The Initiation of a Reserved, Yet Eager Slut.

He was so nervous when he arrived. His hands were shaking, couldn’t make eye contact, stumbled on his words. As he sat in my red chair of interrogation, small beads of sweat appeared on his brow.

“What brings you to my studio today?” I asked. 

“I think with my cock and I deserve to be abused and punished for having slutty thoughts.” he said. I am a filthy minded degenerate. I want to experience the ultimate role reversal, but I am scared. I desire to feel submission to a Goddess like you.”

Since I am used to breaking in newbies, I knew how to handle the situation. He headed upstairs to the playroom and as instructed, he stripped and waited for me to arrive. He was so shy, he hid his bits with his hands. He didn’t want me to see his growing manhood. But I knew what was happening.

I could see his fingers fiddling around his member. His cock had grown now and was peeking out between his fingers. He did not have permission to play with this thing, he was doing it on his own! Bad boy! I made him stand up and put his hands behind him. On went the handcuffs because this filthy brat was not going to touch his willy- willy nilly. How dare he presume so much.

I bent him over a table and gave his bottom a few whacks with my hand to start. Then I spanked him with a hairbrush because he was starting to drip precum. I made him get down on all fours and lick it off the carpet, getting the taste of his sperm and carpet fibers in one nice long lick. 

You readers probably know by now Mistress J likes to have a man face down on the floor with his but high in the air. Taking advantage of the access, I decided to punish him for having a red, dripping cock. A cock that rules his thoughts. A cock that has his balls loaded with cum forcing him to think like a slut. A hairy cock. An uncontrollable cock that needed to be controlled. And by me, Mistress J.

So, he got his balls zapped.

He flinched in shock and surprise, maybe a little pain, but also pleasure.  They were then pressed between two dowels and zapped again, and at a higher wattage. What did my eyes see? His cock actually got harder and redder and dripped a little more. He apologized for these terrible transgressions. 

“I’m sorry my cock has a mind of it’s own.” he cried. “I am a dirty slut. Please help me Mistress!”

This man was completely unworthy of help and needed more attitude adjustment. He needed to pay for his cock. 

But in order to pay for his cock, he needed to pay with his ass. So I strapped on a cock of my own and slid it into his lubed up ass. All while he was face down in a puddle of precum. 

The slut groaned with pleasure and I could tell he had been practicing at home. His hole opened up so nicely for me. I fucked him like that for a while, then grew tired of doing all this work on an ungrateful booty. Why should I work up a sweat on this slut?

I need the big guns to really put this boy in his place. So he was then spread out over the table, shackled in place, hands still cuffed behind him, then it happened. I inserted my fuck-saw, drill-do into his ass and let my power tool do the work! Vibration sensation and a dick on a stick. He finally got what was coming to him.

But was he allowed to cum? No. He went home loaded.

 

Just Horsing Around With Mistress J. A Tail about Horseplay.

A horse is a horse of course, unless you are a bondage pain slut. Debbie returned for more fun and pleasure. Debbie likes bondage and harnesses, as I didn’t want to look a gift horse in the mouth, I took this little filly out to my pasture.

Debbie was instructed to pound a few metal stakes into the ground for her hitching post. As you all have read before, my yard isn’t real grass. so the earth underneath the plastic blades is very hard and rocky. Debbie was a real downer and BROKE the hammer I had since my design days at FIDM! A vintage hammer one might say.

After she managed to pitch her hitching post, I got to play around with my filly. The first thing I did was geld her. I didn’t want any sex hormones making her feisty. The filly had a ponytail, but due to her standing, it kept sliding out!

As she was demonstrating herself to be a bucking Bronco, restraints were put on, and in many place. I had to hold that filly still.

I had to teach her some discipline. She got a got spanking, I inspected her anus, clamped those nipples, etc.  I didn’t want to ride her hard without putting her away wet, so I had to give my little pony a bath! Mind you, it was a cold winter day, despite the sun being out, and this gal had to endure a cold blast of water from my hose.

 

I made sure she got scrubbed and rinsed with dish soap. I used Palmolive. Why? Because you’re soaking in it. The cold water and brisk winter air made the stiff bristles of the brush sting more than usual. As you can see, I made sure ALL parts got squeaky clean. Rinsing her off with icy cold water was fun. You can say I led her to water AND made her drink.

I saddled up the filly and rode her into the playroom. There we engaged in activities to break her in. Bondage, extreme nipple torture, vibration play and spankings turned my little pony Debbie into a mild mannered ride.

A funny thing happened while she was on her back and I had her legs hanging from the ceiling with the spreader bar, her right leg cramped up. Yes, indeed, she got a charley horse! I had to take her lags down and give a massage.

And, as per usual with this gal, she had to eat her cum! And through her harness too!

If you are in the mood for bondage, humiliation and torture (with or without an animal theme) with me, please reach out.

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Driving Miss Daisy. A slut gets his petals plucked.

Recently, a woman contacted me because her boyfriend had been acting up and was being unusually feisty. They have a long distance relationship, so she requested my help in taming the shrew. I named this person Daisy, and I was really looking forward to plucking her petals!

The girlfriend requested I film the juicy parts of the session*, so she could enjoy watching and humiliating him over and over when he visited her. She supplied a camera, and I happily complied.

Daisy likes to be treated rough, and knew she had to spend 4 hours with me, but prior to that, she was sent to a friend of the girlfriend for prepping. When Daisy showed up on my doorstep, she was in chastity, freshly enema’d balls shaved, shocking butt plug inserted and, of course, showered. She was literally, as fresh as a daisy! She brought along a black duffel bag full of surprises and a bag of gifts for me.

As soon as she came in, I put a hood on her, gagged her and tied her wrists. I took the bag and guided her up the stairs to the playroom with my leash and dog collar. I sat her down and unpacked the bag of surprises. Daisy had a nice set of white lingerie; bra, panties, stocking garter belt. a selection of clothes, and really slutty shoes.

I set up the video camera on a tripod and soon Daisy was ready for her closeup.

I stripped her, did my usual inspection. Daisy’s legs were hairy. A few shocks to the ass were given for this oversight, then, arms were chained to the ceiling as I shaved her legs. If you look carefully at the photo, you will see she is wearing a key. That is the key to her chastity device in case I felt she deserved release.

Next came the feminization. Tied to a chair daisy endured a makeover complete with custom foundation, lashes and wig. She looked so pretty. Next came my favorite part, dressing her! I always liked dolls, and dressing up a sissy is like playing with a big doll. There were several outfits supplied by the girlfriend, and I chose something sexy and summery. A hot pink pencil skirt with a white blouse and slutty hot pink platform shoes so tall she could barely walk in! This went over her white lingerie of course. I also accessorized with gold and pink jewelry. A classy sexy summer secretary indeed.

Daisy was subjected to countless humiliations. Floggings, spankings, zappings, clothespins on her pussy lips, metal nipple clamps tied to her boy clit, bondage, etc. If she didn’t comply, a sharp shock to the ass ensued. 

Daisy had to prove her sluttiness by sucking my cock and the wall of cocks, and again, if she didn’t do it right, you know what happened…

Finally, I took out her butt plug and slowly opened her pussy with a cock. She moaned in pleasure and begged for more. She is a bondage slut, so I attached a spreader bar to her legs, and in the front, her wrists. I hooked her up to the ceiling with an ANAL HOOK.

But wait, there is more.

The slut had a head harness, and the harness pulled her head back and was attached to the ceiling chain. Then she was forced to dry hump the floor. It must have been hard to do with her head arched back and her arms and legs spread open. But she seemed to enjoy it. 

A tasty treat!

Daisy’s girlfriend told me she always makes her clean up her mess, and she had been instructed not to self pleasure for 10 days. I was excited about the possibility of forcing the girl to be a filthy dirty whore, so after removing the chastity cage, I made her cum into a dish and she had to swallow her huge 10 day load! Look at the volume. I bet it was yummy. What do you think it tasted like?

I hope you enjoyed reading about Daisy. I can create a custom experience for you, that may or may not involve panties.

*No sissies were harmed in the filming or writing of this blog.

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My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

What to Expect When You’re Expecting~Mistress J to Open

What a long strange trip it has been.

After a long hiatus due to Covid19 and the health orders, the studio is cautiously reopening. A great many changes have taken place here at the studio.

The biggest change is my location! I sold the condo and bought a house a mile and a half away from the old place. Featuring a bigger playroom, air conditioning and a fireplace, Mistress J is ready to see her guests in comfort.

I moved at the beginning of the shelter in place and the quiet time allowed me to get my house and playroom in order. Though I will admit to constantly tweaking and adding exciting new things. I have also taken up gardening, which is very zen. I am expecting a very unique flower pot very soon that will be the PERFECT addition to my playroom.

Spank-a-doodle -do!

For example, a favorite purchase is this incredibly sexy spanking/fucking bench. You may have noticed I love red and black in my playroom, so I opted for the red bench. She is sooooo pretty. So far it seems to be a big hit. I love the restraints. I can’t have my guest wiggling away when I torment them.  Who wants to take a ride? 

In addition to these lovely items, I have some cute signage so people don’t get lost or forget where they are.

But what about the virus you ask? Well, let me tell you. I have purchased this air purifier that kills micro-organisms with a UV light. This will be on during our sessions. You will be asked to shower before we begin playing. As soon as we are done, I will immediately open the sliding glass door to let in sun and fresh air, and spray everything with alcohol and lemon myrtle. 

Once you leave the building, a cleaning I will go! Bathroom, playroom, hallway, doorknobs, switches, bottles, toys, pillows, furniture and equipment will get bleached or sanitized with cavi-wipes. 

I will only be seeing 1 person a day for a while. I stay home most of the time, enjoying my home with the exception to shop. I keep my house clean and feel I provide a healthy environment for my guests. I will expect the courtesy of letting me know if you feel under the weather so we can reschedule, and temperatures might be taken. Masks can also add to the fun!

There is nothing more sexy than safety!

 

*As of 3/31/21, Mistress J has had her first Covid vaccine! 

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Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

CBT means your cock belongs to ME!

Mistress J picked a pack of pickled peckers!

When you enter the doors of Mistress J’s studio, you have agreed to become my plaything. What does Mistress like best? You guessed it, your penis.

Call it whatever you like; a cock, dick, boy clit, etc, the fact is, I get to play with it.  You have very little choice in the matter.

CBT (cock, ball torture) can be a hard, ball busting experience, but it can also be soft and sensual. It depends on the guest’s preference. Let’s talk tough today, I’m in a mood.

By now I am sure you are wondering what evil plans might Mistress J have for your manhood. Here are a few examples from very satisfied guests.

Chastity is a common fantasy, but few dare to explore the ultimate “mind” control. That’s right, men think with their dicks. I’ll cage your brain and  reduce you to quivering flesh. You’ll love the feeling of your arousal pressing against the steel or plastic cage, unable to grow. You can’t touch it. It frustrates you. I laugh and torment it as much as I like.

I like to grab things with my toes, and balls are the perfect size for grabbing and pulling.

Then, we have those cocks that need to be beaten into submission. A few firm wacks often do the trick. Did you know that there are a few men out there that get so aroused by penis smacking, they actually edge! Edging, in case you didn’t know, is when someone gets close to climax.

You won’t be board if your penis is on board!

I have many tools for penis smacking. Those include my hands, various paddles and floggers, and to provide support for all this, I have my penis board! It holds your member in place and I can smack away! 

One of the cruelest toys, and a personal favorite is my parachute. This leather beauty has tiny silver spikes on the inside. It fastens around the balls and pulls them down. Imagine a hundred little cat claws grabbing onto your balls! Such pleasurable pain!

Now, to add insult to injury, I have a few weights to add to the chains on the parachute. Why weight? It feels good! Don’t wait to try the parachute. 

Hair clips and clothespins are FANTASTIC CBT tools. I picked up these hand painted beauties in Poland and use them often. When I use the whole set it looks like a smile.

Wanna put a smile on my face? Book a session with me and let me play with your family jewels!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Barefoot in the Park with Tiffany

 

Our slut enjoys exercise. She also enjoys showing off her body. So what better way to combine the two than to take her to a local park for some outdoor exercise!

When she told me she’d be in town on 8/8, I started planning her outfit. Tight shorts, sports bra, gaff panty, socks and a hat were purchased. I even sprung for a new wig and tramp stamp temporary tattoo. She was going to be gorgeous. 

I picked a local park, Almaden Lake, which is near me and usually quiet on the trail, especially during the week. There is a par course and secluded areas around it. An ideal setting for sluts to display their athletic ability.

I have to admit, this session was full of mishaps, but we had fun anyway, and got some great shots.

Tiffany arrived bright eyed and bushy tailed Thursday morning. I had acquired a butt plug with rattles inside. How embarrassing to be jogging and making butt noise at the same time. Well, the plug was too big for her tiny butt hole, so she had to run with her smaller dedicated jewel butt plug instead. 

Our intention was for her to arrive at the park partially dressed, go into the ladies bathroom, change, put on lipstick and come out.  As I mentioned, this park is usually quiet on a weekday morning, that particular day the park was CROWDED! 

Nice pussy.

There were at least 10 old men playing boccie ball in front of the bathrooms, with a brownie troop nearby. The pavilion by the trail head had a group of 20 kids and chaperones. Not to mention, there were tons of walkers circling the lake. It was a beautiful day. A nice 82 degrees with no humidity. I think that was the big draw.

Tiffany was a bit self conscious of her slutty shorts with well padded gaff, so we opted to park near the entrance to the trail right from the road, bypassing the lake entirely. In the car, she changed out of her sweats, but kept her pussy cat shirt on. We than proceeded to the trail eager to try her skill on the par course. That day, it seemed like every single retired person was walking their dog, not to mention the amount of bicyclists too. Holy moley.

I noted she was visibly worried, and she told me she feared her boy clit would poke through her shorts, and cause mayhem on the trail. I opted for a secluded spot off the trail and by the stream. She relaxed a bit and we did some warm up stretches.

Downward facing tramp.

Caught up in the serenity of the stream and surrounding trees, Tiffany was inspired to do some yoga. Downward dog was her favorite pose, as it showed off the tramp stamp and tight butt nicely.

I wanted the slut to do some Prancercise in the grass. Tiffany can be a bit of a diva, and almost cried because her new white socks got a little mud on them. Sigh.

Run Tiffany, Run!

I was irritated by her drama and made her play fetch. She liked the doggie pose so much, she needed to be treated like one!  I threw the ball to her and she brought it back to me in her mouth like a good puppy.

Tiffany is as fond of running as I am, so we headed to a different spot where she could show off her fine running form. Look at that stride! Look at those boobs! Those legs! Such a graceful runner!

Summer isn’t complete without baseball. She did a few laps around the ball field and ended with some sexy stretches. Did I mention the grounds crew was out getting the field ready for the afternoon little league game? Well, they were, and they gave our girl a few encouraging whistles.

Why did she feel more comfortable with the grounds crew than the folks at the park? She’s a whore that’s why. She’s always looking for attention.

Put me in coach, I’m ready to play. Today…

I decided she could go to work without release. That should teach her! I am the boss, and I control her cum.

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Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Slut Tiffany Returns for More Torture.

Tiffany keeps coming back. This East Coast slut always visits me when she’s in town on business.

I met her at her hotel on Friday evening to dress her for our shopping trip. I had purchased little red pegging panties for her and I was very excited to see them on her. I had a remote controlled vibrating butt plug, a chastity cage, and a shopping list! 

Mistress J prepares Tiffany’s ass for shopping in San Jose!

After saying our hellos, I bent her over the bed and lubed her up, gave her a quick warm-up and slid in the butt plug. She said it was VERY full. I shoved her boy clit into the chastity cage, and we went back to the Hustler Store. For some reason, Tiffany was walking funny in the hallway. Was it because her junk was imprisoned and she had a large bulb in her butt? I don’t know. I do know, she opted to take the stairs rather than the elevator, so it must have felt good!

We shopped at Tiffany’s favorite store where she bought a few outfits and a hood to make videos. I intermittently turned the butt plug on and off, and she was enjoying our game.

I sent her home with some tasks to complete before our 10:30 am appointment Saturday morning.  The tasks were to record herself doing the following things:

1. Tiffany, you are instructed to give a lesson on anal training.

  • Make sure your red panties get some screen time.
  • Use white board to prepare an outline/and or diagrams or tips. Erase board when necessary.
  • Use rubbers on dildos
  • Grading will be on ability to convey an idea.

2. Demonstrate how you can ride a dildo  Play “Mustang Sally” as you gyrate on the dildo. Sing along during the chorus. Grading will be on vocal talent and riding ability.

3. At 11 pm, record yourself writing 50 times “I’m a big whore and like to choke on cocks.” Grading is on neatness, legibility, uniform writing and overall presentation. Provide a shot of the clock.

4. At midnight, record yourself inserting ice cubes in ass. Provide a shot of the clock. Extra points will be given if you can insert more than 10.

5. In the morning record yourself putting on your dainty things under your street clothes. Take a shower with provided feminine smelling soap. Use soap all weekend. Have breakfast downstairs or outside with lingerie on under clothes. 

6. Sleep in chastity. Arrive with butt plug in place.

7. Wear pegging panties under street clothes all weekend, and fly home in them.

Grading:

Anal stuff: Tiffany did a great job explaining the anal training and riding the dildo. I personally felt she didn’t sing loud enough during the chorus of Mustang Sally, so points were deducted. Also, she was a little off key…

Ice cubes: Major points were deducted because she was unable to insert ice cubes in her ass. She said the shape wasn’t conducive to sliding in, or some baloney like that. A backup activity of an oral sex demonstration on a dildo was provided, and I must say, she did a good job with that and provided interesting camera angles.

Mistress J makes sub give a BJ in San Jose, CA

Sloppy BJs are the best!

Sentences: Tiffany did a great job writing her 50 sentences. This time, a blank paper was provided so she did not have the benefit of the lines. I feel her penmanship is fantastic. I did not deduct for all capital letters, because her writing is so easy to read. I love how uniform each sentence is, and how they practically line up down the whole page. Points were deducted however. She complained a little by saying 50 sentences is a lot…  Wait until next time Tiff.

On Saturday, Tiffany arrived on time. We watched and critiqued her videos downstairs, then went up to the playroom for the fun.

Since she wrote about sucking cocks, I wanted to see her cock sucking/chocking skills in action. She complied readily. Her greedy mouth satisfied my two spring colored cocks and gave very sloppy and noisy blow jobs.

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Pretty in pink.

Spring is my favorite season and Easter had just passed. I used to love going to my neighborhood Easter Egg hunt as a kid. Tiffany made a cute bunny, don’t you think? She hopped around the playroom as I hummed the Bunny Hop Song. Her basket was filled with Tenga eggs and since she was a good girl, she got to take one home.

Tiffany is a bondage and anal slut. So, up went the legs! I have hooks all over my playroom, so her legs were pried open with a spreader bar and attached to the ceiling, while her arms were above her head. I teased her boy pussy and enjoyed using my ice roller on her delicate parts.  Cock slapping, vibrator torture, more cock sucking & toe sucking occurred. 

Chastity in San JoseFinally, the chastity device came off! Poor Tiffany’s boy clit was in shock after being caged up for a night and morning. Despite it’s shriveled appearance, I was able to edge her several times. 

Tiff had saved her cum for a week in anticipation of our meeting. Needless to say, she was VERY sensitive and called out “edge” very early during the game. I used both my hands and my feet to edge her.

Finally, Tiffany was allowed her release. But into a condom. And she had to suck her juice out. Poor girl. Such a humiliating morning. I felt sorry for her, for 10 seconds.

But Tiffany is a trooper. She went up to San Francisco that night for more play. What can I say, girls really do just want to have fun.

Humiliation and exposure are my specialties! Mistress J in San Jose, CA

Humiliation and exposure are my specialties!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

A Tale of Two Sissies

Actually, it was one sissy, but she saw me twice.

Someone is happy to see me.

Tiffany was trapped inside of a young, Asian male’s body. She longed for freedom, but lacked a safe place for expression. Tiffany had never sucked cock, but wanted to. She had never been pounded up the ass, but desired it. Tiffany had never worn stockings, heels or lingerie and cried herself to sleep for longing

Then one day, while visiting San Jose, she called Mistress J Studios. Mistress J invited her over they had fun together. Tiffany tried on some lacy undies and a bra. She walked in heels for the first time, stumbling only once.

Tiffany went through a strict training regimen. First, she had to warm up her throat on a series of rubber dongs. I stick them on a mirror and it become my glory hole. The slut kneeled down and worked the cocks well. Each time she went a little deeper and after mastering one cock, she moved on to a bigger one.

After the cock sucking, it was time to work on the clit and pussy.I like to have my sluts wear open crotch panties. That way I have access to the goods and the lingerie can stay on. The sissy’s boy clit (cock) and boy pussy (ass) gets a good workout, and she remains feminine.

She leaned against the cross facing me first. I slapped her clitty and pinched her nipples. Other types of play occurred, and after a while, she was instructed to turn around and present her pussy to me. She complied, and enjoyed a series of swats, pinches and floggings on her butt and back.

Finally, it was time for anal/pussy training. Spread out and chained pussy up on the floor she eagerly awaited my gloved fingers. After getting her tight hole a little looser, she was begging for more.

I won’t go into any more sordid details, but Tiffany got the training she needed. She was filled to the brim and went home a satisfied lady.

But wait, there’s more!  

Business brought the slut back to the bay Area and she continued with her training. A full makeover took place and I decided

Three cheers for the red, white and blue!

to dress her up like a trashy girl. She was also treated like one.  It sure is fun watching these girls blossom and spread their, um, wings.

Tiffany showed her true colors, taking it like a champ. She is a patriotic princess and believes in the freedom to be a slut!

If you have a hidden sissy and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

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Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

May is My Birthday Month. Read Some Birthday Porn.

This is a made up fantasy. A product of my deviant and dirty mind. Enjoy.

(This is not offered in a session pervs, please don’t ask.)

 

Another year passes, time to add another candle to the cake!

My slut knows I enjoy my birthday, and that I enjoy presents. The slut arrives at my house, wearing a  trench coat and a very strategically placed big red bow and nothing else.

At my nod he drops the coat and kneels in the middle of the living room. I am wearing a black see-through lace chemise without panties and silver stilettos. I slowly circle the boy, caressing his shoulders. I am wet with anticipation of unwrapping my gift. I notice the bow has moved and seems to be sticking further out. I tell him to kiss my feet and he obeys.

I lay the boy on his back and place a thin pillow under his head and a thicker one under his pelvis. Then, I tie his arms to the TV cabinet and his legs to the feet of the couch. He is a perfect starfish. Open, vulnerable and helpless.

I crouch over him and the slut gets a nice view of my creamy pussy. I decide I want some nice oral worship so I ride my sluts face. I alternate between smothering him and allowing him to fully taste and lick me. At intervals, I order him to gently bite and suck on my lips and penetrate me with his tongue.

The slut’s bow is standing at attention and I slide off his face and give him a good slap on the cock. I love the way his body twitches when I slap him.

I strap a chin dildo on this face then climb back on, taking my fill and pleasure on the large dildo. He squirms, being so close, but yet so far away from the prize he was so recently worshiping. I can tell he wants my lips back on his face. But I let him suffer as I fuck his face.

Wanting more, I slide off and rip off the purple bow. I slap his cock a few more times and it becomes super hard and red, dripping with white pre-cum that slides down to his balls. I am now hungry for my man’s meat, so I slowly impale him with my wet pussy. We both gasp with pleasure at that first touch. I love being in control of my fuck toy and I use him with pleasure and gusto.

I alternate between riding him slow and deep then hard and fast. His hips thrust wildly, the only movement his body can make. I keep him on the edge, when I feel him getting close, I slow down, or slap his face. I use him.

He is my gift, my present, and it is my birthday. It is all about me taking my pleasure how I see fit and I ride him until I come. I come hard and it drips down his cock forming a puddle at the base.

He wants to come, but I don’t let him. He whimpers in pleasure and pain at being denied. He loves to be used by me. He is just my pleasure object and he knows it.

I got what I wanted on my birthday. I got my bitch. 😉

Harness the Energy! Can a harness help in strap-on play?

The short answer is hell ya! But I digress.

A friend was over today, and as I was shoving one dildo up his butt, and another in his mouth, I wondered if I could somehow harness this sexy energy and generate electricity. If I could, imagine how low my power bills would go!

If anyone out there knows how I could do this, drop me a line. Trust me, by the sheer volume of my pervy friends, we could become rich if we could generate, harness, store and sell the electricity produced by this unique activity.

Speaking of harnesses, I have two. I have the Doggie Style strap and the Luv Rydr. I purchased the doggie strap from Curvy Girl, and Texas Tim gave me the Luv Rydr.

Both harnesses can be used on women for PIV experiences or on men for pegging.

So, What do these harnesses do? They enhance the experience of the receiver and assist the giver. I call it a

Who let the dogs out?

win-win Jim. 

In the case of the doggie strap, the giver enjoys having most of the pressure off the lower back. She can lean back and have her body weight balance her body. By gripping the handles, and she can use her arms to create motion.

The receiver enjoys a deep feeling of penetration. The padded strap slides under the belly, and when the giver lifts the strap, a wonderful feeling of deepness occurs. 

The doggie strap has been well received and has been my favorite until the Luv Rydr showed up…

I’M TOO SEXY…

So, the first thought on this thing  is: “What the hell. This thing is butt ugly.” Look at it, it’s ridiculous! But, never judge book by it’s cover. Despite the clownish appearance, this thing gets the job done!

The device hooks over the arms, and there is an adjustable strap attached to the padded handle. The arm straps connect to a padded chest piece and there are no pressure points to make the experience uncomfortable for the wearer.

The giver grabs the paddled handle, and despite thinking of trapezes, gets to work.

When I was pounding Texas Tim, I couldn’t feel any stress points either. I didn’t think the thing was working, But Tim told me otherwise.

“Very good, the experience, lived up to how I had imaged it. The leather was soft, and I felt controlled by you as you pulled back on the handle. I had to move back to you or at least stay put as I could not move away from your thrusting deep into me. I felt like you were pounding me harder and deeper.

It helps get me into a sub-space where I knew I was a plaything for your use. Adding into that my legs were chained and spread open, I felt completely at your mercy. I was doing my best to please you so that the lesson that you own my ass would not require a larger Mistress cock. Knowing that if you had decided to go bigger, there I was in no position to refuse. (I know I always have my safe words) but when you take me to that place where I feel safe being submissive I enjoy feeling completely under your control. 

So yes, I think the harness was a great gift I hope you enjoyed using it on me.”

See pervy peeps, the Luv Ryder is so well designed, it takes the pressure off, so to speak, and real work can be accomplished.

A female receiver reviewed the Luv Rydr:

“As the “receiver” of the fun, wearing it did make me feel very objectified and the feeling  that “I only exist to be f****ed”. 

As the person wearing it, it is very comfortable. The stress on the body is very well distributed over the shoulders, so it’s really easy to wear for a long time.  Nothing rubbing strangely or scratchy.

The harness did lead to me being f****ed silly for a very long time. I like it very hard and intense so it did add to that kind of fun.  It created very deep penetration and I had that feeling (that I love) like I cannot get away, and I just have to take it. That makes me so turned on.  So much fun.”

Based on my recommendation, a male friend bought his own Luv Rydr and used it on his female partner. He said:

“The Luv Rydr harness works in the same manner as the doggie strap, giving you handles, but it holds the whole person.  It allows you to make sure your partner can’t get away and you can get great pressure.  It’s holding them on the shoulders, really keeping them in place.  It can even allow different angles that normally can’t be done more than a pump.  Since it’s on the shoulder and a sturdy point to harness, you can balance yourself and pound away.”

So there you have it folks. I use these things for a reason, and, that reason is you! And in case you were wondering, I did not receive any compensation from these fine companies.

ride, Sally ride.

As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.