Pegging for Newbies! Bliss is butt a short drive away.

I have these undies in red.

Mistress J enjoys working with newbies, and she especially likes taking a man’s ass virginity.

I get many inquiries from men who have never experienced the joys of ass play, but are dying to try. “Come on over.” I tell them. Let me pop your cherry! Bliss is butt a short drive away…

First, give yourself an enema at home. A clean butt is good manners.

How to I go about stretching out a virgin ass? The most important thing is to take my time. Why rush, the journey is fun. I start with a gloved finger and lots of silicon based lube. I tease the rosebud with circular motions. As I feel you relax, I gently slide the tip of my finger in. 

I have a good grasp of reading my guest’s bodies. I can usually tell when they are relaxed enough for penetration. I tell them to listen to their body. Some days the mind is willing but the body isn’t, it’s important to honor this.

The lube is applied and my fingertip is slowly warming up the back door. When I feels it’s time, my finger slides in. I give you a taste of all of my fingers. Next, I move on to my vibrating butt plug. After enjoying the cool vibes, I decide what you might need and can handle next.

Some butts need the slut machine, which is my Hitachi capped with a prostate adapter. This provides a fab warm up to a dildo. The dual speeds are guaranteed to make you squeal with pleasure. I love using this toy on seasoned as well as virgin butts. It’s a favorite of mine and my friends. I invite you to try it.

Now, this next part determines how slutty your virgin ass is. Do I need to use my smallest dildo, or can I start with something bigger?

Most of the time we start with my smallest burgundy strap-on. I keep 4 cocks mounted and ready to go. My harness of choice is the Terra Firma with buckle by Stormy Leather.  While I often start with the slimmest dildo, there have been a few butts able to start 1 or 2 steps larger. In fact, this happened yesterday.

Doggie style. A self portrait.

I like to have my guest take my cock on all fours while kneeling on my chaise lounge. I love the view, and it’s such a good height. Sometimes, this angle doesn’t work well for a virgin butt. I find having my slut lay on his back on my massage table with his legs up is a fun and easy way to slip in. Plus, this really is the ultimate roll reversal. I get to be the man, and he takes it like the little bitch he is.

I feel I am a fabulous butt-fucker. I suggest if you are curious about being pegged and are a newbie, you can’t go wrong with me.

Paul was a butt virgin, now he’s a regular. He takes my biggest cocks and begs for more. This is what he had to say:

“Getting pegged was such an intense feeling. It made me crave it bigger and deeper.”  And trust me folks, he does.

So many men started out with my small dong, now they crave the biggest things I have. And I am always adding to my collection.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Dude Looks Like a Lady.

Tiffany wearing items from Hustler’s BDSM line!

“So never judge a book by its cover”

Tiffany came back to town. She was all riled up and ready to play. Thoroughly excited to see me, the slut called and texted several times before our session. Because she was so frisky, I knew I had to get her in line. I planned an elaborate homework assignment.

We opted for a split session, with shopping at the San Jose’s Hustler Hollywood store on Thursday evening followed by a two hour session Friday morning. 

Before shopping, she took Uber to my place and I locked her in chastity and put her in pink panties. Then, we hopped in my car and went to the store. I wanted to look at anal toys, and she wanted slutty clothes. Both are available there. She came away with a few nice things. I came away with ideas…

After Hustler, I dropped her off at her hotel with a bag of items and a homework assignment. The bag contained a bottle of water and a bar of chocolate (for refreshment) anal trainer, lube, rubbers, paper and clothespins.

She was told to make good videos for me because she would be graded. Additional grades will come from the feedback of this blog, so please comment.

Her instructions:

Record this:

1.  Insert condom-clad butt plug in butt.

2. Sit at the table with butt plug in and write 25 times “I am a slut, with a plug in my butt.”  Use properspelling and punctuation. Points will be deducted if not followed.
 
3. Put on stockings and panties and clothes pins on nipples. Dance around to “Dude looks like a lady” by Aerosmith. Grading will be on sexiness of the dance and enthusiasm.
 
4. To the song “Hurts so good” by John Mellencamp, set dildo on the bathtub rim and slide up and down on it.
 
5. Unlock cage and edge yourself 10x. Grading will be on how close you can get to the edge without cumming. If you cum, you must eat it. You will receive a failing grade if you cum.
 
6. Lock yourself back up and sleep with key around neck.
 
Don’t record this:
 
7. Give yourself an enema before arriving at my house.
 
The next morning Tiff arrived bright eyed and bushy tailed, wearing a bejeweled butt plug, chastity device and her fancy lingerie under her unassuming tech worker clothes.
 
We settled in to watch the videos. I have to say, they made me blush a

Love put me wise to her love in disguise
She had the body of a Venus, Lord, imagine my surprise!

little, especially the one where she rode the anal trainer. This was a funny sensation since Mistress J sees men in the depths of depravity every day. But I liked it. Up to the playroom we went, and things got really dirty there…
 
She admitted the homework assignments got her even deeper in to submissive heads pace, and made her super horny. She admitted it was hard not to cum during the edging assignment, and I saw this struggle on her face in the video,
 
Tiffany has this to say about the homework: “The homework assignments were a great way to feel my Mistress’ control outside of her room”
 
Slut Tiffany has a nice, petite body. (She can wear my shoes.) I made her strut around the room flaunting her sexuality.
 
Tiffany was really horny. She hadn’t cum for a week and she kept begging to be let out of her cage. She was subsequently punished for being annoying.
 
I keep a small wardrobe for her here. She’s the only one who can wear such small clothes. I put her in her denim dress and was shocked that her chastity device created unsightly and unfeminine bulges.
 
Tiffany has become quite the mouth and ass slut. She also enjoys bondage. I bound her arms behind her back and made her suck big cock. She gagged and drooled.
 
I wanted to tease her as much as I could, so I flipped her on her back and played with her boy pussy. I opened her up nice and wide then got out my Liberator and Dick-on-a-stick. She rode that thing with her arms bound behind her back. That dirty whore! She was moaning and groaning and begging to let me out of her cage. Pre-cum dripped through the crevices of the chastity cage leaving a pool on the tip of her clit. Her pussy was soaking wet.
 
 I stripped off her dress and gave her a sissy lip gag. This resulted in more drool. She sucked on her favorite Popsicle until tears came out of her eyes and snot dripped out her nose. Down on all fours, she got fucked with the very thing she just ate!  Nasty.
 
More bondage, more butt play, finally a release from the cage. She endured as much edging as she could, then begged to cum. I denied her request and the bitch was so horny, her cum slipped out and I quickly captured it in a Dixie cup and forced her to swallow. She’s good at that. 
 
I know she will return, and I will have some homework ready!
 

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 
 
 
 
 
 

 

 

Cum on Boys, Eat Up!

This is a bit of taboo subject. But many men enjoy cum eating.

Some like it hot, some like it cold. Some like it forced into their mouth, while doing what they’re told.

I feel turnabout is fair play. If a man wants a woman to swallow his spunk, he can to the same. Cum eating and cum facials  on any gender, should always be consensual. If it’s not consensual, you’re a prick, plain and simple. For the purposes of this post, I am talking about consensual cum eating and humiliation escapades here at the studio.

My boys want to feel submissive. And society says a straight man eating his cum is a no-no. With me, it’s a go-go.

Because of societal shame, being “forced” to take it is a turn on. They have no choice. These guys love being humiliated. I’ve spoon fed them their cum, had them lick it off my hand or fed it to them in a Dixie cup. Drink up Johnny! Get it while it’s hot.

My personal experience tells me a cum shot has a shelf life of 3 seconds then it becomes unpalatable, so it must be consumed quickly. For me, the taste isn’t bad, but the texture is. What do you think?

Because of the short shelf life, delayed consumption adds to the humiliation. A favorite story of mine, with a favorite guest of mine, went like this:

I brought a baggie into our session and captured his load. I placed it into a paper bag with his name on it and froze it. Several months passed and I was waiting for the right opportunity to come (ha ha) where I could feed him his frozen treat. He mentioned he wanted to try cum eating, and the funny thing is, I had decided that day was the day. I am often in sync with my guests.

Poor Mike was in bondage standing up, arms suspended from the ceiling. I popped his soggy cumsicle into his mouth, and he gagged a little when he swallowed. He looked shocked.

I relayed this experience to two girlfriends and they laughed at his gagging. You see, we have all been there…

If you have some power behind your shot, I can aim “it” and have you shoot directly into your mouth! Perhaps you are feeling athletic? I can bend you into a half circle and you can shoot it in!

My new sling makes it easy for self made facials as you are lying in a comfortable dip. The distance is shorter so your target is easier! As a matter of fact, shortly after I wrote this post, my afternoon guest did exactly this!

Anyway you slice it, cum eating is a fun activity! Cum visit me at my studio and give it a shot.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

The Stockings Were Hung by the Chimney With Care…

with hopes that Mistress J soon would be there!

Some men have a really strong stocking/antyhose fetish. So strong that the sight and feeling of silky stockings send them straight into subspace. This post is for the guys who like stockings.

My favorite thing to do to a fetishist is to torment and tease them by rubbing my feet all over them, in the back and the front. I have also used my stockings for bondage and gags when necessary.

This happened recently:

First, my slut strips down to his proper uniform and, naked, shows his appreciation for the honor of worshiping my feet. He plants a kiss on my shoe, then gently slides them off. I always require a massage, and when I feel ready, I proceed with the teasing.

My silky feet caress his naked body leaving no area untouched. I feel his excitement grow, and use it to my advantage. I have very talented toes. They like to grab things.

I have him rub his cock with my black-clad tootsies. I tell him to fuck my feet. He obeys…

He is then forced to lick my feet after they have been all over his cock. I hope he can taste his pre-cum and smell his balls. 

I bend him over and my horny feet run over his butt. I poke his butt hole with my toe. He likes it.

I kneel on the couch and with a nice view of my ass, he is forced to fuck my feet again. He is close to edging. He must beg to be allowed to cum.

The slut gets turned over again. I am going to make this man cum on my stockings. He’s told to stand up and as I caress his nipples he masturbates. I tell him to get close to the edge. Now he’s close. So i rum his man parts with my stockinged feet. He’s in heaven now and explodes.  I feel his warm gooey cum through the fabric of my stocking. I then have him peel off the soiled items and wipe my legs.

Now go home.

If you have a stocking fetish and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

Wax and Wane. A tale of wax play.

Mistress J has a steady stream of regular clients with particular interests. Today’s blog post features Moe,* a gentleman who is really into the art of wax play.

Always on the lookout for things to delight my guests, I came across these body wax candles . from Agreeable Agony when I was at DomCon this past May. I bought them with Moe in mind. You see, not only are they beautiful, but they come in glass pitchers that allow for a nice pour, and Mistress doesn’t get her fingers scorched. They burn at a slightly lower temperature, and I can usually peel them off in a long, sexy strip.

Such agreeable clean up

I start of his session by securing him to the table and warming him up with a nice, sensual massage, rubbing the warmed oil over his body. A coat of oil provides a nice barrier for the wax, and the dried wax comes off easier. After I get his body tingling with sensations, I randomly pour the hot, melted wax on him.

rollin’, rollin’ rollin’ RAWhide!

For added effect, I often use my ice roller. Moe is a huge sensation slut and likes the alternating feeling of heat and ice. Sometimes he even screams as the hot wax drips into a sensitive or intimate area… But he must like it, he keeps coming back.

We have conducted very comprehensive and scientific studies on the candles and have reached these conclusions:

The cheap candles burn the hottest. Moe likes those best, as he’s a wax slut. They are however, the most difficult to clean up because they crumble like crazy and make a big mess.

Variety is the spice of life!

Miss J pours it on thick.

The Agreeable Agony candles are my favorite. I love the pitcher for ease of pouring and also really enjoy peeling the wax off of his body. I aim to peel the whole strip off without it breaking. Look at the photo for an example of what I’m talking about.

The English citron candles I use to make the house smell good are also nice, and sit firmly in the middle of the rating scale. They come in a glass jar, which is handy, and they don’t crumble as much as the cheap ones, and they’re by far the best smelling ones I use.

So, to make the most of it, I use every type of candle I have and let Moe enjoy them, one by one, drip by drip.

Cleaning the wax off of him is fun for the both of us, and sometimes I thinks it’s my favorite part of the session, aside from Moe’s screams. As i mentioned earlier, I love peeling off long strips of wax. Bur what about the other types? Well, those metal claws I have come in handy. I use one to scrape off the chunks. It provides an interesting sensation for Moe and I think is even a little scary.

After tormenting his back, I turn him over and start all over again!

If you have a hankerin’ for wax play, and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*not his real name.

A Tale of Two Sissies

Actually, it was one sissy, but she saw me twice.

Someone is happy to see me.

Tiffany was trapped inside of a young, Asian male’s body. She longed for freedom, but lacked a safe place for expression. Tiffany had never sucked cock, but wanted to. She had never been pounded up the ass, but desired it. Tiffany had never worn stockings, heels or lingerie and cried herself to sleep for longing

Then one day, while visiting San Jose, she called Mistress J Studios. Mistress J invited her over they had fun together. Tiffany tried on some lacy undies and a bra. She walked in heels for the first time, stumbling only once.

Tiffany went through a strict training regimen. First, she had to warm up her throat on a series of rubber dongs. I stick them on a mirror and it become my glory hole. The slut kneeled down and worked the cocks well. Each time she went a little deeper and after mastering one cock, she moved on to a bigger one.

After the cock sucking, it was time to work on the clit and pussy.I like to have my sluts wear open crotch panties. That way I have access to the goods and the lingerie can stay on. The sissy’s boy clit (cock) and boy pussy (ass) gets a good workout, and she remains feminine.

She leaned against the cross facing me first. I slapped her clitty and pinched her nipples. Other types of play occurred, and after a while, she was instructed to turn around and present her pussy to me. She complied, and enjoyed a series of swats, pinches and floggings on her butt and back.

Finally, it was time for anal/pussy training. Spread out and chained pussy up on the floor she eagerly awaited my gloved fingers. After getting her tight hole a little looser, she was begging for more.

I won’t go into any more sordid details, but Tiffany got the training she needed. She was filled to the brim and went home a satisfied lady.

But wait, there’s more!  

Business brought the slut back to the bay Area and she continued with her training. A full makeover took place and I decided

Three cheers for the red, white and blue!

to dress her up like a trashy girl. She was also treated like one.  It sure is fun watching these girls blossom and spread their, um, wings.

Tiffany showed her true colors, taking it like a champ. She is a patriotic princess and believes in the freedom to be a slut!

If you have a hidden sissy and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

A Few More (new) Things…

Talk about Spring Cleaning!

I thought I’d use the first day of summer to talk about all the spring changes I made here at my humble abode. The condo was painted from top to bottom. New carpeting was installed on the stairs, landing and my bedroom. Now the best part: Laminate Flooring!

The entire downstairs and my playroom boast beautiful Pergo floors. It’s so pretty and durable. I invite you to come and book a session to see them in person!

Here is a pano shot of my playroom: 

X marks the spot!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The cross has been re-stained and is now mounted on the wall. It opens the floor quite a bit and creates a nice focal point.

 

A friend bought me a leather sling for my birthday. I have been wanting one forever, and now I have one! Let me know if you wanna take a ride! 

 

sling-a-ding-ding

 

 

 

 

 

I’m so happy with my updated space. I think you’ll like it too. As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

A Mistress Among Many. Miss J Went to DomCon LA!

Last month, I attended DomCon in LA. It was a birthday gift to myself, as I have always wanted to attend. DomCon was celebrating it’s 15th anniversary, and it was the weekend after my birthday, so it seemed like a good sign I should attend. I was only there for the weekend, from May 11-13, but the convention runs for a whole week.

I have attended many kink events here in the Bay Area. Many have been FemmeDomme oriented and others mixed energy. As a female dominant, I enjoy events with strong female energy, and while this was an event for both female and male dominants, there was LOTS of fabulous FemmeDomme energy swirling around. DomCon is an event for professionals and lifestyle enthusiasts alike, and was started by Mistress Cyan. You can read the history of DomCon here.

One of my favorite activities was sitting in the hotel lobby watching the non-kinky folk stare at the convention attendees gathered in the lobby. Folks were dressed in their finest leather, rubber, vinyl, lacy, black red, BDSM outfits. The actual convention area was blocked off and had security, but us kinksters enjoyed the lobby and restaurants as well.

It was very empowering for me to be at an event with such a strong female dominant presence, and one that acknowledged the legitimacy of professional domination. I enjoyed being a part of the Dominant women who strutted about, using their sexuality as a possible weapon and not getting punished for it I loved seeing Dommes of ALL ages being trailed by their submissives, especially the male ones. No catcalls, no grabbing, just being admired.

It’s also a gender fluid environment. I liked seeing altar egos or true genders embraced and on display as some people born with boy parts freely exhibited their feminine side and wore dresses in PUBLIC! There was even a cross-dressing pageant hosted by Alice in Bondageland. My sissy had broken out in hives, so we didn’t compete this year.

To be able to do this and not get harassed is something many cis-gendered white men cannot appreciate. They take this freedom for granted. I felt at this convention, the playing field was even, if not reversed. And it was FUN!

Shopping:

The shopping was fantastic and I bought a few things in the incredible vendor area. I love new things!

The soft green flogger is from Bunny Flogger. This one is so much fuller and heavier than my previous one. It has such a nice swing to it and throws nicely. This is perfect for sensual play.

I call the red thing my Dragon’s Tongue. It can provide a sensual little lick with the tip or provide a stingy swat. It depends on my mood. This was purchased from Agreeable Agony, and it was exactly what I was looking for to add to my tools.    

Another thing at the Agreeable Agony booth caught my eye. These beautiful soy candles in the glass pitcher. I have a few friends that like wax play and these keep Mistress J’s fingers from getting burned. They also clean up nicely.

Leather by Danny had these cute little CBT boards. I really like this because the cock stays in place and I can torment it any way I like. I was being nice here, I used a shoe lace. But for really bad boys, I have some scratchy twine that will feel great on those tender parts.

Intrigued? Contact me. I’d love to use my new toys on you!

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

May is My Birthday Month. Read Some Birthday Porn.

This is a made up fantasy. A product of my deviant and dirty mind. Enjoy.

(This is not offered in a session pervs, please don’t ask.)

 

Another year passes, time to add another candle to the cake!

My slut knows I enjoy my birthday, and that I enjoy presents. The slut arrives at my house, wearing a  trench coat and a very strategically placed big red bow and nothing else.

At my nod he drops the coat and kneels in the middle of the living room. I am wearing a black see-through lace chemise without panties and silver stilettos. I slowly circle the boy, caressing his shoulders. I am wet with anticipation of unwrapping my gift. I notice the bow has moved and seems to be sticking further out. I tell him to kiss my feet and he obeys.

I lay the boy on his back and place a thin pillow under his head and a thicker one under his pelvis. Then, I tie his arms to the TV cabinet and his legs to the feet of the couch. He is a perfect starfish. Open, vulnerable and helpless.

I crouch over him and the slut gets a nice view of my creamy pussy. I decide I want some nice oral worship so I ride my sluts face. I alternate between smothering him and allowing him to fully taste and lick me. At intervals, I order him to gently bite and suck on my lips and penetrate me with his tongue.

The slut’s bow is standing at attention and I slide off his face and give him a good slap on the cock. I love the way his body twitches when I slap him.

I strap a chin dildo on this face then climb back on, taking my fill and pleasure on the large dildo. He squirms, being so close, but yet so far away from the prize he was so recently worshiping. I can tell he wants my lips back on his face. But I let him suffer as I fuck his face.

Wanting more, I slide off and rip off the purple bow. I slap his cock a few more times and it becomes super hard and red, dripping with white pre-cum that slides down to his balls. I am now hungry for my man’s meat, so I slowly impale him with my wet pussy. We both gasp with pleasure at that first touch. I love being in control of my fuck toy and I use him with pleasure and gusto.

I alternate between riding him slow and deep then hard and fast. His hips thrust wildly, the only movement his body can make. I keep him on the edge, when I feel him getting close, I slow down, or slap his face. I use him.

He is my gift. My present and it is my birthday. It is all about me taking my pleasure how I see fit and I ride him until I come. I come hard and it drips down his cock forming a puddle at the base.

He wants to come, but I don’t let him. He whimpers in pleasure and pain at being denied. He loves to be used by me. He is just my pleasure object and he knows it.

I got what I wanted on my birthday. I got my bitch. 😉

Harness the Energy! Can a harness help in strap-on play?

The short answer is hell ya! But I digress.

A friend was over today, and as I was shoving one dildo up his butt, and another in his mouth, I wondered if I could somehow harness this sexy energy and generate electricity. If I could, imagine how low my power bills would go!

If anyone out there knows how I could do this, drop me a line. Trust me, by the sheer volume of my pervy friends, we could become rich if we could generate, harness, store and sell the electricity produced by this unique activity.

Speaking of harnesses, I have two. I have the Doggie Style strap and the Luv Rydr. I purchased the doggie strap from Curvy Girl, and Texas Tim gave me the Luv Rydr.

Both harnesses can be used on women for PIV experiences or on men for pegging.

So, What do these harnesses do? They enhance the experience of the receiver and assist the giver. I call it a

Who let the dogs out?

win-win Jim. 

In the case of the doggie strap, the giver enjoys having most of the pressure off the lower back. She can lean back and have her body weight balance her body. By gripping the handles, and she can use her arms to create motion.

The receiver enjoys a deep feeling of penetration. The padded strap slides under the belly, and when the giver lifts the strap, a wonderful feeling of deepness occurs. 

The doggie strap has been well received and has been my favorite until the Luv Rydr showed up…

I’M TOO SEXY…

So, the first thought on this thing  is: “What the hell. This thing is butt ugly.” Look at it, it’s ridiculous! But, never judge book by it’s cover. Despite the clownish appearance, this thing gets the job done!

The device hooks over the arms, and there is an adjustable strap attached to the padded handle. The arm straps connect to a padded chest piece and there are no pressure points to make the experience uncomfortable for the wearer.

The giver grabs the paddled handle, and despite thinking of trapezes, gets to work.

When I was pounding Texas Tim, I couldn’t feel any stress points either. I didn’t think the thing was working, But Tim told me otherwise.

“Very good, the experience, lived up to how I had imaged it. The leather was soft, and I felt controlled by you as you pulled back on the handle. I had to move back to you or at least stay put as I could not move away from your thrusting deep into me. I felt like you were pounding me harder and deeper.

It helps get me into a sub-space where I knew I was a plaything for your use. Adding into that my legs were chained and spread open, I felt completely at your mercy. I was doing my best to please you so that the lesson that you own my ass would not require a larger Mistress cock. Knowing that if you had decided to go bigger, there I was in no position to refuse. (I know I always have my safe words) but when you take me to that place where I feel safe being submissive I enjoy feeling completely under your control. 

So yes, I think the harness was a great gift I hope you enjoyed using it on me.”

See pervy peeps, the Luv Ryder is so well designed, it takes the pressure off, so to speak, and real work can be accomplished.

A female receiver reviewed the Luv Rydr:

“As the “receiver” of the fun, wearing it did make me feel very objectified and the feeling  that “I only exist to be f****ed”. 

As the person wearing it, it is very comfortable. The stress on the body is very well distributed over the shoulders, so it’s really easy to wear for a long time.  Nothing rubbing strangely or scratchy.

The harness did lead to me being f****ed silly for a very long time. I like it very hard and intense so it did add to that kind of fun.  It created very deep penetration and I had that feeling (that I love) like I cannot get away, and I just have to take it. That makes me so turned on.  So much fun.”

Based on my recommendation, a male friend bought his own Luv Rydr and used it on his female partner. He said:

“The Luv Rydr harness works in the same manner as the doggie strap, giving you handles, but it holds the whole person.  It allows you to make sure your partner can’t get away and you can get great pressure.  It’s holding them on the shoulders, really keeping them in place.  It can even allow different angles that normally can’t be done more than a pump.  Since it’s on the shoulder and a sturdy point to harness, you can balance yourself and pound away.”

So there you have it folks. I use these things for a reason, and, that reason is you! And in case you were wondering, I did not receive any compensation from these fine companies.

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Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.