I feel Good! And You Will Too…

Cold metal chains on your bare behind!

So many of my posts show extreme deprivation of my guests here at the studio. Today I am sharing something of the softer side: Sensation Play. One of my favorite things to do.

Do you like that tingly feeling you get if you run your nails on your inner arm? I do.

Does light (or heavy) tickling turn you on and get you wet?

Do you like the contrast between hot and cold temperatures on your naked skin? Do you get the shivers? Do you like the feel of goose bumps and the feeling you get when your nipples harden?

That’s a part of sensation play. Your erogenous zones are areas on your body that have has heightened sensitivity, the stimulation of which may generate a sexual response such as relaxation, sexual fantasiessexual arousal, and orgasm.

Most people think about the major erogenous zones like the genital area, nipples, lips and neck.  But don’t forget the inner elbow as I like to call it, back of the knee, ears and the sides of the hips.

I have personally experienced erogenous zone orgasm. During play, running a soft fuzzy implement on my neck turns me on so much. Sometimes I giggle and have a gigglegasm.

My favorite tools are my metal claws. I don’t leave home without them. They are a favorite among my guests. They can tickle, pinch, scratch, poke, anything my little heart desires. How about I trail my claws along your body from your ankle up to you shoulder? Perhaps your cock would like it if I dig my claws into your balls?

Stimulation—via kissing, caressing, or light pressure—enhances intimacy, builds arousal, and can diversify sexual experiences.

When the body is aroused, tickling and teasing are intensified. I love watching my guest squirm in pleasure. Now, add a blindfold and headphones. No sight or sound, what will happen next? The anticipation heightens the pleasure even more.

Spiky little things on your ding-a-ling!

The Wartenburg Wheel is another fun toy. In real life, it’s a medical tool used in neurological exams to test nerve sensitivity and pain perception. It features a small, spiky stainless steel wheel with radiating pins attached to a handle, which is rolled across the skin to assess sensory responses.

And assess I do! I often see things jumping in response to my wheel. Or claws, or ice roller, or…

The sessions where I do the majority of this sexy play is in my massage type sessions:

  • Bondassage and Elysium
  • Bond-a-Milk
  • Tie and tease
  • FBSM

I do play around with this in my BDSM sessions but very limited. Usually those are heavier more intense sessions. 

That being said, many things considered “heavy playing” such as flogging and cock ball torture (CBT) can be done sensually and gently. Flogging with a bunny flogger or piece of cloth feels good. CBT isn’t always the harsh scenes on porn. Tying the cock with a shoelace and stimulating it is gentle CBT.

I highly recommend that you give sensation play a try. In fact, try it with me! Contact me and book a session real soon.

XOX,

Mistress J

Feeling Groovy. Let’s talk about Elysium®.

“In Greek mythology, only those specially favored by the gods entered Elysium and were made immortal …”

 -Encyclopedia Britannica

How slow can you go? That’s what Elysium is about.

The slow sensual touch of my hand, the silky feeling of my soft fluffy tools, a feather running across your skin. You are tied to my table, blindfolded and are wearing headphones. You cannot see or hear what will happen next…

Elysium focuses the senses, alternating soft brush strokes, excruciatingly slow bodywork and expert caresses with soft, silk bondage, and sensory focusing tools. Elysium brings you the ultimate sensual experience, and is the  ultimate test of self control.

Time is suspended. Soft music plays through the headphones. My touch matches the beat of the music. You are my captive, yet, you are not afraid. You know you can trust me and surrender to my lead.

 

“Slow down, you move too fast. You got to make the morning last.”*

 

What is that? You shiver as an ice cube teases your nipple and slowly makes its way down to your crotch. Warm oil surrounds your cock in a gentle, yet firm grip. You want to move, but cannot. How wonderful for you to have to lie there and take what Mistress gives.

The warm oil feels delicious. Her fingers seem to find every neglected place on your body. She touches your lingam sooooo slowly. It’s agonizing and fulfilling at the same time.

Wait a minute. Is Mistress J grabbing my balls with her toes? That feels great! You never knew you could last this long.

Uh oh, you are edging.You might explode. She backed off a bit. Whew, you can take more exquisite torture. For now…

More oil, more slow caresses, more sensation play. The pressure builds and subsides again and again. Until finally, bliss.

You really do feel like a god. 

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

*”The 59th Street Bridge Song (Feelin‘ Groovy)”, a by Simon & Garfunkel;