uniform”. I enjoy his company, and enjoy his help. He is a good cook and handyman. He also likes to dress up on occasion and become Tanya.

So yes, things are pretty interesting here at Mistress J Studios.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is Mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  Look for my website launch this month!

http://mistressjstudios.wordpress.com/about/

BEHIND the Scenes at Mistress J Studios!

                                                                                                                                                                

Adonis by Mistress JBaby Got Back!

I write this post Monday morning listening to Sir Mix-A-Lot’s song Baby Got Back, or I Like Big Butts. Mistress J is dedicating this post to the wonderful curves of the male behind! This post will be heavier on photos than text, but, I am sure you won’t mind.

I Cannot Lie…

Many of you are probably wondering what the heck happened over the weekend to inspire such a post. I could go into details, but that is another blog post, and besides, that happened two weekends ago…

“I like em round and big.” But seriously, the male butt is not given the attention it deserves. As an admirer of most things male, Mistress J loves photographing nude men, and LOVES a juicy rump. Just as many male photographers enjoy photographing the female form, I dig the male form.  So book your session and show me the goods! I might just have to sink my teeth into you. Again, another blog post, but I digress.

How Do I Love Thee? Let Me Count the Ways           BW Butt Miss J

I think most people are drawn to their opposite or the unfamiliar. I love the strength and hardness (no pun intended) of the male body.  Since I am able to connect deeply with my clients, I see the

other side that often remains hidden and love showing a bit of the vulnerability that all men have.  If you recall from a previous post, I am influenced by art and particularly drawn to classical sculpture and architecture. I was an avid reader of Greek mythology and I think some of these images evoke the strength and power of Greek sculpture and neoclassic paintings.

This was one of my first ever butt photos and still a favorite. I met this model in 2009 and we struck up a friendship. I have used this image many times on the web and in print and it is in a beautiful hardcover album of sensual images. 

artistic buttThat album has been displayed at many events and trade shows and this page ALWAYS comes back with lots of finger prints! Women like him and love to stroke his back. Many like the hair on his back and  tailbone, though some have expressed a preference for smooth.  Hair or no hair, his backside commands attention and I will be forwarding this blog post to his so he can get a warm glow of satisfaction, among other things.    You can see I have a fondness for sepia colored images.

sub in front of cross Mistress J

Bow down like a good boy!

Perhaps you are not aware that I offer optional FemDom services in a photo session? Care to feel the sting of a whip or just want to submit to my feminine power? We can do that.  My studio has a beautiful handmade cross ,  sensation devices and will soon boast a VERY unique chair and table.

Mistress J StudiosThe image on the right is of  someone I have had the pleasure of working with twice, and playing with once. He is the quintessential alpha male and submissive as hell. I love it! Unfortunately  he moved to the land of 50 Shades of Grey and we no longer see each other.  Always up for exhibitionism and experimentation (provided I don’t show his face), this gentleman has the body and mind to put a Mistress in heaven.

I Wanna Get Wicha and Take Yo Pict-cha!

Back end By Miss J

Once you go back…

That’s right, I do. You would not be reading this blog post if you weren’t a little curious or naughty, or even a bit of a perv.  Let’s create some magic. I can photograph your front or your back, or anything in between. Curious about FemDom? I don’t blame you, I would be too.  I am a unique Dominant combining the artistic with the altruistic.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is Mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  Look for my website launch this month!

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing, gender bending is welcomed and encouraged here.

http://mistressjstudios.wordpress.com/about/

Please Don’t Lose That Butt!

P.S. If you have forgotten the words to Baby Got Back, or perhaps are unfamiliar with the song, click this link. In fact, shake things up a bit and read this post and blast the song from your desk at work. It will make Monday much more exciting and set the tone for the week!

http://vimeo.com/43933877

Photographing the Non-Submissive Male. Personal Reflections From Miss J

Happy Thursday folks! Did you have a good Hump Day? I sure did. Mistress J has been a little naughty this week, but I won’t go into details today. That is another blog post…

Male Dom by Mistress J

A very Hitchcock inspired photo.

This week I will be discussing a very controversial subject for a FemDom studio such as mine. It might even shock you a little to hear. But believe it or not, Mistress J sometimes photographs Male Dominants! I hear the shocked gasp of readers, but it is true. After all, Mistress J is a smart and savvy business owner, so why turn away a man just because he happens to be Dom?

All of my clients, male or female, Dom or sub want the same thing, an experience. That experience depends on the client and it is my job to find out what it is they are looking for.

The Titillating Effect of Power Exchange.

One of the things I enjoy most about my work is the connection I make with a client. When I work with a submissive, it is a awesome feeling watching them unfold before me. As I have said before in many of my posts, I often see things nobody else does. Not even their spouse. That responsibility comes with power. Power titillates. It excites. Yes, I am saying it; I feel a sense of excitement during a session. That feeling is pure FemDom combining my acute artistic eye and tender compassion into an erotic session. If I could bottle that feeling and sell it, I’d be a millionaire.

Male domNow take a male Dom. He does not need to unfold. He is already there. Powerful, defiant, unabashed. He might have his submissive with him who obeys his every word. But he is there for a session, he has hired me. An interesting situation being the client who pays for what he wants, to a Mistress who dominates in photography. As accommodating as I am to my clients, Mistress J is in complete control of her studio.

The Eyes Have It.

An interesting factoid: Submissive men tend to look downward and eye contact is slow to meet. The dominant male enjoys staring at Mistress J, as if to peer into her soul and try to dominate her.  ey eye

This is Where it Gets Interesting.

I still get excited during a session with a Dom! But it is different. I know my cameras, I know lighting, I know people. With 20 years photography experience and 15 managing drunk people at weddings, it takes a LOT to shake me. But they try. I get a thrill off the stare down, the subtle forms of defiance that they might do, feeling that the shiver down my back. Sometimes it amuses me, sometimes I even get a little angry, and sometimes I even let them think I backed down a little. But I always get the shot I want and that makes me Mistress J.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing, gender bending, and even male Doms are welcome here.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is Mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  Look for my website launch this month!

http://mistressjstudios.wordpress.com/about/